everytime i talk to a girl over the computer and what not im fine but up close i stutter and stuff
2006-12-05 15:34:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find something you're truly passionate about and good at... build you skill level in it, and you will become more confident. Once you are completely confident, you will be comfortable in your own skin and be able to talk to a girl with pride.
2006-12-05 15:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Karen M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi bigdog,
You are not alone. Everybody is like this. People are not born Mac Daddy's. You really have to practice at this. Practice makes perfect. Work on looking people right in the eye when you talk with them or listen to them. Remember to smile when they are talking with you, and lean in closer to them. You don't need to just practice this out on cute girls, but on the ugly ones too and even guys. Just to get in the practice of doing this.
Don't forget that there are a ton of people out there who are in the same boat as you. Lots of people are lacking confidence in themselves (even those hot babes worry about how they look or how they're perceived). Just learn to relax and do those things above and you'll do good. Don't be afraid to screw up either.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-12-05 15:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bro dont worry about stuttering... it'll go away with time. just be a gentleman and YOU start the conversation. bring up something u know a lot about .. ex: music or a sport that u play
2006-12-05 15:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Bobby D - The Angels Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Social Reprogramming Method - http://SocialAnxiety.uzaev.com/?tACT
2016-06-21 16:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice by having a snap of a girl and u will gain confidence. Give it a try.
2006-12-05 15:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
public speaking is fabulous --- i was reserved in public but i started teaching and its been wonderful
2006-12-05 15:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just go for it, i dont know what else to say.
2006-12-05 15:41:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way
2006-12-05 15:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋