I have met someone at my work and I really like him....He actually loves me to death. He knew it at first site that I am the one. I am hindu and He is muslim......our religions are totally different and knowing my parents. They will not be very happy with me when they find out that I am dating a muslim guy. I am almost about to graduate from college with my Biochemistry degree and He doesnt even want to go to college. I dont know how our future is going to look like....I feel like I am soo smart and he doesnt even know anything. what should I do??
2006-11-17 05:52:55 · 8 answers · asked by Ashi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You will never be happy with him later on,first of all you guys have different teachings,secondly "He doesn't even want to go to college" and "I feel like I am SO smart and he doesn't even know anything."This will leads to unhappy endings,Thirdly,both parties parents will not let their children to convert into the others.
"He actually loves me to death"This is just a beginning stage of your love.As you can foresees so many implications,why are you still doing it?
" I don't know how our future is going to look like."This also shows that ,he doesn't want to upgrade himself,you already answered all your doubts.
Think carefully smart lady,don't let Love blind your intelligent.
Heart is to feel,Brain is to think,do not use your Heart to Think.
Good Luck
2006-11-17 06:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by curiousmode 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As far as your future and your compatibility concerns, its up to you two and God. Yahoo answers cannot decide on that obviously..! But if you are thinking about marrying him, and feel that as a Hindu girl you want to retain your religion and still get married to a Muslim boy, you can do so. Thank yourself that you are an Indian citizen..
Any Indian court or Indian embassy can get you married under the "special marriage act 1979" in which you retain your religion inspite of marrying your lover.
2006-11-20 17:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are so many Muslim-Hindu couples in India especially and the guy and girl retain their individual faith. Nobody converts for anybody. LOVE is a very SILLY reason to convert for. The question here is your faith. Are you really a follower of Islam? Or is it because your parents want it for you? If you really love Allah with all your heart, then never give up Islam. Else, it is time to start thinking about whether you really want to continue being a Muslim and going through this pain of fasting. Your parents will not be with you forever so do what your heart says. I understand that u want to patch up with your parents. Everybody loves their parents. And your parents should also know that they are not your dictators. They should respect your choices. They will accept you again someday however long. As for your man, do you really love him? Many people here are asking why he has not converted to Islam for you. As I said, it is UTTERLY STUPID to convert for LOVE. You convert into a religion because you completely agree with it and love being a believer of that particular faith. Bollywood stars like Shah Rukh Khan's wife did not convert to Islam for him nor did Hrithik Roshan convert for his wife, yet they are living happily with their original faiths. They raise their children as both Hindu-Muslim and then when the kids grow up, they choose their faith. If you are feeling lonely, fast with friends or something. No need to complain about your man not fasting with/for you. He is an individual with his own rights as you are. You can't be too dependent on him. That's just foolish. If you love him, you will respect his religious freedom and independence just as he is respecting yours by not asking you to give up your religion. If you really love him, stay strong. Start asking all the above questions before you decide and all the best to you :)
2016-05-21 23:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"...and He doesnt even want to go to college"
There is a saying in Mandarin about fixing a problem when it's small, because if you don't _it will_ GET B-I-G-G-E-R.
Are you REALLY being loved to death ?
Your statement holds the answer to the question you ask.
If you think about in depth -hope you know how- it will be very very obvious, no matter whether he plans to own you as a practicing moslem man "must" or if he's only got "other" problems.
Do a 180.
Run, don't walk.
2006-11-17 06:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey love is blind regardless of religion, race, background! If you love him be with him! Maybe your with encouragement you can get him to more interested in going back for more education. As for your parents, it sounds like your about to graduate and make lots of $, and they may not be happy with it at first but they will get over it, they have other things to be proud of you for! Good Luck
2006-11-17 05:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by jillybean 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you can marry whoever you want unless you are in Texas and of the same sex LOL
2006-11-17 05:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is a nice sayiing: if in doubt, don't!
2006-11-17 06:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
marry who ever you want
2006-11-17 05:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋