I just broke up with my bf and now she is running to him and asking him out and stuff.Should my Best Friend go out with my x-boyfriend?Is that right for me to be caught in the middle?I really care for her.Please help someone
2006-11-17 05:52:17 · 19 answers · asked by die romantic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetie .... how can you care for someone who is obviously not caring about u ????
2006-11-17 06:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not right!! That only means that this is something she has been waiting for. She is not a true friend to begin with. Dont get in the middle of it because if you and your ex broke up because he hurt you in some type of way, I mean emotionally, physically or whatever. Why in the world would she want someone that hurt you that can do the same to her. It just dones make any since. Dont get in the middle leave her be she will find out that she is a fool for even wanting to b with someone the her best friend was with. To me she is a Sl** but that is my peronal opinion.
2006-11-17 13:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she should be running to you to give you support and comfort instead of running to your ex. I don't think that she should go out with your ex and I don't think that you should care about her feelings in this matter because she does not care about yours. You should not be caught in the middle at all. You need to get away from him and her. If she can't respect you, then she is not a good friend. Plus, if she continues to be your friend and she dates him, you are bound to hang out with him. It will probably hurt more for you and you may not completely get over him. Tell her to be a real friend. You don't need people like that in your life, they will only bring you down.
2006-11-17 13:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a friend you need in your life.I understand how it feels to care about your friend. But think about how much she really cares about you. It cant be very much if shes tryna get with ya ex. There are to many dudes in the world for that type of violation. You need to sit her down and let her know how you feel. If shes really your best friend she will listen to you and be respectful. If she doesnt then you need a new best friend. REAL TALK!
2006-11-17 13:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by yesindeed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so not right. She should not be trying to take your exbf. If she really cared about you and her friendship she would not be doing that to you. She obviously doesnt care about you and will do what she wants. I would tell her if she goes out with him then she must not care about you that much and you guys are no longer friends. After all; boyfriends come and go but friends ARE SUPPOSED to be forever.
2006-11-17 13:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
`man thats cold, why would your best friend do something like that? technically, shes doing nothing wrong because you two aren't together.....but shes violating alot of best friend rules! If you feel uncomfortable with her going out with him just tell her so, don't loose a boyfriend and a best friend all at once. Best of luck.
2006-11-17 13:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by Elusive ()Ne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm...doesn't she know the friend rule "You are not allowed to date your friend's ex." LOL. You are bigger than me because I would be upset if my best friend tried to go out with my ex. It seems to me like she doesn't have any respect for you. I would talk to her. If you don't care then just say I don't want to be apart of this. I don't want to be in the middle of it.
2006-11-17 14:02:06 · answer #7 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your friend should have talked to you about it first. If she didn't, I would be pretty upset about it. You should talk to her and let her know that you would have appreciated the kindness of a talk but that you wish her luck. Let her try her luck out with the guy and keep that friendship because friends are hard to come by. Good Luck!
2006-11-17 13:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK she is running after him your caught in the middle are you thinking what I'm thinking
2006-11-17 13:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't like it... if she still chooses to go after him then maybe she isn't your best friend after all.... Remember though, guys will come and go, best friends could be forever..... you need to look at the big picture..... Maybe he is working her to get back at you.... just something to think about....
Good luck....
2006-11-17 13:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sloppy seconds is uncalled for. If you break up with your bestfriend or not thats crossing all lines whether your together or not and just shows she's trying to hurt you or she's just plain nasty
2006-11-17 13:55:46 · answer #11 · answered by crrousey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋