ok so i have been going out with this girl for a few months and i really like her she means a lot to me and she i thought she liked me 2 well she did but but then i found out i was moving to italy and when i told her she acted all kewl about it and we decided to go out till the day i move and 2 days after i'm hanging out with my buddies and i see her all over this dude so im kinda sad right now and i got the feeling that its my fault and i'm really confused cause i'm sorta kinda a player type and this jsut cought me off gaurd i mean no ones ever cheated on me before
2006-12-05 15:35:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea but how do i know this hasnt been going on for a while and we didnt break up i jsut told ehr i was moving to italy in a month
2006-12-05 15:43:43 · update #1
yea but how do i know this hasnt been going on for a while and we didnt break up i jsut told her i was moving to italy in a month and i sorta kinda knocked the dude out i mean what was i supposed to do just let them make out ?
2006-12-05 15:46:02 · update #2
i sorta kinda knocked the dude out i mean what was i supposed to do just let them make out ?
2006-12-05 15:46:37 · update #3
you may be feeling soem betrayal there. and that hurts. sorry man. it happens way mroe than you think. we all want that one true love, and the best thing to do is to lose her. you need time to grieve the loss of the relationship but you shoudlnt' give up on girls altogether because there aresoem truly womderful ones who can be faithful and who will love you and be true to you. but you really need to be careful who you love.
2006-12-05 15:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by KZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is only my point of view: She thinks that since you are moving to Italy (and probably never gonna come back) she might as well find another guy fast.
If you don't think both of you can survive a long-distance relationship then forget her because it'll end eventually. (I don't think you guys can because she was "all over this dude" even before you are gone) Besides, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you hanging out with your buddies! They are your friends after all.
2006-12-05 23:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by *azure* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know if you loved her or not,but you definately had feelings for her...I think if she was all over another guy and you didn't give a sh*t then no,but you obviously liked her alot to care..:)
2006-12-05 23:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by kel s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant expect her to wait on you to leave.maybe shes doing that to stop herself from being more hurt than she already is.think about it she has to get over you somehow your moving remember.just a little note a player never admits to being player.
2006-12-05 23:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by underoverexistent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
swallow your pride...
you weren't cheated on...you said your goodbyes & was headed out of the country..hello ?!
2006-12-05 23:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋