If a couple have a fight, and they live together. Do you think they should go to bed angry at each other? or should it wait until the morning?
2006-12-05 15:03:15 · 8 answers · asked by Curlyhair69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
depends on the degree of the fight, i guess.for little ones, it wont hurt to make up even before going to bed.. but to more major ones, sometimes we need to put our thoughts and self together before we seem to understand point of views of one another, depends too on each type of personality.. some cools down ahead, others need time and space before patching things up.. guess whatever feels comfortable both ends.. do it, if one is not ready to communicate, give more time and space, otherwise, make up already! Life is so precious to waste on fights! Love more instead! :)
2006-12-05 15:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To disagree and to be angry are not one in the same, even though they are usually seen hand in hand. It is never a good ides to "let the sun go down on your anger". However; you can agree for the night, to disagree; show that you still love each other, and continue the "discussion" at a later time, preferably about 16 hours later. Don't start the day with an argument, or continuation of what caused the anger in the first place. Agree to a time and place to continue the disagreement, then proceed to show each other your love for one another. I mean, do you currently agree on everything, like do you have the same style and color hair? Do you wear identical clothing? I assume not, so you already disagree and get along. Even if it is a major issue, anger solves nothing. So, to wrap it up, no, you should never go to be angry with each other, whether you live together or not.
Sweet Dreams! :)
2006-12-06 00:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a fight, suggest a 10 minute break from each other, away fom each other so that you can cool off and put things into perspective. Try to view it from the other persons side and then figure out if there is a compromise you can come to or just agree to disagree. Never go to bed angry because you will just build resentment and it will continue to grow.
2006-12-05 23:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tazzy375 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, why are you fighting in the first place, as it serves no purpose whatsoever and is an indicator of some form of dysfunctionality in your relationship. In saying that, of course all couples fight at least once in their relationships, but I feel that it is better to find resolution early in the dispute, and accepting the fact that it takes two to rumble. Often these disputes are fueled by some form of "displacement" , one person is upset from something external and brings that problem home and creates a problem with their partner as they are unable to resolve the external problem and acts out their frustrations when they get home. This is a very big problem and should be identified soonest and is really a sign of maturity or lack thereof. Ultimately , don't go to bed mad, but don't fight in the first place as it serves no purpose in a loving relationship.
2006-12-06 00:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never go to bed angry. for one thing you won't be able to sleep anyway. and it is so much fun making up. Then you can wake up with a fresh start in the morning and have a good day. Never wait til morning. it will ruin your whole day and your work performance will be lacking also. God Bless you . Smile be happy.
2006-12-05 23:17:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and try to get calm. When you have a disagreement use the word I. For example, "I feel hurt when you.." Or I really need you to..." If you put it off til the next day, it loses it's importance and doesn't get settled, and the next time you get into an arguement you'd tend to bring it up, your guy will say you're rehashing old issues and it just keeps escalating. Good luck with settling your problems.
2006-12-05 23:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never go to bed angry. Think of it like this lets say you and hubby go to bed angry o.k. now something happens to hubby while asleep. You would never forgive your self. Never leave the house angry either. Never know and always say I love you even if you are into it.
2006-12-05 23:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by Babie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never ever go to bed angry, work it out. as stated making up is soo much fun. I can't really add more than what was said by posters above me. Very good advise.
2006-12-05 23:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋