my boyfriend of 7 months just broke up with me...?

Question

can anyone say anything that will reassure me its not the end of the world? im just really upset.

Answer 1

The sun will come out tomorrow, bet your bottom dollar that, tomorrow, there'll be sun.....

Answer 2

7 months isn't a long time. But, you may not forget even after 7 or 17 years! If you really fell in love with this guy - it's going to be hard for awhile. It's okay to cry and to feel sad. One of the reasons why women are emotionally more resilient than men is that they allow themselves to grieve. 10 years from now may seem like a long time, but when you get there- it will seem like the time flew by - you could be happily even married to the right person with children you love and things will be so different - even then you'll remember the past but it won't destroy you and you'll realize that if you didn't lose him - you wouldn't have what you've got now! Start thinking about getting ready for that person who is right for you that you haven't met yet. Becoming the kind of person that guy would want to be with. If you want to let go of the past faster - it will take a fight. I would destroy pictures, photos, phone numbers and anything that would tempt you to contact him - avoid having to see him as much as possible and focus your energies into a new hobby rather than him. Perhaps you've always wanted to learn figure skating or try some other new sport. Get involved in an activity that will demand your heart, time and energy and it will help keep your mind off of him.

Answer 3

It is always the best policy to tell the truth,otherwise it will come back and bite you in the butt at some point and time.Yeah the truth may hurt and maby he cant handle the truth. Maby he jealous of your previous relationships.But for a start this is all in the past and he shouldent be asking about the past if he cant handle it.Is it not now what matters not what happened over 7 months ago. Ah leave him he will either come running or you can find a better boyfriend, who is not worried about the past.The past is the past.Enjoy x

Answer 4

It's not the end of the world. ^_^

It's ok to feel sad. Just remember that it won't last forever and another man is just around the corner.

Also, ask yourself if you really thought that you were going to marry this man. If the answer is "no" then look at this as only a trial run. It will take a few relationships to finally get it straight. Don't fret.

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Answer 5

You're young, there will be plenty more boyfriends in your life...this is fate's way of telling you that you can and will do better someday. Or maybe, you two will end up together in the future, when the timing is right. Either way, you are going to be with the person who is perfect for you. Until then, keep your friends close to you, and just have fun. Laughter is the best medicine :)

Answer 6

Dont give up yet , because if he really did love you and you just had a fight over some silly thing he will call in a few days, just go to the mall and look around to get your mind on other things or read at the library, dont sit at home {keep the answering machine on though] just DO SOMETHING not mope or call him and in 3 days if you dont get a message on your machine get drunk and call him and say whats the deal, by then he will either miss ya or go on from there.

Answer 7

Sometimes what we planned that's going to happen usually don't go our way... My dear whatever his reasons for breaking up with you i don't know but what i do know is that it doesn't end here although you might feel that it's the end of your world and nothing wll make you happy again then you get a shock just when you least expect it, you'll meet someone so much better then your exboyfriend and you'd think why did i waste my time with him when i could have don this.....

Answer 8

It's not the end of the world. My girlfriend just broke up with me three days ago, and while I'm not happy with it, I have to say I know that things will be alright. I know everyone says "oh it's for the best" and as annoying as it is to hear that, sometimes it's the truth. Take care of yourself, and trust that things will be okay. If you need support, you can message me. Good luck.

Answer 9

It's not the end of the world. I know you are feeling lousy right now, but in time that feeling will pass. You need to give yourself time to get over him. You don't say what his reason was for wanting to end the relationship, but whatever it is, look at it this way: You don't want to be with someone who doesn't truly want to be with you, do you? It could be a blessing in disguise that he wanted to call it quits. You could meet someone else who's a better fit for you. Keep your chin up and just take it one day at a time. Cry when you feel like crying, be nice to yourself and spend time with friends and family. God Bless.

Answer 10

I know it sucks to have your heart broken. Really all you can do is deal with it for a while, and realize that you're becoming stronger because of it. Spend lots of time with friends going out and having fun and just try not to think about him. Put away everything that reminds you of him. Maybe in a few months you'll be able to think about him without pain and you can take the stuff back out.

Answer 11

There are many more fish in the sea. As you get older, you'll realize that 7 months in the big picture, is really not that long. You'll find someone else don't worry. Good Luck and keep your head up.