Then come to YA and cry that he 'hurt me'.
Im sure there is a good guy around but you dont want him bc he isnt as 'hot'.
If someone does that over and over do they deserve what they get?
2006-12-05 15:11:22 · 14 answers · asked by Its me 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Christie you are right : )
But i just wonder why they come to YA and whine about it. It should be expected and they should blame themselves.
2006-12-05 15:16:53 · update #1
'sasha girl" below will be back on YA in a few weeks complaining that guys are jerks.
2006-12-05 15:17:53 · update #2
That is is very good observation. But then they will run right over to there best friend that she has known her whole life(who has pretty much been single his whole life) who is not that "hot" for some comfort. Then he is gonna feel obligated to do that so she will feel better and he is gonna try to get the courage to ask her out, but by the time he gets to that point, some "hot" asks her out, and she will go through that whole process again and again. I am not saying she dont deserve it, and i am not saying she does. She just need to pay attention to what is around her to where she can make it easier for herself to be happy and not go through that much pain. I know this because, I am usually that good friend that comforts my friends when something like this happens.
2006-12-05 15:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by traveling_soldier6784 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause some girls think they can change the guy. If they are hot then the looks department is already taken care of...so with time they will eventually mature up. Unfortunately they never do. TRUST ME.
Find the guy with the better personality. Girls...if your good...you can change the way a guy looks quicker than if they are immature, cocky, or aggervating...cause they all are in some sense.
2006-12-05 23:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because these so called HOT guys are always good at lying and decieving, they just look too good to be true.
Then we realise what a jerk they really are sooner or later and hate him 4ever.
Then the nice guys come...who are so late on the uptake, but sooner or later aer loved most of all....
If thats the sequence I'm glad I'm not in it.
2006-12-05 23:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No girl deserves that. So what if they choose guys with horrible pesonalities. HELLO?!? They are called fakes. Some look nice and act nice at first then turn out to be jerks. Girls can't help it if the guy they like is evil.
2006-12-05 23:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ace 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the reason girls(like me) love bad boys is the thought of not following the rules, the rush of excitment, not to mention a nice face to look at while their at it. But I think it kind of catches up to us after a while that he DOES care. We forget that we were just doing it for fun but then it felt like the bond grew deeper but in the end, we get what we knew what was coming but not hoping....
2006-12-05 23:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by just Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we get confused when people are so attractive. We can't help ourselves. But guys do the same thing so don't act all high and mighty. The attractive people are never as interesting as the unattractive. But it is human instinct that attracts us to the "hot" people of the opposite sex.
2006-12-05 23:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends. I think people in general should really consider what they are looking for, & be more careful about their choices.
It also depends on how 'mature' you want the relationship to be...
Sometimes people are just ignorant about their choices because the don't think ahead.
Maturity comes in all levels. It's different for men & women sometimes, but not in general.
2006-12-05 23:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by Trinity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because mature "Uggo's" like you are too busy playing Warcraft and Guild Wars to ever make your move on a real woman. Truth hurts, man.
2006-12-05 23:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by Family Guy 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
because most of us woman are bone heads and fall for the one that's most likely to just want what he wants and then hurt us over and over again until we've fallin down one to many times and decide that we want better for ourselves...
2006-12-05 23:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they belive that there is no such thing as the guy who loves them for who they are so the choose these guys to fill that void in search of that one
2006-12-05 23:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by robert m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋