my husband and i were separated for for 2 yrs prior but we would still get together we still loved eachother ver ver much he was found hangin in atree possible suicide but not convinced anyway my boyfriend was with me through it all but its ten years later we had acouple of breaks istill love and miss my hhusband with every inch of my being i dream of him often ifeel our relationship was unfinished is this normal or do i need to deal with my obssesion before moving forward in my safe but not relationship? my relationship now is very unhealthy but im scared to be by myself to deal with my pain i love my boyfriend and he probably loves me he is an alcoholic ihave my vices we fight constantly abuse is more mental & emotional now so at least thats one way that he has grown in this piece fo relationship we have. Would i risk loosing it all if i tryed to explain this. I dont want him to have pain but im starting to really loose it myself
2006-12-05 15:11:41 · 7 answers · asked by norcalygaly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to get some serious help, NOW!!!
2006-12-05 15:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave the man and be by your self for a while and get some counseling and learn to greive and when you do start talking to him in spirit and tell him that you need to move on even if it hurts a lot. Us women need to realize you deserve a good life not a person whos going to hurt you. you have to face the fear and learn about greiving. You could be living a better life if you really put your foot down and stand up for your self. Get some depression pills and counseling.
2006-12-05 23:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by coolmesillyme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i think you should leave this man 1 you really need to be alone and find your self and know your self before being with any one 2 if he is an alcoholic it will only get worse and if you fight all the time you will keep fighting in tell someone does something about it i know you might be scared to be alone but in my opinion i think its the best thing for you
2006-12-05 23:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by tracemiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Methinks thou art cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs!
2006-12-06 00:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO to your local church for some inner healing or counseling. if you do not know of one may i suggest mine:www.faithtabernaclehp.org
2006-12-05 23:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by chilwil2k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both need to get some serious counseling......REALLY!!..You have a very scary relationship!!!
2006-12-05 23:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lrn'dTheHardWay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww u should not be with him..cause he is no good for you. and u should talk some1 to help u... and plus he sound really scared and he got something serious problem with him... if he kept no good for u!!!...it's really sad story..:(
2006-12-05 23:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by XxItalianxX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋