this friend of mine,we used to be really close,then one day i find out that shes been talking and saying horrible things about me. i mean shes cool and everythin but it just irritated me that shed do something like that,so i carried on and just ignored what she said about me,then she started lying to me,tellin me all sorts of stories, and when id go ask some person if that were true,theyd be like HellNO!!i dnt kno whats wrong wit her,shes been doing this alot lately!!what should i do?just continue being her friend or not??
2006-12-05 15:28:30 · 9 answers · asked by MickeyW 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know the old saying about keeping your friends close but your enemies closer? It is up to you on this issue whether to confront her and tell her that if she is so innocent, why doesn't all the gossip die down? In contrast to that idea, you could just tell her until it stops, you will no longer have any more contact with her because that is the only way you know it will stop! She is getting information from you on any innocent remark or piece of information you casually leak to her and building a big thing out of it. It is so easy to keep it up if you don't call her down on it. She should be aware that there are consequences to a gossipy untrustworthy "friend."
2006-12-05 15:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be her friend anymore and stop talking to her, step by step and getting away whenever you get the chance. she is really not a friend to you, and you really shouldnt be saying shes your friend if she is saying all of these horrible things about you. Ive been in the same situation so i suggest that little by little just stay away and talk to your other friends hopefully she would forget about you and move on with her own self.
2006-12-05 23:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what the heck is her problem. I hate people who don't trust me when I am telling the truth so,just talkto her. And if she says nothing hten stop being her friend you gave hera chance.
2006-12-05 23:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on with your life and don't worry about her. she is just lieing to get attention from others and that is just wrong. you need to find and make new friends with people you know and trust.
2006-12-05 23:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can either... first confront her...ask her wat going on, mayb she has things going on in her life and the only way that she can feel free is wen she talks about people.
second....juss ignore her she just may b doing that on purpose to annoy u...its not worth the fight.
2006-12-06 01:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by sassy girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone she is not youre friend move on real friends dont act like that
2006-12-05 23:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her, be fabulous and move on.... she's not worth fretting over
2006-12-05 23:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by Scorpio11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to her, but no more hanging out.
2006-12-05 23:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-12-05 23:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by heyyy123456789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋