I don't like my body too much(I had a baby about 2 years ago and it hasn't been the same since.) I want to feel sexier for me so that I have more confidence when I date men. I'm not fat, I just feel unattractive because what having a baby has done to my body.
2006-12-05 14:37:14 · 18 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Beauty comes from deep within. There is nothing more magical than giving birth to something that had grew inside you. It is an incredible journey for you and your child.
So surely, you are the beautiful one. Your experience has also matured you in certain ways.
Real decent men will see that in you when you find them. They won't give a sh*t about your holes in your bum cheeks or your tiger skin hips.
2006-12-05 14:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't image what a child does to you mentally and physically. I do not have a child, but know sometimes as a women you get that way of unattractive. If you can afford a treatment to the hair salon, nails, etc go ahead. (Even invite your girlfriends, best people to go enjoy yourself with) If financially you can't afford it, buy some make-up (try using colors, or something your not use to it. Just play around with it until your comfortable) Second, clothing!!!!! Clothing is essential to feeling sexy (mind you, it does not have to be revealing. Mix and match!) Third, music. Do you have a favorite song that makes you feel like you can do anything. Play it as loud as possible whether at home or in the car. And sing to make you believe the words to feel sexy. Last, showing your spirit! You have to walk, talk, act sexy. Like someone stated before. If you believe you are sexy, then you are!!!!!!!!!!!!
Go ahead, with your sexy self!
2006-12-05 22:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by Seeking Faith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't get down on yourself...your dilemma is one many women have after having a child. I would suggest doing some toning exercises ab work out and slight lifting about 3 times a week. You will definitely see results if you stick with it and you will also feel better about yourself in general. Also don't let others define you, if you feel good inside then it will show on the outside..confidence is sexy...not having the perfect body!
2006-12-05 22:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by thereis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have certain clothes that make me feel sexier, like v-neck tops and shoes with heels. I look at myself in the mirror when I get out of the shower and do poses and admire my distinctly female curves and sort of 'celebrate' feeling female. I smile a lot and try to have confidence in myself. Surely you see all different kinds of beauty in all different kinds of people. You have your own unique beauty as well. BTW I am overweight and still feel sexy most days!
2006-12-05 22:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Atheista 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
buy some sexy lingerie and wear it around the house, even if it's by yourself.. then stirp down and give yourself a nice bubble bath.. make your skin smooth and soft.. then get some lotion or cream and rub it all over your body.. gently massage yourself, and touch yourself in sensitive areas.. heck, even play with yourself.. give yourself an orgasm! learn to love yourself.. take pride in yourself. you're a great person. you've got a new baby which is a very special thing. you're a kind and loving mother too . take pride in knowing that you are an amazing person... attitude is everything, and feeling sexy really is a state of mind..
2006-12-05 22:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it...looking sexy is feeling sexy. All one in the same. Having a baby is a wonderful thing and you need to feel the beauty in that as a driving force to your sexiness, not a detriment to it.
2006-12-05 22:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about going to a Spa or maybe get a make over and then wear a lil tighter sex clothes. But you are very beautiful nomatter what you do all women are beautiful in their own way .
2006-12-05 22:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by John H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, im not exactly a girl, but my girlfriend i know feels alot sexier, comfortable, and less shy when she has on more makeup, and all those sexy clothes.
as long as your not overweight alot, just wear a bit of makeup (dont overdue it) and then put on some tight jeans, and maybee a pushup bra and let the guys come to you :]
2006-12-05 22:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by tupersrooper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go buy yourself some nice bras and underwear. Cute sexy ones. Not "mom" ones.
2006-12-05 22:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by amandafofanda66 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
do stomach firming exercises, and remember being sexy is not just whats on the outside, its what is on the inside.
2006-12-05 22:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by Pandora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋