When looking for a person to date....does weight really matter to you?If you saw a pretty girl but she was on the heavy side,would that make you run the other way or would you still at least try to talk to her and see what happens?Would you be embarrassed to date a heavier woman?Or to you does that not matter?Serious replies only please!
2006-12-05 15:37:12 · 12 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if some one really cares about you, what you look like means nothing
2006-12-05 15:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by fairlyodd44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only fair to say that yes, weight matters to me. I am not attracted to extremely obese women. Nor am I attracted to painfully thin women, either. In my experience, given a woman within the broad boundaries of my personal standards, it then becomes their personality that makes them either more or less attractive. Someone who, at first glance, I think is just so so in the looks department, can become the most beautiful woman in the world if she engages my intellect. Attraction is more complicated than simply how much someone weighs. The most physically desirable woman in the world could be a complete turn-off. After passing the initial "looks" test - that differs for every man - it's about personality and intellect after that...for me anyway...
2006-12-05 23:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Zeke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, physical attraction is not all that important. But it is what you know about someone before you know who they are. I'm not trying to be shallow, so forgive me if I am. As far as physical attraction is concerned, the face is a must. She needs to have a pretty face. But I would date a girl who was a little heavy. Girls like that are great because they love you for who you are. They are not shallow, they aren't always trying to live up to the impossible standards of society. They are interested in other things then makeup, and looking pretty. And having conversations with them is generally more fun. So, yes, I am not judge mental of weight.
2006-12-05 23:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by TheSilverBeetles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to some degree yes it matters. the society has made everyone to stay away from lots of things like race, gender and weight also being one of them. I guess what I'm saying is that if you know the person in a friendship level first, you can get past that weight situation. good luck!
2006-12-05 23:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by monreve_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can stand a little bit of weight like maby her thighs are a tiney bit to thick, but if she has a belly, then no way. I keep my body in shape and if i can work hard for it, then i want a woman who takes care of her body just as much. it is not shallow or anything like that. I work hard to keep in shape and she should to if she wants to be with me. i would never date a girl who weighs more than me.
2006-12-05 23:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weight does not matter to me. The most important thing I look for in a girl is - does she like me ? :-)
2006-12-05 23:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by stoutseun69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid to say that overweight ladies bug me a bit. If they make an effort I'm there for them.....but if they sit around eating chocolates sooner or later I give up. I might say that they are probably fine for less active or older men.
2006-12-05 23:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by b-overit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to all the fat chicks, but yes, it's important to me.
I'm thin and I don't think it makes me superficial to want a girl with a similar body type to mine. At any rate, I can't control what I'm physically attracted to, and I am NOT physically attracted to girls who don't take care of their bodies.
2006-12-05 23:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Wolfcastle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what....i used to only like girls that were in serious shape but now that i matured a bit i find heavier girls attractive....if she looks good to u and the sex is great and you like her then its all good
2006-12-05 23:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When dating starts people slowly think about sex when sex means men like not a fat women because i like to enjoy during intercourse hugging , lifting, kissing like that if it is fat girl it is very difficult to handle.
i like the size 36'' 26'' 36''
2006-12-05 23:46:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋