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I'm naturally a friendly person when talking with girls, maybe a bit too friendly sometimes, making girls I don't like think I like them. How do I come across as just a friend to this girl and not someone flirting with her and leading her on?

2006-12-07 17:29:04 · 6 answers · asked by guitarman.87 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

Well, just act normal as if you're around any other regular person. Gender should NOT be a distraction if you are not trying to flirt. This doesn't mean that you should treat the girl like you would treat a guy (like don't make fart jokes), but treat them in a respectable way that doesn't get too touchy. Most girls are led on when you make eye contact or if you smile specifically at them. Casual eye contact and smiling is acceptable, but don't overdo it or I can guarentee the girl will think you are flirting with her. I hope I'm of help!

2006-12-07 17:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by liv 2 · 0 0

it is a natural problem, i grew up with all guys, and when a guys talks to me, im like one of the guys, they are totally comfortable around me, and when they say something i make a joke out of it, because i rather have a really good friend that has my back, then a boyfriend for like a month and loose them as a friend forever. they sometimes think im playing hard to get, but im not, i just dont want to go out with them, and im one of those girls that only like one guy at a time and not 3927593875 of them, and if we get caught in a conversation, i tend to lead it to a conclusion that i like them
just get used to it, its never going to change, they ask you out, which most girls wont, just say i dont feel that way about you, i like you as a friend and nothing else, just gently though, you dont want to crush them

2006-12-07 17:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mooshak 3 · 0 0

Come straight out and tell her u just want to be friends.

If she gets mad or keeps trying to flirt with u, then maybe shes not good friend material. And then its not right to keep being nice.

2006-12-07 17:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by M'Lyn 1 · 1 0

Don't worry pal,

This is gonna go on for the rest of your life (and it could be a good thing at times). It's out of your power, they like you, so it's their problem, not yours. Don't change your ways...

And when they do, do something about it, thank them and tell them it's a flattery but you just don't see it as they do.

2006-12-07 17:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by sunsetconmartini 2 · 1 0

it is simple buddy. just talk about other women with her. she will then get the message unless she has already told you how she feels. in that case you need to be frank and let her know the deal. if she is a lost friend well then you can learn from your mistake.

2006-12-07 17:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you should let her now that your not into girls for etc. reasons it could be because you will like to finish school or she ain't your type or all your locking for is Friends and if that's not going to help her understand then.

2006-12-07 17:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by sandysexy_4_fun 1 · 0 0

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