Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

If you are gonna put anything on here that'rude don't bother.!!!!! By the way my friend who's a stick gets all the guys how can I terminate that!!?

2006-12-05 15:57:45 · 25 answers · asked by Know-It-All or Nothing 2 in Singles & Dating

ok.
so I really get along with my friend's boyfriend a lot. I think he trustes me more than he trustes my friend. We always have good conversations, and I help him with his problems.

so now she's really mad at me.
does she have a reason to be mad? am i going to far?


oh, and i cant just ignore him... he sits right next to me for like 3 periods straight. he's always talking to me... and he gets sad when i dont talk to him


i dont wanna make her jealous... but at the same time i dont want to loose him as a friend because he's the only one that really listens to me


i dont like him... he's just a close frined!

just to make it straight... i do encourage him to go kiss her and also encourage him to talk to her (their relationship is that bad)

2006-12-05 15:56:37 · 11 answers · asked by jane 3 in Friends

My policy on Romance is this:

If NOTHING is explicitly SAID----then NOTHING EXISTS

I personally dont believe that eye contact really means anything (and this is only from experience) --there are so many ambiguities to consider.

BUT HEY--- I'm seeking YOUR Opinion, after all, soo---Shoot!

2006-12-05 15:56:19 · 3 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Singles & Dating

I used to know this guy, actually I knew him for one day. Cool guy but he used to hit on me and that made me uncomfortable. Why? Because he is 11 years older than I am. Last year, I ran into him but I didn't say anything. I now work on the same property as him but for a different company and wanted to maintain a professional distance (and also, didn't want to give him any ideas). Whenever I would pass by him, he would make eye contact.. Anyhow, a month or so ago I ran into him at a bar, he walked by me and got right up in my face and stared at me. Freaked me out. Good thing I was with my guy friend! We didn't do anything btw, we were on our way out. A few weeks ago, I ran into him on my way to a meeting, I was on my cell phone.. he passed by me with some lady.. and as he was walking by I heard him tell her "She didn't even look at me!"

What is up with this guy?

2006-12-05 15:56:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 15:54:33 · 34 answers · asked by mark balfour 1 in Family

I am extremely picky about who I like or will even give a chance to. When I do like someone it is extremely intense. I found that there are two common triats that they: 1) usually already in a relationship of some sort or at least seriously talking to someone else 2) authority figures (police, military, teacher, boss). So my problem is how can I fix myself from liking these people... seriously I am trying really hard, but you like who you like and I just have horrible taste in guys. The worst part is that there have been instances I could act on feelings but I never do because of my morals. But this is just plain annoying now.

2006-12-05 15:54:23 · 4 answers · asked by kareiche 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 15:54:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 15:54:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i have a bf and we been together for 3 yrs and everytime i tell him if he doesnt stop doing the things he does we might as well break up. he says ok. then he leaves. about 3 weeks later he calls back talking about he loves me and wants it to work. then the cycle starts all over again. why does he keep coming back if he knows what i expect. and why does he agree to leave each time. would you date someone who is willing to walk out if you put down your foot. he never says stuff like baby please dont leave me or even trys to stay but once hes gone here he comes back again. i need to get some self esteem to make this stop cuz i have none. any advice is needed cuz im tired and depressed and no self esteem to walk out of this. its killing me slowly. and he knows it too.

2006-12-05 15:52:49 · 9 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

I need help i dont know what to do. There all great girls but I dont know. Should I just stay single

2006-12-05 15:52:19 · 22 answers · asked by monique k 1 in Singles & Dating

By the way we are engaged. And he did it when we had a fight.

2006-12-05 15:51:58 · 10 answers · asked by chica 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it fun? romantic? dirty? What kiss do you enjoy most? Tell me some stories.

2006-12-05 15:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by Isabel 2 in Singles & Dating

I cant help it I think that 18 year olds are WAY hotter than 12 year olds!!!...So no im not going to date a 12 year old I want to date an older girl...say 17 or 18....thats only a 5 or 6 year difference.....So be it right???

2006-12-05 15:51:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-05 15:51:14 · 7 answers · asked by troy b 1 in Singles & Dating

i have liked this guy for quite some time. i really like him but i am to chicken to tell him because i already talk to him on a almost daily basis and i dont want that to change, and i guess i am afraid that is what will happen if he doesnt feel the same way.

although i think he does know because his sister asked me if i liked him at is graduation party and i said yes and ever since then he seems to be being more sarcastic and using more sexual coments since then. he even makes these comments with other people around.

2006-12-05 15:50:35 · 4 answers · asked by Simon is 16months 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 15:50:29 · 7 answers · asked by loopieshoes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My son has recently confronted my and said that he is old enough to date. Should I let him?

2006-12-05 15:50:20 · 6 answers · asked by Millatime94 1 in Singles & Dating

what goes on in a mans mind after he is caught cheating? I caught my husband cheating and he says that he chooses me wants to work out marriage

2006-12-05 15:48:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is that too much? I just don't think that I could love someone that much nor would I want them to love me that much. It sounds a little like obsession to me. Opinions?

2006-12-05 15:47:57 · 14 answers · asked by lovelyladypoet 3 in Singles & Dating

i like talking to girls and making them laugh but their b\f get mad cuz they think in trying to get at them but im actually not and its getting me mad that they getting mad at me and start to say ****.

2006-12-05 15:47:07 · 6 answers · asked by Javier G 1 in Singles & Dating

My step sister was raped, yes raped, by MY older brother.She is 14 right now and it happed about two years ago.Because of this, my dad basically gives her anything she wants, and leaves me to stand here by myself.I can't relate to anyone in my family..I'm sure I am jealous at my dad's behaviour because he says he is proud of me, yet never shows it in anyway.He constanly yells at me, and I wish I could just tell him what is on my mind, but I know he won't understand. I did tell him he is showing favoritism, but he says she deserves it.What really made me mad was when he bought her a kitten after a fight they had, and I had been asking for a kitten for over 7 years.I just don't understand what it takes for them to notice me.Stacy has done bad things(she TOUCHED his......yea..) (willingly this time ) with a guy she liked that lives near us and I have been a good girl..And still, I get no real praise. I am older than her,so does that make it that I should accept his favoritism for her?

2006-12-05 15:47:04 · 6 answers · asked by Kumi 2 in Family

Ok well I am currently pregnant at 34 weeks with my first child a son. Which I could not be more then happy over. But then there is a problem the father and I just started talking about 6 days ago. We had not talked.or seen eachother in about 5 months. Ok well he found me and called me and begged me to give him one more chance. I do love him more then anything but the problem is he has a 8 month son by someone else. How do I know that he really does love me and our son? He says he wants to marry me and not let me go again forever. He is the one that found me again and has taken time off to be here when our son is born and wants to be here and love me he says. What should I do I am so confused. Ours was planned but that one was not planned and our was just do to our differences we decided time apart was the best. Does he love me and our son? Can things work out between him and I? Can I not feel that he loves the other babys mom? We are not getting back together just cause of our son

2006-12-05 15:46:17 · 1 answers · asked by kmylander03 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, me and my friend always pass notes in class. we have a notebook that we always use that has all our notes in it. well, a teacher found it, and all our notes. i guess we wrote "inappropriate things" in our notes, and so my teacher turned it in to the principal. they found out it was my friends notebook, but they didnt find out that i wrote some of the notes too. my friend said she wouldnt snitch on me, but i feel bad for lettin her take all the blame!!! should i turn myself in??? i need answers fast, cuz the confrontation is tomorrow! HELP!

2006-12-05 15:46:12 · 6 answers · asked by ♥rawr♥ 1 in Friends

Recently, I've had a new boss at work who started out friendly and is now very difficult to work with and the majority of the workload is on me. I scheduled a meeting with HER supervisor to discuss the situation - not to be disrespectful, but just so that she can give her professional insight and handle the situation appropriately. Meanwhile, I was extremely upset for having to work 2 hours overtime because my boss never reported back to the office to relieve me as she was suppose to. My cousin and friend picked me up from work and I was pissed and was discussing my situation with them and of all the damn luck, my cell hit redial for work and she picked up and heard EVERYTHING. We had to have a meeting and all of our issues were addressed and she says she's not going to hold a grudge and I did apologize for not expressing myself to her and that she had to find out that way.
What other measures can I take to remedy the situation, or is the damage too much?

2006-12-05 15:45:31 · 10 answers · asked by mistyerious 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months. it is long distance right now. well i have recently became close friends with a guy. and my boyfriend has noticed that we are becoming close. he thinks that my guy friend likes me and that he is threatening our relationship. my boyfriend does not want me to hang out with my guy friend any more, or else he'll break up with me. i don't know what to do, because i want to keep him as my boyfriend, and i still want to remain friends and hang out with my guy friend. i do not think it is right for my boyfriend to make me choose between the two of them. but, he has put me in this horrible situation, and i just don't no what to do. isn't my boyfriend wrong for putting this on me? what is the right thing to do? any help/advice? please!

2006-12-05 15:44:31 · 18 answers · asked by =) 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in my fiftys so not a child. I am educated, well rounded yet apparently either a fool and do not realize it or just niave. Please help. Was in relationship for over 5 years. We were engaged then he broke it off over accusations toward me that were untrue. Then he told me how deeply he loved me, then off again for another ridiculous reason. Then I stop talking to him and within 2 weeks he calls and says remember me. He was having major family problems with grown daughter and grandchildren. Called me as a friend. I assisted him, he told me how deeply he appreciated it and again how he loved me. Then out of no where when I called telling him my grandchildren was born he said why would he care I had not called in 3 days. I was floored! Then he called a few days later at 5 in the morning, I said what are you calling now for I am sleeping. The next thing a text message calling me a liarer and the word bye. Men especially please I do not understand. Any sincere answer? Distraught!

2006-12-05 15:43:56 · 19 answers · asked by chattylady47150 3 in Marriage & Divorce

A guy seems to always ask you what you think about this and about that. In your mind you feel why does he care what I think, but could it mean that he sees you more than a friend or does he just value your opinion?

2006-12-05 15:43:56 · 27 answers · asked by applecake 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a Christian... He is not. though both of us understand the many differences between us and are extremelly respectfull and understanding.
But WHAT WOULD GOD THINK about this whole thing?? Could he be against it, considering that both of us are of highest morals and... probably as mature as it can get for well-raised high schools seniors ...
Thank you in advance for your answers! :)

2006-12-05 15:43:09 · 8 answers · asked by ---- 2 in Singles & Dating

Alcohol?or marijuana?

2006-12-05 15:42:37 · 24 answers · asked by troy b 1 in Singles & Dating

is there such a thing as the perfect guy? does true love really exists?? do u have to search for true love? what if u fail to find it?

2006-12-05 15:42:05 · 11 answers · asked by [MiA] 2 in Singles & Dating