Met this girl online and we're meeting for a movie and dinner tomorrow night. We've emailed each other about 5 or 6 times, just exchanged phone #'s, she said what she liked about my profile was that I seemed "boyfriend oriented" in that I'm not just looking for imtimacy, but I want the same thing as her, a relattionship. She said she has a belly button ring, I said those are cute, she asked where I'm planning on getting mine...I said nipple and "um one other place..." she said, "your choice of piercings sound interesting wink wink. nipple rings are hot!" she said she's glad how she describes herself interests me "especially the affectionate part (when im with someone)" she said shes likes im driven with becoming a teacher...she said yes she would like to meet up for dinner and a movie. arranged the time, she gave me her cell first.
soo my question is...should i just watch the movie with her n chat before it starts....or chat before it starts etc and then put my arm around her during
2006-12-07 17:28:43 · 6 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it? should i kiss her too? and my arm around her? or just my arm? or neither?
i'm just curious what peoples opinions are. in the end i'll end up doing what i feel would be best and based on her signals/body language.
2006-12-07 17:29:43 · update #1
Better to chat first before the movie, make a good first impression physically so it wouldn't feel awkward wrapping her in your arms during the movie
2006-12-07 17:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by Hefeweizen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-23 05:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have any predetermined expectations of the night. As you said, do what feels right. I think it's kind of corny to put your arm around her in a movie on a first date though because it's so cliche. Maybe you could hold her hand and smile at her as you do it. That way you're not encroaching on her personal space and she can come up with a hundred excuses to get her hand back if doesn't feel comfortable. If she scratches her nose for example she can either keep her hand or grab yours again. It's a way to show you're interested without making her feel uncomfortable. Then take it from there... Good luck!!! :)
2006-12-07 17:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by kyls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm you shouldn't move too fast... it might scare her since she met you online. I think you should just watch the movie, make funny comments on it during and make her laugh, whisper in her ear ect.
I don't know if you should put your arm around her, but you're right alot of it depends on her body language and stuff. Maybe have both your arms on the same arm rest so that they're up against eachother, close so that you can feel her body heat, if she moves her arm away after a few seconds, she's uncomfortable, if not, she likes it.
2006-12-07 17:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by dabombae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest not having any expectation for a "nightcap" on the first date. If she gives it up to you on the first date, then you wonder about all the other guys she's done it with on the first date.
By not expecting a "nightcap" you would probably be more yourself and would allow her to become comfortable with you.
The arm around her on the first date is a bit much. I would suggest trying to make her laugh so she wants to know you better. Then work on the second and third date ( which is when the nightcap is more acceptable).
2006-12-07 17:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by A5150Ylee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion...keep it simple stupid.....
Don't try and run into anything..... play safe..... its your first date with her, don't show yourself being desparate for things and stuffs.... talk a lot with her ..about the movie, about the food etc....
Obviously you can hold hand and put arm around......and end it all with a goodbye kiss.....
then if the shows interest to go ahead...you have a green signal to start on
2006-12-07 17:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋