Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

Bear with me, this will long and I will not have enough space in this box, so I will have to keep submitting & adding details, so come back to this later if it looks incomplete.

December 27th., 2005 I met a wonderful man name Bob. My husband had just committed suicide about 6 months prior. We were seperated when he died. I had asked him to move out a few weeks before he died, he moved in with his brother. I could no longer deal with his mental issues (bipolar), his mental & verbal abuse, his issues with alcohol, his lies, his anger issues and the fact that he could not hold down a job. I had detached long ago, I knew in my heart there was no way this marriage would ever workout. I had no intentions of EVER getting involved with another man seriously. I had the attitude there was no reason to. I had a place for the kids & I to live and a rental home for addtional income, a new car, money in the bank, a great paying job, family & friends. What did I need a man for, more headaches? NOT!!

2006-12-05 15:41:40 · 9 answers · asked by maryannmccarthy2003 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ok.
so I really get along with my friend's boyfriend a lot. I think he trustes me more than he trustes my friend. We always have good conversations, and I help him with his problems.

so now she's really mad at me.
does she have a reason to be mad? am i going to far?


oh, and i cant just ignore him... he sits right next to me for like 3 periods straight. he's always talking to me... and he gets sad when i dont talk to him


i dont wanna make her jealous... but at the same time i dont want to loose him as a friend because he's the only one that really listens to me


i dont like him... he's just a close frined!

2006-12-05 15:38:58 · 17 answers · asked by jane 3 in Friends

I called a "friend" and he didn't answer. It was important and regarding my mother and her health. I called him again and again and then I left a message cursing at him to answer the phone and I left another message again doing the same thing. Then finally he called me back but he had an attitude and was yelling. I told him about my mother and he said "what does that have to do with me"? And then he said, "I mean what happened." Later he called and said that he didn't mean it like that but it was because he didn't like the way I left him the messages. What do you think?

2006-12-05 15:37:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When I married my husband 6 years ago, he had two teenagers who treated me horribly. The son has apologized and we have a good relationship. The daughter has not spoken to us for 4 years. Now, she and my husband are making contact again and he wants me to make amends with her. Should I ask that she apologize to me? (If MY daughter had treated my husband in the way she treated me, I would MAKE her apologize.) The last thing my stepdaughter said to me 4 years ago, was calling me an obscenity starting with a "c." She was 18, she is now 23. She has caused my husband incredible harm, including suing him and helping her mother defraud him. I don't trust her at all. What should I do? He wants us to get together and "make amends" over Christmas.

2006-12-05 15:37:24 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is wrong with all theses guys now a days. Im 18 years old and I got all these weird boyfriends. There either really good hearted but have something wrong with them or there very attractive but a cheat. Any guys left in New Jersey that are attractive and good hearted?!?!

2006-12-05 15:37:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i am In 8th Grade And I Am Going to This Dance Later On This Month And Like I Am Popular Kind Of .. But I've Never Danced With A Boy Except One Not Alot Of Guys Like Me all the girls like are my friends.. And i really want to dace with a boy this dance because all the girls dance with them but i sit out .. how can i change this .. My clothes are like jeans && T-shirt to the dance tell me new clothing ? New Makeup ? I know how to dance so i dont know i really want to grind with this one boy .. and slow dance .. people dont say your too young because im not just gimme some answers

2006-12-05 15:37:18 · 9 answers · asked by untouchedangel06 2 in Singles & Dating

When looking for a person to date....does weight really matter to you?If you saw a pretty girl but she was on the heavy side,would that make you run the other way or would you still at least try to talk to her and see what happens?Would you be embarrassed to date a heavier woman?Or to you does that not matter?Serious replies only please!

2006-12-05 15:37:12 · 12 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Singles & Dating

ok so i have been going out with this girl for a few months and i really like her she means a lot to me and she i thought she liked me 2 well she did but but then i found out i was moving to italy and when i told her she acted all kewl about it and we decided to go out till the day i move and 2 days after i'm hanging out with my buddies and i see her all over this dude so im kinda sad right now and i got the feeling that its my fault and i'm really confused cause i'm sorta kinda a player type and this jsut cought me off gaurd i mean no ones ever cheated on me before

2006-12-05 15:35:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...what's the most marriages you have personally known of?

2006-12-05 15:35:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

everytime i talk to a girl over the computer and what not im fine but up close i stutter and stuff

2006-12-05 15:34:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why am i still awake at this time evry morning...... help sum1 plz!

2006-12-05 15:33:56 · 13 answers · asked by collene d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

be able to carry a 5'1" girl who weighs 104 lbs without difficulty?

Is a guy who's 5'7" and weighs 170 lbs and who's able to have bulging arms and make another guy's part in his face where eyebrows are located, bleed is STRONGER THAN a girl like me who's 5'1" and weighs 104 lbs.

If yes, how much stronger is he than me? And if yes, does he know it and that's the reason why he's a gentleman to me? I mean he offered to carry my bags and carried a chair for me to sit on when I was standing. he also bends down to lower his head to my mouth whenver I say something. is he a gentleman?

2006-12-05 15:33:30 · 4 answers · asked by Mrs Brandon 3 in Singles & Dating

Dear All,

Give me your genuine opinion, if i have liked somebody who is married and even I am married and praised hime on sms about his looks and his personality have I made any mistake. I don't think so but his wife said I have sent weired messaged to him. What is wrong ? I have not quoted anything wrong, I have not said any thing wrong I have jsut praised him which I do almost everyday whom I like even to my boss. I am very starightforward person and do not like to hide my feelings about any body. So please give your opinion what you all my friends have to say?

2006-12-05 15:33:20 · 3 answers · asked by deepali292003 1 in Friends

Im sure this guy likes me, and today i ws explaining something to my friend and i kept touching my hip, and everytime i did, his eyes would get really big and is mouth would hang down. Was this just beccause he's a guy or because he actually likes me also?

2006-12-05 15:33:12 · 2 answers · asked by viva!theadicts 2 in Singles & Dating

well it all started when i was at my brothers basketball game....
...everyone liked her ..by the way her names brielle...well anyway i was sitting by ever1 else and my friends and i saw her and he went over their after like 10 mins. and asked her out (hes pretty messed up and we aren't friends anymore but...
...but obviously she says no so the next day at school....(she was a new kid)...she like had 20 bazzillion firneds alreddy and then i saw her looking at me . i was like staring at her but my gay friend went over their and ruined my what-could -have-been-a-realtionship w/ her . then he asked her out again she said no again. i was shy atm. well i am bout the strongest kid in my class of 37 peeps and i was betterthan any1 at sports. well then the next week she added me on msn (somehow). and she was like hey whats up? yeah u no what i mean then my (FRIEND) asks her out again and she finally says YES. yeah i need some help ... how do i get her back?? or get me some advicei mean c'mon

2006-12-05 15:32:51 · 10 answers · asked by #8 1 in Singles & Dating

i live with my dad right now. my mother wants me to move in with her and i want to but i dont want to leave my dad. there is a lot of fight at my dads and i sick and tried of it. when i go to my mothers there is lke no fighting at all. she move back to where i lived to get me. i donno if she is going to do it. then we would move back out to missouri and then my boyfreind is down there. so i would be happyer out there. i love it in missouri to. she kinda let me do more stuff then my dad dose to. i wish my dad could just move down to missouri so we can all be happy. i dont know if he would be happy thoght . i dont know what to do please help.. thanks!

2006-12-05 15:32:50 · 6 answers · asked by katie h 1 in Family

2006-12-05 15:32:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Found email that my husband sent to a woman he met a car racing asking her out to dinner. He says it nothing but I told him that I considered it cheating. If it was nothing then why did he keep it hidden from me. I am having a hard time coping with this. Any ideas how to live through this. I love him so much. Just really need to talk to someone that can help me work this out.

2006-12-05 15:32:29 · 19 answers · asked by onlythewife 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need a good excuse to help me get out of work on saturday night...I am supposed to go to this concert and I already have the ticket paid 80.00 for it and I asked if I could leave early at work to attend. They said that was not possible..So I need to come up with a good excuse so that I can still go..I cannot back out of it..so any excuses are helpful lol

2006-12-05 15:31:58 · 10 answers · asked by Colie 2 in Friends

i dated my man for over a year and we broke up due to not getting along, etc...i .just found out he slept with his ex not long ago...they broke up like 4 years ago...is he NOT over her????? i know he's had other exes before me....anyway....what do you think???

2006-12-05 15:30:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just watching an episode of desperate housewives and one of the caracters went down to her mailbox and put mail in it. Why is she putting mail in her own mailbox?? does the mail man pick up mail she wants to post from there and posts it for her?? lol...sounds funny but i was just curious after seeing this...(as we dont do that in my country)

(im not from america and was wondering if they must do this?? where im from if we need to post letters then we have to go drop them at the post office or in a post office box which is located at different locations around the town)...not our own mailbox (but that would be handy!)

So is this what happens?

2006-12-05 15:29:58 · 7 answers · asked by hello hello! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, so I'm not the best looking girl on Earth. There's this guy at my school who is totally cute, funny, and kind of obnoxious. He teases me, but in a nice way. Is he flirting with me? Should I ask him out? Please, give me as much advice as you can!

2006-12-05 15:29:30 · 15 answers · asked by mighty_bull_straw 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 15:29:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you think a girl is desperate when she:
*calls you for homework help?
*asks to walk home with you after school
*comes and sits next to you when there is a substitute during class (becuz the sub doesnt know where we all sit)
*asks to walk to class together
*waits for you after class so you can walk to class together
*emails you
*invites you to a party that she claims is 'gonna be boring' because there will be nobody her age.

(supossing the girl is a sort of-friend)

2006-12-05 15:28:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

actually matter theese days.Are things such as giving up your seat,watching your language,and being warmhearted and compassionate still appreciated in this day and age?I guess not?

2006-12-05 15:28:45 · 10 answers · asked by troy b 1 in Singles & Dating

this friend of mine,we used to be really close,then one day i find out that shes been talking and saying horrible things about me. i mean shes cool and everythin but it just irritated me that shed do something like that,so i carried on and just ignored what she said about me,then she started lying to me,tellin me all sorts of stories, and when id go ask some person if that were true,theyd be like HellNO!!i dnt kno whats wrong wit her,shes been doing this alot lately!!what should i do?just continue being her friend or not??

2006-12-05 15:28:30 · 9 answers · asked by MickeyW 1 in Friends

They just can't see any other girl around him.

2006-12-05 15:28:24 · 20 answers · asked by Bilal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 15:28:02 · 18 answers · asked by moi 1 in Singles & Dating

Someone on here told me that you can only file for divorce in the state you were married in. My best friend's husband assaulted her, and she's going to file for divorce. She was married in MD but they've lived in PA since they were married. Can't she file in PA since all states recognize a legal marraige, regardless of the state they were married in?
Backing your answer up with a website would help, if possible. Thanks!

2006-12-05 15:27:32 · 13 answers · asked by Bachman-ette 4 in Marriage & Divorce

.....into my money and not try go deep into me as a person? It is known that I have a lot of money, and this information was given to him by someone close to me, so for those who think I told him in any way, your wrong. So answer this question for your two points now.

2006-12-05 15:27:09 · 16 answers · asked by J J 3 in Singles & Dating