what goes on in a mans mind after he is caught cheating? I caught my husband cheating and he says that he chooses me wants to work out marriage
2006-12-05 15:48:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its so cliche but once a cheater always a cheater..he might be on his good behavior for a week, a month, maybe even a year or two but honey, one day he will do it again...my advice is tell him to move out!! you don't wont to live your life wondering when it will happen again..you cant trust him..just think if he lied to you about another woman, he could be lying to you about other things..value yourself and don't suffer through his lies any longer! find you a good man that wants you and only you! we all deserve someone like that..you don't have to settle for his lying @$$!!
2006-12-05 15:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by Shina Beana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people, men or women feel that they are entitled to cheat. That somehow the world owes them this little favor. It is wharped thinking. Cheaters are idiots. After they are caught, they have a different outlook, and are remorseful. It does NOT prevent them from doing it again. What ever their reason for doing it in the first place, will most likely surface at some point. Not that there aren't exceptions.
2006-12-05 16:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes on in a cheating mans mind, you ask? "Ok, so ive been caught! She still chose to stay with me. Whew, Cool, that is great. Must mean that its ok to cheat. I will just wait til I think she trusts me again before I do it again!!!Hmmm well I did it again. Got caught again, wow she still wants to stay. Man it definately IS ok to cheat. This cheating thing is awesome. She will yell, scream and cry for awhile but I can cheat all I want and she will still stay". Thats it honey plain and simple! Do you want to play this senario over and over. Get out while you can you deserve better then a creep like him.
2006-12-05 16:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may be the exception here, but I cheated on my wife 11 years ago and will never do it again. Some men cheat because they are cheaters, some men cheat to fill a void their wives leave in their lives. Try to fix what's wrong with the relationship, but I'd dump his *** on infidelity number 2, end of story. Good luck to you guys.
2006-12-05 15:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by scar_strangled_banter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess the first thing to do is ask yourself why did he? wrote everything down and try to find a reason to it. men don't normally cheat unless there is a reason. so now I'm not defend him. but i have cheated on my wife and there was a reason. now i know there will be some people who will have a fit about what I'm saying. but you have to understand people don't do things without a reason.oh by the way we solved the issues and we just celebrated our 12th. wedding anniversary.
2006-12-05 16:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jeffery B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couldn't say. I don't cheat.
You won't ever be able to trust him again. Think about that. Maybe you don't care if he cheats. Some women don't. If you do care then I don't know what to say.
2006-12-05 15:52:34 · answer #6 · answered by Just trying to help 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would assume, oh s h i t, and then here comes the sad puppy dog look, until next time. For me, it might be hard, but I would have to say see ya, and don't let the door hit you, where the good Lord split you........
2006-12-05 15:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why didnt he choose you instead of the other women before? He should of thought of that before but now hes BUSTED!
2006-12-05 15:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look once a cheater always a cheater move on
2006-12-05 15:51:52 · answer #9 · answered by connie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave his *** ... RESPECT YOURSELF ! good luck no 2nd chances. once a cheater always a cheater....
2006-12-05 15:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋