Family & Relationships - 5 December 2006

I have very little moeny and my g/f said she wanted M&Ms for chrisams and i was going to give her a stuffed animal along with that ( a large stuffed animal) do you think she'll like it? i mean im EXTREMLY low on cash and she knows it, i gave her jewlery last month and that pretty much made me broke ( they were 14 karot gold with her birth stone in the middle ) but do u think she'll like the stuffed animal?

2006-12-05 14:46:09 · 11 answers · asked by Big C 1 in Family

i dont like the players...i like the good guys..i like the nice guys...i like the nerdy guys that most girls think they are too good for...yet...

it is heartbreaking because...most guys complain they cant get a nice girl...or that nice guys finish last..

i met a guy..we have alot in common..but i want to know him better..even just as a friend...
he doesnt call..i have to call him..he acts shy..but he still doesnt even try...i try not to call him...but i want to get to know him better..but it must be that he just doesnt want to get too close!

and he is one of the "nice " guys! nicest of nice!!!

it really hurts..i like the guys that...often are overlooked..i think they are beautiful..
what is wrong? what am i doing wrong?
is it an age thing???? do guys just want the hottest or most beautiful girl??? what do college guys really want??
i mean the nice ones?

2006-12-05 14:45:43 · 10 answers · asked by A Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

need help..i really like this guy..he isn't really good looking but he is nice and sweet...please help.....please!!But he is already going out with someone....i need help!!!

2006-12-05 14:45:27 · 15 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

Larry Zinn would be 49 or 50 years old and from the cities of San Jose and Santa Cruz, California. He served his Country in the US Navy.
He’s an old friend and something tells me I should look him up!

2006-12-05 14:45:20 · 2 answers · asked by ou812 2 in Friends

2006-12-05 14:45:07 · 9 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 14:45:06 · 13 answers · asked by B 1 in Singles & Dating

would it work??? He acts like he is 24 is the age gap going to be a problem in the end??

2006-12-05 14:44:38 · 11 answers · asked by juicbox {girl gamer} 2 in Singles & Dating

today, during school, eric (the guy i'm in love with) told me that him and his girlfriend broke up, but i didn't believe it until later on. then he asked me to go somewhere with him, so i did. first we went into this class room with only the two of us and he hugged me a few times when we were on the couch, then he asked me if i wanted to go to his house (don't get the wrong idea, we didn't do anything), and he hugged me a few more times when we were walking to his car. i really didn't know what to say, so when we got in his car, he started putting on all these songs to make himself feel better, i guess he was really sad, but he didn't really act like he was sad at all! and he was the one who broke up with her. what should i do?
yes or no:
yes.) tell him how i feel
no.) wait a little longer for him to cool off
-we're only one year apart, he's a senior and i'm a junior. just letting you know. and thank you. =]

2006-12-05 14:44:21 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

Why do a lot of people on here post questions such "i hate skinny people they are anorexic b****es and blah blah they are on drugs" yet they don't think once on being in a really skinny persons shoes. At least if you are heavy you can do something about it, unless its a medical condition. But if you are skinny and have a fast metabolism, you stay that size. Some people may think of it as a bliss, but I personally get judged ALL the time of being anorexic and bulimic. One time someone said "Your parents must not love you because they dont feed you" or they say "go eat a candy bar" well its not that simple if you are naturally like 30 pounds underweight.
But what about the people who cant help it? Who constantly get teased for being anorexic? And all the guys who say "you look like u could be in the 6th grade" It hurts just as bad. Especially when people comment on here saying how ugly skinny people are.
Why do people judge other people when they dont want to be judged either?

2006-12-05 14:43:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love her to much to do it

2006-12-05 14:43:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i wish people had to have a bakround check and take a mental stability test before they could even be fertile. then all the andrea yates's in the world wouldnt get off for killing their kids becasue they are "insane" anyone agree?

2006-12-05 14:43:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Generally speaking, how much money do you think one should have saved upon moving out of their parents home? (A young person, about 21 y/o)

Excluding the cost of funiture and first/last.

I'm thinking $10, 000 (canadian) would be suficient. Providing one is employed. What do you think? I'm just looking for some opinions.

(Yes, I have re-posted. I'm just trying to maximize my answer results. lol thanks)

2006-12-05 14:43:09 · 3 answers · asked by ebonii_cuteee 5 in Family

here's my photo.. my boyfriend just broke up with me and i'm wondering if you think i'm pretti. ya i no i'm am model but that doesn't mean anyting. what would you rate me

http://normasmodeling.com/Model%20Pages%202/7.jpg

2006-12-05 14:42:43 · 9 answers · asked by sexybabe16 1 in Singles & Dating

I constantly catch my boyfriend talking on the phone with other girls, that he swears are not , and it hurts. the phone bill has unusaul numbers, so i call them to see who it is & it always be another female. Why does he do that and constantly lie about it?Do u think sooner or later he will start cheating eith one of these females he associates over the phone with?

2006-12-05 14:42:08 · 12 answers · asked by benique07 1 in Singles & Dating

being in love is a sickness

2006-12-05 14:42:02 · 11 answers · asked by mahmadi500 1 in Singles & Dating

im 46 and my g/f is 52, we have been together almost a year and have been sexually active, my question is this i want a night of hot, porn star type love making for my birthday, but if i tell her she is going to blow a major gasket, cuz to her sex is not important but to me it is. she has no money and there is nothing material i want, so women what is the big deal of ur man asking for love making. would u do it, get mad or rather buy a gift than to give yourself as a gift.

2006-12-05 14:41:54 · 9 answers · asked by keithy 3 in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal.... I have a close group of friends, and recently, about 2 months ago, I found out that one girl (ashley) liked me. However, I am not interested in her, instead I am interested in her best friend, Emily. However, I talked to Emily about how I feel, and she kinda has feelings for me too. The problem is, Emily and Ashley have grown up together and are best friends. Emily said she can't go out with me right now just for that reason, and that theres nothing she can do about it, because if she goes out with me, then Ashley will hate her forever (and me for that matter). Anyway, does anyone have any suggestions? I would like to date Emily, but it seems that Ashley will be pissed at both of us, and everything will be lost.

2006-12-05 14:41:52 · 2 answers · asked by Tryingtofigure it out 1 in Friends

ok i liked this guy for a while. i told one friend and suddenly everyone knew including him, at that time i didnt really know him but know that i know him better i like him more than ever. in the begginning he said he didnt like me but now he acts diffrent around me like he stares at me and stuff. alot of people say that he just stares at the girl he likes and he never really talks to the girl that he likes and that is how he acts aroung me but i am not really sure i am alittle affraid to talk to him but i really just want to not care what anyone thinks. i talk to him everyonce and a while but i always see him and have that opportunity but i dont know what to say or how to act especially since he already knows help me please?? i really like him and all i want him is to like me too so please help

2006-12-05 14:41:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If know this girl since 2002, and ever since she's been my other sister. I'm gay, so I dont date her, but everytime I talk to her I just smile, knowing shes mine. She was the first one that I told I was gay, and helped me with all of my problems ever since. Even stopping me from killing myself. Now I talk to her about everything and call her "my life". So if something bad happens to her, something bad happens to me...

This December will be her 15 birthday, and in January, our 5th year "knowing each other" aniversary. I want to do something for her that will make her cry with joy. But, I dont have money!!! (Well, some...maybe 100 or so..) What should I do?

P.S!!!! I HAD A GREAT IDEA BUT DID NOT WORK OUT!!!
if you are having the same/ similar problem with JUST a friend, do this. But a ring under 100 and take her/him somewhere. On that day, recite a poem/speach and then "propose" to be together forever. ;)

2006-12-05 14:40:48 · 10 answers · asked by Greg H 1 in Friends

I had a friend and we recently became more than just friends and started sleeping together. Well I was HEAD OVER HEELS for him!!! I thought I had found The One!!! Then I asked him if it was just about sex and he got weird and started making excuses and finally he said that even though there is an incredible physical attraction between us he doesn't think we are compatible enough in other ways! How do I deal with this??? I feel so violated! I feel like he lied to me and misled me just to get into bed! He really seemed like he liked me! He was sending all the signals he loved me. I am devasted!!!! What is his problem? How do I deal with this? I am so angry yet I still "love" him. Help!!!!!!

2006-12-05 14:40:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as im female an now am atrackted to females i think im a lesbian an not sure..this realy does confuse me..any1 no?

2006-12-05 14:40:30 · 14 answers · asked by collene d 2 in Weddings

my friends talked me into asking one of the guys that i like but is also SOMEWHAT of a friend to me to winter fling. This guy is in a few of my classes, and i sit next to them in one or two of them, but im not sure when i should ask him, because
1. im not very self confident but am trying to work on it, so i stutter sometimes when im nervous so im not sure if just coming out and saying it would work, seeing as there is a lot i feel i need to say.
2. his popular sort-of friends are in all of them, so its going to be very hard to get his attention without attracting unwanted-and very rude-ears.
3. i was told to send a note but that seems awkward and i don't want it to seem like a date, i want to go 'as friends'...
4. i have NEVER done this before, and no guy has ever asked me except once in middle school, so im extra nervous and feel im not popular enough, though my popular friend told me it would be cute for us 2 go together.

~How should I go about this? any success stories?

2006-12-05 14:40:22 · 3 answers · asked by aerie anna 3 in Singles & Dating

I started hanging out with this girl a few months ago and we got pretty close. Hung out a lot and talked all the time. Recently, we havent been together as much and I'm not sure why. I dont know if I have the courage to just go up to her and ask her about it so I was thinking about writing a note/poem to tell her how I feel. Maybe throw a few jokes in it that we had together. I was just wondering if this would be a good idea to maybe get us talking again. Thanks everyone.

2006-12-05 14:39:44 · 9 answers · asked by b 2 in Singles & Dating

Men, how tall are you and what is the height preference on the perfect girl?

2006-12-05 14:39:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am the type of guy you would see hangin in the gym with ma boys. I take off my top when we play volleyball or frisbee or swim. I have this dream of me an my girl going out to tha beach. She could surf for awhile while I cook food on the beach. I would make a fire and then we would make sparks. I am good at makin food and producing love (I don't say makin love. That is too old a term in my view). She kissed me the other day. Actually she kissed her hand and blew it my way. And baby you know I grabbed it with my whole heart and my whole face. I dream of kissin her all over her face: on her eyes, her nose, her forhead, her cheeks, her temple, her chin. I am so full of love and wanna pledge it out. Ladies, count yourself lucky I am alive an kickin... just kidding. I know there are all kinds of ladies who love all kinds of things and all kinds of guys who do different stuff like cook on the beach or watch them surf or comb his fingers through her hair and inbetween her temp

2006-12-05 14:38:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend is 15 and has a boy friend she loves.but i am not is he loves her as much as she loves him...he always gives her hugs but he gives everyone hug (even me). he never kissed her is that ok?

2006-12-05 14:38:09 · 9 answers · asked by ami 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't like my body too much(I had a baby about 2 years ago and it hasn't been the same since.) I want to feel sexier for me so that I have more confidence when I date men. I'm not fat, I just feel unattractive because what having a baby has done to my body.

2006-12-05 14:37:14 · 18 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-05 14:36:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On Friday night my friend and I were hanging out watched a movie and had some dinner. This night was more then that though. We went to gis girlfriends house and there was a small party there. They were drinking and doing drugs and were pressuring me to do some. I said no and got very angry and left. I don't talk very much, and this girl who likes me wanted me to talk to her but I didnt want to cause I was frustrated and wanted to find a way to leave. I "snuck' out and I hated these people. They laughed at me when I had an acid reflex attack that night and sorta abandened me. I dont really hate them anymore just very mad. Today they confronted me and I told them I still hate them a bit and very mad. I feel bad that I said that though. Should I feel bad for saying that?

2006-12-05 14:36:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why is it that everytime I think I find a girl, she just brushes me off like nothing!?!

"F" Love.

You know how they say that there's someone out there for everyone?... Well, there wrong!

Life sucks! :(

2006-12-05 14:36:37 · 7 answers · asked by skillsusa_california 1 in Singles & Dating