2006-12-07 17:31:39 · 18 answers · asked by jencrazywith2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First of all ask yourself...why is he my sisters ex. husband. Then ask yourself...is it worth hurting my relationship with my sister. Then ask yourself..am I really that interested in him to be willing to cause drama in my life. After asking yourself these questions..and you still want to like be with this guy..then talk to your sister first..because if you do it behind her back...and she finds out..then you will have a problem..and if you ask her first and she doesn't want you to be with him..then that will keep you from any problems that could happen if you were already with him..and then asked her. So just ask yourself is it worth it.
2006-12-07 17:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by luckychick123452006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i cringed as i read this one. so sorry to hear this. i'd have to say stay away. there are so many other fish in the sea. but with that said, it's easier said than done (see my last question i posted and you'll see why i say this). are you close to your sister? if so maybe you should say something to her. she can help you let him know this is not okay. but if you're asking what you should do then maybe you're interested? be careful, sisters are blood, ex-husbands are not. good luck
2006-12-07 17:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by thegilchristgirls 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your self. is your sister and her ex-husband still in good terms? Why does your sister and her ex-husband break up? are you willing to risk some for your ex-brothr-in-law?
2006-12-07 17:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by Reynaldo, Jr. P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should be off limits. I assume he has tried to convince you to be with him and i suggest you don't .
Don't even talk on the phone. Cut him off, he is a ex-husband for a good reason right?
2006-12-07 17:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself, who is more important to you and family. If you said your sister is more imporant to you, then make sure it's clear that you want nothing to do with this guy. Don't encourage phone calls, or visits. Reminder him that you are HER sister and that is that.
2006-12-07 17:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by schmitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shud ask tat guy to back off !! i mean this is your sister ! she is family ! u dont cheat family !
she seperated from the guy for a reaosn which u may know best !
and if u supported her during her divorce then u agress tat guy did somethign rong or they r not compatable or watever !
and now u wanna go out with him !
u never go out with ur bestfrnd's or sis's ex................its just WRONGGG
tc
all the best
2006-12-07 17:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't even go there!! If you value your friendship with your sister and have any respect for her at all, don't go there. Just flat out tell him there is no chance in hell!
2006-12-07 17:33:00 · answer #7 · answered by MasLoozinIt76 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my STAY AWAY, if you want to keep your sister in your life... You shouldn't even be thinking about that!
2006-12-07 17:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by girlieyof5 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the best advice is to RUN LIKE HELL............Ex's are that for a reason.....maybe he's trying to get back at your sister...........
2006-12-07 17:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by Laura 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't even go there! Especialy if you value you sister's relationship. If it were me I'd shine him.
2006-12-07 19:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋