my bf hits me when hes mad at his parents. one time hes mom yelled at him for not cleaning up after himself i was there and he took me to his room and hit me with his fists and threw a chair at me had to get stitchies that night.i dont want to tell my parents or his cuz they might not let me see him again and i still love him at times. what should i do should i tell my parentsand his?
2006-12-07 17:27:51 · 44 answers · asked by Lil' Jenny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yo b you gonna end up in a body bag fo sho, come holla at a real playa that dun put his hand on a woman gea
pz, gl tho
2006-12-07 17:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by cdub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl u dont deserve that! Hes not even mad at u when he does this.
U might still love him but if he does that he doesnt love u. Leave him soon so u can get over it and find some1 who respects u!
So break up with him (like over the phone in case he gets mad) and tell ur parents then in case he tries to come over and hit u again. They can keep him away.
2006-12-07 17:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell away from him because it will just continue and each time it will get easier for him to do it and it will be worse for you. No one deserves that treatment and don't believe him if he says he is sorry. My girlfriend dated and married a man that beat her and almost killed her. She used to have fist marks all over her body and she always tried to hide it. When I saw that he beat her one night and he hit her so hard that when she tried to blow her nose, all this blood and snot came out of her ears. It was heartbreaking and that is when she finally left him. However it was 13 years later and she is so messed up in the head from years of abuse and it is so sad. So when I say run away, I really mean it. get away and tell someone you trust.
2006-12-07 17:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey honey. yes, you need to tell your parents and his. if you love this guy sometimes, you need to do what's best for him, and protect yourself. he has issues he needs to work through, and the last thing he needs is to be in a relationship right now. you, on the other hand, deserve to be loved, and has a knight on a white horse protecting you from things like this, not exposing you to them. there is someone out there that will do this for you, because you're worth it. please do not fall into this trap of thinking you love him, and that he cares about you. that isn't what love should look like. tell your parents, make sure someone is with you (an adult) when you talk to him, and then get a good support group. go to counseling. just for a few months, please. it will do you so much good. this is your one life. ONE life. live it as best as you can, because you only get one chance. don't miss out on the beauty you could have.
2006-12-07 17:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by corinne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I know I've been where you are, let me tell you it will not get better, it will get worse. You need to tell your family, they will protect you. You deserve better and you can have better. Don't let him kill your spirit. He will take everything you have away from you if you let him. That includes your family, friends, your identity, and one day he could take your life. Don't let it get so out of control you end up on the news. Guys like this say they love you and that they are sorry, but it doesn't stop them. You are a possession, not a person. Don't let him do that to you, you are better than that. I know I have been you.
2006-12-07 17:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by Kenya H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? My dad beat my mom for 9 years before she left him. This guy you call your boyfriend is no good and he isn't going to change..at least not anytime soon. So like my psychology teacher says..get out of dodge! If you love him...you'll leave him..and if he loves you..he'll get over it. Because if you dont leave him now it will just get worse..and it's going to ruin anything between you guys. Maybe he should go to anger management or sumthing. All I have to say is leave him..I don't care how much you don't want to be alone..or how much you love him..or how long you've been together..you don't deserve to be hit for no reason...so do it now..before it's too late.
2006-12-07 17:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by luckychick123452006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you tell them. Do you think this moron really cares about you? How do you feel about him those other times when you don't love him? Bet you're scared of him! How are you going to continue explaining the future beatings you are sure to receive from this out of control animal. It would be in your best interests if you never see him again. So what are you waiting for? Snap out of it!! He's going to kill you.
2006-12-07 17:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell anyone but tell someone! You don't have the will power or resolve to walk away by yourself so seek help by telling others and they will help you get away. As a child of domestic violence, I can attest to the trauma it caused my family and the emotional issues I still have 30 years later. Don't put yourself or your future children through it! You will find love again, believe me!
2006-12-07 17:32:17 · answer #8 · answered by rondelli99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetie, Girl you need to get out of the relationship. If he really loved u he would never lay a hand on u. That is no love. hell yeah u should tell your Parents and his parents. What kind of love is that. Girl u need to stand up for yourself.. I don't want u to get hurt for no damn reason..
Good luck....
2006-12-07 18:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by **2005** 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Think about it. Some men love their punching bags, it helps them deal with things that are bothering them...but no matter how much they "love" it, they aren't going to stop beating the crap out of it. You are the punching bag. Gather what self-respect you have left and move on. Take appropriate action to ensure he gets help and stays away from you. Life is too short to waste on people like him.
2006-12-07 17:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋