ok, i'm a really shy guy to most ppl mostly girls, but as soon as someone starts a conversasion i can talk like i do with my friends. so i need some advice for help making the first move. there's alot of girls i know but i cant talk to them, so this girl i like(not sure if she likes me, we only talk in class sometimes) and i'm not sure how to approch her and i doubt she'd make the first move. HELP!
2006-12-05 15:04:39 · 8 answers · asked by Green Ranger 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well the thing is that there's not a good time to talk to her, her friends are around her talking or the rest of the class would notice.
2006-12-05 15:15:17 · update #1
btw its geography class
2006-12-05 15:16:20 · update #2
Well your not going to get very far with what your doing now. You need to relax and not think so much about it. Be yourself. I cant say that enough, because you want to be liked/loved for who you really are. And as far as asking her out, JUST DO IT!! You really have nothing to lose. Open up, talk to her, casually ask her if she would like to go to lunch after class, or even something simple like a starbucks. Start with that.... baby steps... if anything start a friendship with her, and maybe it will develope into something more..... but if it doesnt, at least you will have a friend... it's better than nothing right?
2006-12-05 15:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found that earlier in my life just be forward with girls hey they can only say no (but if you say nothing you will never know).
three out of five girls will give you a go.
flowers are a good start and write her a letter to put in the flowers let her know your intentions (that way the next move is hers) as she has to respond. Just be yourself after all if you have to be someone different to get a girl you have to keep the posoner in order to keep the girl Been there done that (its ok for one night stands but if you really like her she has to like you for what you are).
2006-12-05 23:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by Barry W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok your a shy guy but if she isnt going to make the first move then your gona have to.Just think of her as one of your friends after all she is just a girl she isnt going to bite.Try talking to her about something shes interested in or if you talk to her in class sometimes ask her for help on something and go on from there.
good luck
2006-12-05 23:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like the kind of guy that is really fun to be around. the guy i like is same way. we talk in math class, but i wish he would talk to me outside of class. so make the first move, it will make your day and the girl you like feel like a million bucks!!!!
PS by any chance is your name Ari? if so e-mail me back. I'm pretty sure i know you!!
2006-12-05 23:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by pinkballerina101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are afraid to talk to her write her a letter, not a note. Letters are more romantic and suggest a good relationship while notes suggest a fling.
2006-12-05 23:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by yomonkeysdaddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first calm down and be yourself and pretend yr talking to one of your friends and thatz it. i mean it sounds easy nut its not cuz i'm shy too so i feel yr pain....haha yea n-e ways....its hard to jus walk up to someone n tak to um and for sum itz real easy...yea so jus b- yourself n be more confident in yourself. ok well good luck and hope u get a gurl.
2006-12-05 23:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with hello. Maybe, she'll surprise you and make the next move herself.
2006-12-05 23:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like when she's standing by her self before class or wat ever just kinda meander over to her and start talking. like start with "did you get any of that math, i was clue less." and just start talking and before you end speaking to her kinda, barely, hint to her that you like her. like end with "I'll see you later," "talk to you after class." simple and easy. but the guts are going to have to come from you.
2006-12-05 23:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋