She seems really cool, attractive and my type,
I have never dated anyone with a child before.
Any thoughts, feelings, or experiences you have had will be greatly appriciated.
thanks
2006-11-17 05:59:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The child is the most important thing in her life.
Divorced and separated women do not play games.
The child must like you for her to be attracted to you.
Your big opportunity comes at Christmas time for you to act nicely. Start by offering to take her and or him to a Christmas play, movie, Tree Liting, etc
2006-11-17 06:04:35 · answer #1 · answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you might as well get used to it. You ain't getting any younger and chicks these days seem to be somewhat indiscriminate about who they have for sperm donors. Remember than anyone can be a 'father', it takes someone special to be a 'dad'. The last girl I was with had 3 boys. She knew that her choice of fathers wasn't the greatest but it was her husband. Not only was he not a great husband, he didn't seem like much of a dad either. So the choice is YOURS..... she has a child and will for life. If she IS 'the one' you have to decide if YOU are going to be a 'father' or a 'dad'............
Oh, and if you are used to a care-free life where you can do whatever whenever you please........if you decide to be with her - those days are gone. Children are responsibilities. (not that they are BAD responsibilities.........)
2006-11-17 14:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by barhopper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch out, because if someone with a child starts getting scared of a committment, they will say 'you don't understand me because you don't have a child'.
Be understand and compassionate toward. Just because she has a child doesn't mean she should be treated any differently than any other woman - she just has less free time.
And, if it gets serious and you meet the child. Be niiiiiice.
2006-11-17 14:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a recently single mom of one. Now that I'm single again my priorities have changed. With that being said, I still want to have a good time. Just have fun but respecting the fact that she is a mom.
2006-11-17 14:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is as nice looking as Salma Hayek and has a great personality and her kid good manners and disciplined. I dont see a problem at all .
2006-11-17 14:03:09 · answer #5 · answered by lopez76g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it it's not like she's asking you to be daddy or nothing. Since you've never done it may be uncomfortable but i think you should just go for it
2006-11-17 14:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by crrousey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋