2006-12-05 15:50:29 · 7 answers · asked by loopieshoes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have fallen into routine. Your marriage is still young. Bring back the excitement the romance. I have been married for 27 years and the desire is as strong today as in the beginning. This is something you have to work on, it is not handed to you on a silver platter. Falling into routine creates losing the spark.
2006-12-05 15:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I bet this is where it's at.
You're nagging cuz you feel like he doesn't do enough, he's not doing enough cuz you're nagging and basically telling him anything he does either isn't good enough or could be done better by a monkey.
My advice.... stop nagging, but ask instead with a smile and big kiss. Bang your husband everyday at least once (cuz that's probaly down to once a month). Tell him how much you appreciate him... and watch him turn into a loyal puppy. He'll soon get the picture and things will begin to turn around.
Do this for like a month. If it works keep doing it, if it doesn't, then maybe he's an as*hole and you've got bigger problems that you may want to think about leaving.
2006-12-05 15:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by Say it like it is 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
This is an easy one! It's simple, pull back a little. Don't report your every move, he'll know you went food shopping when he sees the food. create other interests that have nothing to do with him like movies or dinner every tuesday with a friend or by yourself. and dont ask him to do anything, go any where, or need anything from him. Don't treat him coldly, always show how happy you are with your new found contentment. Nagging gets you notjing but ignored whereas indifference gets you noticed. Also invest in some new sexy a$$ underwear and sleep wear, as well as fragrant shower gel and lotion. Wear these things as he watches you get dressed for work, or showered for bed--but don't ask or initiate sex. Do this and before the month is up you will have his attention for sure! Continue this behavior and he'll be asking you for your time!
2006-12-05 16:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Meems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all--DO NOT BE A NAG!!!!! Next--turn yourself into a total freak. Do things that you would never do. This is the main problem of most relationships.Everybody wants to try new things. Keep it fresh. Keep your man intrigued. Never be afraid to try new stuff. Remember: HE BELONGS TO YOU!!! Therefore, you get to do and accept what ever you want. Most of all, never be scared of what excites you the most- You are THE QUEEN!!!!
2006-12-05 16:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by queensassey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you KNOW that you're a nag, then stop!
Nagging will only drive that wedge further between you.
2006-12-05 16:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chatty lady, how can you be married. You just posted a question saying you were having problems with your boy friend. Am I mistaken?
2006-12-05 15:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by Just trying to help 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be creative and imaginative think of something new and exciting...... its not changing partners it changing the ways of loving your partners.
2006-12-05 15:53:51 · answer #7 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋