i met a gal tru chatting .we shared everything wit eachother ,now we r in deep love. But i still find it diff......... to tie a knot (marriage).Cant understand wat to do.(v havnt met face to face)
2006-12-07 17:38:02 · 13 answers · asked by san 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You haven't even met face to face and you're talking about marriage and can't even type full sentences??? You seriously need to think a bit more.
2006-12-07 17:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by MasLoozinIt76 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't met face-to-face, you definitely should not even consider marriage. A good rule of thumb is that, regardless of how much online interaction you've had, the relationship doesn't start until you meet in person. So if you choose to meet her, you should consider that the same as a first date, and allow the relationship to develop from there.
2006-12-08 01:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely spend some actual time together, and I'm talking person-person and for longer than a weekend or so. Who a person is in real life can be extremely different than the virtual person that they've created and you need to find out about the real them before even considering marriage.
2006-12-08 01:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by nkkidw040602 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first try to learn how to relay your messages for it to be understood well. If I'm getting this right, you met a female by chatting on-line, and have fallen in love with her. Only, you have a problem with committing to marriage. If this is right, take the time needed to get to know her & her to know you before getting to the marriage level in your lives. If love is really in the picture, things won't change it will only get better.
2006-12-08 02:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what you feel for her, but are you completely sure of what she feels for you? Try to meet and interact, give it some time to know how the other person really is, and how they think and act, and then you will know if you are right for each other. To be totally honest, i met my husband online 4 years ago and we have been married for 2 years and 2 months and counting. We get along fine, so Good Luck=)
2006-12-08 01:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by NickynJessie H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Dear
Firstly I say one thing u that never think lightly for this relation(marriage) becoz every person has to type of images, one is that which is formal means one image which he/she shows in front of people may be good or bad. & other is that nature which is infront of her/his family. And mostly u never know that person who never live with u or intract with u regularly bases. If u know all the negtive things about that girl. No....................... U know that things which she tells u. May be she told lie to u .Plz don;t mind but if u ask from us then we suggest u that plz meet her face to face & know each other in right way. Know about her family, her nature, behaviour etc becoz if u marry with her then ur family also live with her then accomodation is must for girl or if she accomodate with u or ur family.
Think seriously.
2006-12-08 01:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by care 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is very serious so I would think that you should meet each other first . I think that you should take the time to really get to know the person and then decide.
2006-12-08 01:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by niknak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
you might regret it because you haven't even met the girl.
meet up one day and consider then.
being married is totally different than having a love connection over the internet.
2006-12-08 01:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay brother, do u really love this girl? if yes then do what your heart tells you to do, believe it or not i have been there, and it hurt because she was like my soul mate, she knew everything about me and i let her go. u also may be suffering from commitment anxiety, set up a place u both can meet to find out if it lust or love.
2006-12-08 01:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by ish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not until you meet her in person and actually date her (in person) for at least a year and a half.
2006-12-08 03:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by leave me alone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋