Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

my husband and i were separated for for 2 yrs prior but we would still get together we still loved eachother ver ver much he was found hangin in atree possible suicide but not convinced anyway my boyfriend was with me through it all but its ten years later we had acouple of breaks istill love and miss my hhusband with every inch of my being i dream of him often ifeel our relationship was unfinished is this normal or do i need to deal with my obssesion before moving forward in my safe but not relationship? my relationship now is very unhealthy but im scared to be by myself to deal with my pain i love my boyfriend and he probably loves me he is an alcoholic ihave my vices we fight constantly abuse is more mental & emotional now so at least thats one way that he has grown in this piece fo relationship we have. Would i risk loosing it all if i tryed to explain this. I dont want him to have pain but im starting to really loose it myself

2006-12-05 15:11:41 · 7 answers · asked by norcalygaly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 15:11:27 · 11 answers · asked by nick 1 in Singles & Dating

Then come to YA and cry that he 'hurt me'.

Im sure there is a good guy around but you dont want him bc he isnt as 'hot'.

If someone does that over and over do they deserve what they get?

2006-12-05 15:11:22 · 14 answers · asked by Its me 4 in Singles & Dating

does anyone find that having kids and being married affect the time you spend with your partner behind closed doors? I was wondering how often married people who have kids find time for each other in the bedroom. Especially when one or both parents may have strenous jobs such as accountants or doctors or lawyer.

2006-12-05 15:10:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

♥well theres a guy i known him since i was one and now im 14 going on 15..n e ways i been liking for a while now and sometime he comes over(he's my brother friend to)..and he knows i like him and all but he never asked me out and i really wanna kiss him should i????

2006-12-05 15:10:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a married man of 14yrs w/3 kids, who cheats on his wife and has had a girlfriend for over a yr. what are the chances of him leaving his wife..none right?

2006-12-05 15:09:37 · 17 answers · asked by athf73 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 15:08:47 · 13 answers · asked by Javier G 1 in Singles & Dating

I became engaged to my boyfriend of 2 and a half years a few months ago. However we are both in college and my fiance wont set a date until he is sure when we are graduating. (we have about 2 years left.) I am excited and want to start planning anything and everything. I just am not sure what I can do besides dream and work towards graduation. If anyone has any ideas Id appreciate them....

2006-12-05 15:08:41 · 21 answers · asked by jules.marie 2 in Weddings

if a girl asks you if she can walk to class with you, how would you feel?
if she called you to ask for homework?


**if this girl was your friend

2006-12-05 15:08:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He keeps telling me he loves me, but that he can't make me happy. What can that mean? We were together 4 years and lived together 3. He was my FIRST. First love, first sexual encounter, first person to live with other than my parents. I love him like crazy and feel so lost without him! I don't see this ever going away! Someone please give me some advice and tell me that it will get better. I hate this feeling! Whenever I talk to him he is so rude to me and when I text him or call, he doesn't answer until later and that hurts me and sets me back even more. I really miss him alot! I sincerely love him. I used to do so many things for him. He started hanging out with his friends and going out alot after our break up and has not wanted anything to do with me since. Before, when we broke up he would beg me to get back to him ASAP, but now, he's so different. He says it has nothing to do with a female or girls or his friends. He says we are different. Yet he tells me he still loves me. HELP!

2006-12-05 15:08:14 · 15 answers · asked by tddvan69 1 in Singles & Dating

She is beautiful, smart, nice and popular. I am a semi-popular geek and not to bad looking. I see her around school and used to just say hi, but ever since I started liking her, I've tried to talk to her more.

2006-12-05 15:08:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 15:08:05 · 4 answers · asked by Ryan M 1 in Singles & Dating

can anyone say anything that will reassure me its not the end of the world? im just really upset.

2006-12-05 15:07:09 · 29 answers · asked by »-(¯`v´¯)--»CHELSEA«- 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 15:07:06 · 17 answers · asked by Sixxie 1 in Friends

2006-12-05 15:06:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-05 15:06:07 · 1 answers · asked by Steve J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 15:05:22 · 7 answers · asked by rajni s 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been talking for over an year on the phone and the internet and she is afraid to meet me. what can i do? I have tried everything under the sun with options like meeting in a mall...even a police station....what can i do to take it to the next level?

2006-12-05 15:04:41 · 19 answers · asked by . . 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i'm a really shy guy to most ppl mostly girls, but as soon as someone starts a conversasion i can talk like i do with my friends. so i need some advice for help making the first move. there's alot of girls i know but i cant talk to them, so this girl i like(not sure if she likes me, we only talk in class sometimes) and i'm not sure how to approch her and i doubt she'd make the first move. HELP!

2006-12-05 15:04:39 · 8 answers · asked by Green Ranger 3 in Singles & Dating

wut do u do when u are one of the only people in your family who is in honors/ap classes let alone still in highschool and all you get from your parents is nagging and them telling you every little bad thing they can come up with about you when they are almost hte farthest thing from a good role model. you havent touched ne drug and you turned your whole attitude around opposed to last year when u were the biggest brat ever but for some reason they were nicer, respected you more, and let you do what you wanted to more last year. you never get a im proud of you or that was nice of you or thank you. especially when you clean everyone elses mess. and you never tell them how much what they say gets to you?

2006-12-05 15:04:11 · 7 answers · asked by b.lynn 2 in Family

Ladies - what do you like about men? And what do you hate about men?

2006-12-05 15:03:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend is really tal and she can't dance. How do I tell her so she doesn't continue to embarrass me?

2006-12-05 15:03:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-05 15:03:29 · 9 answers · asked by Caribou2 1 in Singles & Dating

If a couple have a fight, and they live together. Do you think they should go to bed angry at each other? or should it wait until the morning?

2006-12-05 15:03:15 · 8 answers · asked by Curlyhair69 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 39 never married and feel like im running out of time

2006-12-05 15:02:26 · 5 answers · asked by traveler 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I have been married 7 years and I have known my husband and his family for 20 year (we went to school together). Ok so here is the problem.....My brother in law just told me that he is in therapy due to a divorce and he told the theripist that he has very strong feelings for me and the theripist felt that he should confront me and tell me how he feels, he did....I havent told my husband and I dont what I should do. We live close to eachother (less then 5 minutes) so we get together often, my husband and his brother are very close and I just dont know what I should do....any advise

2006-12-05 15:00:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Basically me and my girlfriend want to get engaged. Im graduating college in may and shes not graduating for 2 years. I was thinking about waiting until shes a senior but i feel we have dated soo long we need toi move to the next step. We feel were ready to get married. My question is should we have done it a while ago or maybe should we wait. Also soooo sick of her not being next to me at night i almost can't sleep anymore. Theres nothing in the world i wand more then to just be with her for the rest of my life!!!

2006-12-05 15:00:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-05 14:59:12 · 24 answers · asked by enchanting beauty 2 in Singles & Dating

my best fiend/ his cousin called me and said he still has feelings for me but at first i did to and tried to get over him but couldn't afterwards i did get over him and dated other guys but knew there was no one better than him now i'm not sure about my feelings should i call him and talk about it or get over it and forget it and not call him?


help me

2006-12-05 14:58:34 · 3 answers · asked by somallian_princess 1 in Friends

I am 22 I married my husband who is 22 four years ago this may. We have two children. I took on his name when we married. since then We have cut ties with his mother. I have never been excepted by her. His mother has since remarried and no longer carries her maiden name wich my husband has. His father he has spoke with ince since he was born. For the sake of my children I would like to change our last name to my maiden/ My husband is very excepted by my family and has been since day 1. I want my children to know where their last name came from not that families are ripped apart such as my in laws. And last of all I want to belong to a family that can except me not one that I am shunned from . Does it sound right to you???

2006-12-05 14:58:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family