is there such a thing as the perfect guy? does true love really exists?? do u have to search for true love? what if u fail to find it?
2006-12-05 15:42:05 · 11 answers · asked by [MiA] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both "Prefect guy" and "True love" have become " myths "in the current world.
Love is all around but true love is hard to find.
More than love it is lust that rules the world now. And there is no " Love at first sight ,it is "Lust at First sight"
The expression of love among partners seems to be motivated by sheer selfishness to please their passions.
But true love is - something unconditional and love with out lust!
2006-12-05 15:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Infoseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no such thing.
You see, when you love someone you don't really love them. You love the way they look, or the way they treat you, or the way they act, or something else....
So there will always be things that you will dislike about someone as well.
In the end, there are some people that have many traits you love, and that's why you think that they're perfect although they always have their defects. Thinking the person is perfect is an illusion.
2006-12-05 23:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's no such thing as a perfect person.
If you go through life searching for one, you are going to be very dissapointed.
In fact, you will chase away lots of good men, because you will keep expecting them to be more than what they are, and eventually they will leave you for someone who apprecates them for what they are.
Are you perfect?
As for love, yes there is love, but you can't have perfection as a qualifier.
2006-12-05 23:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by mande95747 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in perfect people. People are inherently flawed, so no one is truly perfect for anyone. True love is when you are able to be with a person and you are able to overlook his/her worst flaw. At any rate, searching for perfection is a one-way road to disappointment. Do as the Crosby Stills and Nash song says, and "Love the one you're with."
2006-12-06 00:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "perfect guy" in your eyes may not be the same in another girl's point of view. True love will come to you when it is time. If you fail to find it, then too bad.
2006-12-05 23:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by *azure* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No Man is perfect, you have to give them years of love and youre way of thinking to make them almost perfect, and then you need to accept all their faults and how the Mom raised them to be in life good or bad
2006-12-06 00:01:08 · answer #6 · answered by colbydog43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what you are looking for and what you beleive.. yes for some they have already found it, for others it is comming, for the rest of them, never will happen.... the way to find it is, ask for it, beleive that it will come, and watch for and expect it, and as always be careful what you wixh for,
2006-12-05 23:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u rn't asking n e thing new i have seen that ? about 500 times. i wish there was an answer to that .. but for now only you can find the answer for ur self. good luck.
2006-12-05 23:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The perfect guy..... there is none... everyone out there is not. I dont care what they say.
2006-12-05 23:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by svpunk18 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm starting to believe there isn't, and I'm honestly starting to hate men more and more everyday.
2006-12-05 23:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by kckell2311 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋