I have a friend who just revealed to me that she is in love with a mutual friend of ours. He is a really great guy, but he does not feel the same way at all! What should I do, if there is anything I can do?
2006-12-07 17:34:40 · 5 answers · asked by shirah_life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You stay the hell away from it, lol. Things will get awkward if anything is revealed, especially by you. Just let fate take its course and see what comes of it. You will be there to console your girlfriend if she totally crushed and you will be still be the rock for your guy friend to talk to. Now I could see how things could get tough if your girlfriend came to you and was asking questions. I would suggest that you whip out the infamous, "I don't really know. You should ask him." But then she might counteract with the, "Could you talk to him and find out for me?" line. You have pulled out the stops. In this case, you break down, clench your fists, and let her down easy...for him..
2006-12-07 17:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by Maximus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 06:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she has to talk to him, but it may cost her their friendship. Friends who become lovers never last. After revealing her secret things may become awkward. Tell her to try to make a move and if she gets nothing back...back off.
2006-12-07 17:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth.
2006-12-07 17:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from it all...
2006-12-07 17:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋