Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

what should she do?

2006-11-17 06:01:31 · 5 answers · asked by zakari 1 in Friends

I'm not really a spelling nazi, but the errors I see here everyday are atrocious...I'm talking about simple words!

What kind of a retard manages to spell the word "gross" as "grose", or "does" as "dose"? WTF?

There are people here that spell with the skill level of a hyperactive and dyslexic fourth-grader.

Come on people, spell-check is a free program.

2006-11-17 06:00:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

her so she refused to move to MO now I can't see my child how do I get rights to see him on a regular basis ... Please help

2006-11-17 05:59:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I would be happy with a small wedding, but SHE wants a huge one with all her church friends, thats why shes flipping most of the bill. She has already shot down my dress, flower &color choices. The big problem is she wants NO alcohol. Our package at the hotel INCLUDES a cocktail hour, a glass of wine at dinner, and a champange toast. Also the beverage minimum is $4k. She forbids any of it! Even the toast! She wants to toast with apple cider, and serve fruit punch and water ONLY, not even soda. We are going to lose about $7k by forfitting the alcohol, the hotel won't change their minimums just because we choose not to have it. She is a big part of her church, and says that we arent "allowed" to have alcohol, but the reception isnt at the church, its at a hotel! Also, my family are drinkers and want to have a good time, they are really upset about this. She doesnt even aknowlege that I have a family, its all about her. I cant speak up cause she is paying for so much! What to do?

2006-11-17 05:59:36 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She seems really cool, attractive and my type,
I have never dated anyone with a child before.
Any thoughts, feelings, or experiences you have had will be greatly appriciated.
thanks

2006-11-17 05:59:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that you KNEW NOTHING ABOUT>>>>you thought he was a good guy...ANYWAY, MONTHS LATER, HE SAYS WHILE HE WAS DRINKING....something a long the lines of he had been in prison for blah, blah, blah....he was clean cut, cute and had a great personality...HIS FRIENDS WOULD NEVER MENTION THAT TO YOU EVEN IF YOU WERE TO ASK....THEY would be forced to lie for him to not screw up the relationship...why do you think she did that??? later when i called her and said..."i did not know that he had been in trouble with the law!!!" she said basically..."we wanted him to meet a nice girl and we thought of you...we thought with a nice girl he would change...Plus how did you find out about it??? i said HE TOLD ME..."...nOW HOW DO I GET RID OF HIM????NOW I AM SUSPICIOUS...AND realize their friends will never tell and just let it go at that...Now i do not know how many times this guy had done this thing that deserved prison time, but i don;t care...i feel soo stupid...Now i can see why people accidently ..

2006-11-17 05:58:59 · 5 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Singles & Dating

i mean whenever i talk about a man she gets defensive and say things like girl you donot need a man you need to get your stuff together as far as my own place and stuff, or if i see a nice-looking guy and comment about him she will say things like girl there you go talking about a man again, or say we are sitting at her house and she wants me to read or look at something in a book instead of her passing the book she comes and sit on the arm of the sofa where i am sitting,or like when we go apt looking she says things like yea girl we need to just do this or that..it is always we...not me..and then she loves feeling my hair when i get it done or touch a certain shirt i have on to feel the fabric,we have other girls too but it is only me she does these things too..we have known each other the longest out of everybody she is older than the rest of us..i feel uncomfortable around her sometimes but she is a good friend and i donot want to lose a friend...so what is going on with her?

2006-11-17 05:58:02 · 3 answers · asked by momo6a4ever 1 in Friends

when your dog is the only other one in the house?????

2006-11-17 05:57:49 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like a child in love, I felt a tingling in my chest,
I felt like it feels when you feel your very best;

Nothing else matters much, I have what I miss most,
I stayed awake all night asking, is this real or its a ghost;

I let go of myself, feeling what its like to be on cloud nine,
All these tests I have been through, some hard some just fine;

Is this love, I asked my soul, or merely another hurt,
That just feels good at first, then suddenly feels like dirt;

I have been hurt before, so I build around a huge wall,
My love cried out for me, but I couldn't just hear his call;

I am not the one you knew, for I know you not too well,
My hopes flew high up once, then suddenly, gave up and fell;

I am not the one you had, I gasped and struggled to tell,
My spirits not free anymore, I crept back into my lonely shell;

One day perhaps to eagles, I will ask to take her my sweet talk,
Tell her this was from my heart and never did I ever mock;

Her heart I may never win, for the heavens may not even know,
That the one who spoke from the heart, was the one to leave and go.

2006-11-17 05:56:42 · 4 answers · asked by deevoonay 3 in Singles & Dating

ok this dude in my english class has a huge crush on me. i will admit he is a nice guy but i have a boyfriend and even if i was not going out with him i would still not go out with him. and the worst part is is that he has a girlfriend!
HELP!!!!

2006-11-17 05:54:48 · 13 answers · asked by ktpunk 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel like my heart is being pulled in two

2006-11-17 05:54:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is it that makes a person considered popular? Should we envy them? Why or why not? How do the pressures to fit in effect you? If you are popular, what is it you gain? Do you loose anything by not being popular? Please give diligent detailed answers if possible, this is for a project at school and I really need others views to include, and since I'm shy this is the easiest way for me to ask. If you could, give me gender and age, but you dont have to if you dont want. I may include some of these views in my research project, so if you just want to give me insight, but dont want me to use thats fine too. Thank you so much!

2006-11-17 05:53:08 · 6 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Friends

i thought about brushing the inside of the toilet w/ the person's toothbrush then peeing on it, but i never did it i'm too nice lol

2006-11-17 05:52:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have met someone at my work and I really like him....He actually loves me to death. He knew it at first site that I am the one. I am hindu and He is muslim......our religions are totally different and knowing my parents. They will not be very happy with me when they find out that I am dating a muslim guy. I am almost about to graduate from college with my Biochemistry degree and He doesnt even want to go to college. I dont know how our future is going to look like....I feel like I am soo smart and he doesnt even know anything. what should I do??

2006-11-17 05:52:55 · 8 answers · asked by Ashi 2 in Friends

my gf wont *** and watch a film wiv me cos i got an ear infection she wont even let me go haha how unfair is that lol

2006-11-17 05:52:23 · 1 answers · asked by liam_jones_10_10 2 in Friends

I just broke up with my bf and now she is running to him and asking him out and stuff.Should my Best Friend go out with my x-boyfriend?Is that right for me to be caught in the middle?I really care for her.Please help someone

2006-11-17 05:52:17 · 19 answers · asked by die romantic 3 in Singles & Dating

Girls as we all know are sometimes hard to figure out. But what is it they actually go for? Are looks really important? Or could you date someone based just on personality?? I hang out with a mixture of people and I notice that my motocross friends, who are covered in tattoos and have the "badboy" image, tend to attract more attractive girls than my prep looking friends. Why is that? Someone explain all this to me!!

2006-11-17 05:49:40 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex had been going out for 5 months and we got a baby on the way. I have tried being her friend but all she wants to do is plainly ignore me. She puts the blame of us breaking up on me. "You did this and you did that." What should I do? Remain her friend and let her do this or drop her completely and just deal with the baby part? I want the baby in my life but its getting to the point were i dont want anything to do with her,

What should I do?

2006-11-17 05:48:20 · 14 answers · asked by The Mole 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have beeen married for a year now, we just celebrated our one year anniversary on the 15th, but I can't get him to have sex with me or to do other sexual acts with me. I am 19 years old, I take care of my body and am in fairly good shape and my husband is 33. When we were dating we used to have sex everyday, if not multiple times a day. And for the first few months we were married we had sex all the time. Now, I am lucky if we have sex once a month, and when we do have sex, my husband refuses to look at me. He only wants to do it when it is doggie-style or when he is laying down behind me. The only sexual thing we do on a regular basis is me performing oral sex on him. And when I am doing that he always has his eyes closed, but when we were dating he loved to watch me do it to him. Don't get me wrong - I love to do that to my husband, but sometimes it would be nice to get that in return, but that has not happened since January 2006. Why is he like this now?

2006-11-17 05:47:54 · 31 answers · asked by Krisie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do you like to watch cartoons? if so what does your girlfriend think about it? does she think it's cute? or does she think your imature for it?

2006-11-17 05:47:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When my younger sister's 25 year old husband died from a car accident (he got hit and killed instantly by a drunk driver on Valentine's Day. They found a bouquet of flowers with a note that said "I love you my darling, my soul mate" in my sister's husbands car so he was going to give them to her when he came home from work but he never made it home. And when my sister found out that her husband passed, my sister collapsed and had heart failure. And she died the following week. I believe her body just shut down because she didn't want to live anymore. Her and her husband have been together since they were 12 years old. They were definately soul mates.
I had a dream about them and in my dream they were together and happy and when I woke up I felt an overwhelming sense of peace.

2006-11-17 05:46:43 · 15 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5 in Marriage & Divorce

every note book of his is filled with cartoons, he a smart student, but this was crazy, in the future he wants to be an actor, he says that at home sometimes when he is alone he will pretend to be different characters! What does that tell about this guy? i say he is crazy!

2006-11-17 05:45:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend is away for a while and I want to show him I miss him and am thinking of him. Obviously if it was the other way round then flowers and chocolates would be the easy solution, but what do girls send guys? I think flowers are a bit girly and not sure he'd really appreciate them and may get laughed at by his mates! Ideas please! helim gift balloons good or bad?

2006-11-17 05:45:01 · 10 answers · asked by fds f 1 in Singles & Dating

I was asked for an advice from a friend of mine who is experiencing such drama! He loves his Chinese girl friend and they’ve been together for 3 years. They went through ups and downs, but they are still with each other and love each other. Until her student visa ended she had to go back to China. He was with her until the end. Now she is in China and he still calls her almost everyday. He says he is willing to marry her now as he made a mistake not doing so before when she was with him, but as she is Buddhist, she has to convert to Muslim for him to marry her. He was afraid what will his parents will say. She is not sure as well if she will be able to convert as she is scared form the idea. He told me that he is willing to do anything for her, but when it comes to religion he cannot break the rules! I could not advice him more than telling him to be just a friend as it is very complicated situation! Any advice?

2006-11-17 05:44:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I often go into the store, late at night, to pick up a few items or just browse around. Lately, I've been experiencing random women attempting to strike up conversations with me, or making a point of saying hello to me, or "coincidentally" crossing my path multiple times.

For example, I was in Walmart the other night, and this happened. This one woman crossed my path a few times before finally driving her cart towards me, looking me straight in the eyes, and saying "How are you doing toinght?" I said, "fine, thanks" and kept on walking the opposite direction. I didn't know what to think.

A similar thing happened around Halloween. I was in the Walmart, late at night, and a woman stopped me and tried to make conversation about a Halloween display.

Are these chicks trying to hit on me? If so, could I be anymore clueless?

2006-11-17 05:44:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 weeks and I have yet to have a hug for him. He says that he likes me a lot, but i just don't believe it.

2006-11-17 05:43:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does it work to be a man-hater and have a relationship?
Why are they so aggressive?

2006-11-17 05:43:13 · 15 answers · asked by B i n g o 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 05:43:05 · 22 answers · asked by bmxbabe 1 in Friends

I have been married for almost 8 years and I want to show my man that I love him without the sex. Sex has become so routine and sometimes inconvienent (aka 4 kids) that I need something else. Any suggestions?

2006-11-17 05:42:58 · 25 answers · asked by Brat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Now, I am a very sexual person and lately my boyfriend has not wanted to have sex at all. So last night I told him if I don't get it then I'll buy a toy. and he got upset saying that I was being vendictive and couldn't believe that I would say something like that to hurt him. *sigh* I can understand it's partily because we recently just moved in with his parents for the next six months to save money.But it's a big house and we have our own room away from his parents (downstairs) and he doesn't even try when nobody's home!! I'm I so wrong in saying that?

2006-11-17 05:42:56 · 23 answers · asked by Curiosity98 1 in Singles & Dating