Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

I have a bf. But we always fight. We love eachother though. Its been 4 and a half years, but we always have stupid little fights and I always end up feeling so low about myself.

I know its my fault because i always ask stupid questions to get him mad, but i cant help it.

Does anyone know where im coming from?
What can i do to stop having these negative thoughts and just be happy?

:o(

2006-11-17 06:37:39 · 17 answers · asked by Miss L 1 in Singles & Dating

i got my 1st period last may...in 2006. and i told my mom..but my dad has no clue!
its really hard to keep it from him. but i dont want him to know!
any ideas on how i can keep it a secret\tell him?

2006-11-17 06:37:31 · 23 answers · asked by Ash S 1 in Friends

on a default trial court: my child custody case was given joint custody, why? What does it mean to have joint custody exactly? I was requesting sole custody of her along with a visitation schedule for the dad to give him the chance to bond because my doughter (14 months old) does not kwow who he is. So I don't understand why the judge ruled joint custody along w/ my supervised visitations plan for the father? what was the point of filing for default on the case and requesting full custody of her? what can I do to reverse this? I don't want joint custody because he's hardly around, I am the one who takes care of her and spends with her most of her time, why should he get this right if he isn't around...I'm furious about the decision but I didn't want to upset the judge by saying "no" on his judgment. Should I go back and appeal his decision? What can I do or how do I do this? How should I approach the court on this?

2006-11-17 06:37:23 · 6 answers · asked by funshine728 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what would your dream first date be like? where would you go?
and finally what was your first date like and where did you go?

please answer them all :)

2006-11-17 06:37:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im going out tomorrow on a date with a girl that i adore!We are going through a serious and real relationship and I dont wana ruin anything tomorrow.She is the type that goes out with men for the sake of mature realtionships and not only sexual satisfaction.I havent talked with her abt sex but i really do not know whether i should french kiss her tomorrow or just back off a lil bit until we get to know each other more.She has explained to me that she wants to have tomorow a mature chat along with a nice dinner but the kissing part is still kinda vague and i dont wana push her away.So should I go for it tomorrow or just back off(I sometimes end up in bed due to a simple kiss and i dunno what to do )

2006-11-17 06:36:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-17 06:36:31 · 11 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have no money, am not 21 yet, and one of my roomates (the one I hang out with) is going to be out of town. : (

2006-11-17 06:36:15 · 11 answers · asked by Indiana Jonas 4 in Singles & Dating

I am very afraid of people leaving me. My ex-fiancee used this weakmess. He needed my money, so he coerced me into giving him money and threatened me to leave all the time. He not only took away 4000 US dollars from me, he also beat me up badly, cursed me all the time, and emotionally abused me cruelly. he now works at a U.S. university as a post doc. I asked him and his father to pay me back my money, but they refused. He even threatened me. I know he is afraid that somebody might find out the unhumanely things he did to me. I was in a much better shape before I was involved with him. Now I am emotionally devastated and financially broke. I can't forgive nor forget his cruelty towards me. I want to write to his professor and collegues to let them know the truth. Can I do that? I don't think such a beast should be a professor. Should the woman take all the pain and let the man get away with everything? He faked his bachelor's degree paper too. Should I tell?

2006-11-17 06:35:21 · 7 answers · asked by Sally 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently , by accident , discovered my mate signed up and made a generic profile on MAte 1. I am upset about this and he thinks I am over-reacting... Is it ok for your mate to browse online date?? or ( as I see it) ... Dating is Dating... if your chasing then your not taken.... ???

2006-11-17 06:35:14 · 23 answers · asked by c_leoo 4 in Singles & Dating

Wow my friend whom has not even asked me to be his g.f yet is driving me crazy, ok i love him but he does these things that oh my goodness drives me mad, like his ex lives dwn the street so he likes to taunt her so he drives dwn the street playing his music all loud, oh and this guy can eat, alot tht is a lil grossish, oh and if he dnt get enough sleep he takes out his lil grumpy mood wit me but oooh no i cant complain about his complaining, oh and if hez hungry watch out for him!!!! Feed him quick or else he will lose it, oh and last but not least, man o man does this man have road rage like a mo fo!!!!!!! Ahh I love him but I hate him at times and hez a total charmer wow great buttkisser too!!!! I need advice on things I can do to blow off some steam before breaking up with this guy. HELP!!!! Oh and hez 23 and im 24 in case ya'll wanted to kno.

2006-11-17 06:34:19 · 9 answers · asked by ))-->rOXY 3 in Singles & Dating

well this guy asked me out 2 be his lady and well i like him but i think deep inside i only think of him as a friend he is really nice and he is very difrent from all other guys i've ever met. :p

2006-11-17 06:34:03 · 6 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 06:33:30 · 10 answers · asked by Hank S 2 in Singles & Dating

or don't u feel ur less then other girls which look better than u?this really interests me

2006-11-17 06:32:50 · 17 answers · asked by :(_I,suffer 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is having a relationship with a woman who is currently married and has two daughters. She is having sex with him. Their relationship has been going on for 3 months now and they are emotionally and physically connecting and they both claim they are so happy. My friend keeps saying he knows the right thing to do is to break it off but thats all he says and he still keeps doing it and seeing her. Lately me and my wife have been hanging out with them and we are having them over for dinner on Saturday. Are we contributing to her cheating and their adultry? Should we not be getting together with them while they are having their fling? Is it immoral or unethical for my wife and I to be having them over as a couple when she is still married and has a husband. I am not sure what to do. Someone tell me

2006-11-17 06:31:44 · 24 answers · asked by eastwood1870 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 06:31:09 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 06:30:53 · 8 answers · asked by lucky_b3 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 06:30:25 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda M 1 in Friends

My husband lent me his car, i drop him off at work then went to work. I had to pick him up after work in the night, after work i went to get a spa pedicure done since our Anniversary is coming up. I did not tell him, i told hm i would be in the office. till he finish work then i'll pick him up. Where the spa was located the is no reception for cell calls......1/2 way throught the process i check my phone and notice 10 miss call from my husband.......when i do get reception he called again and yell at me.........her got vex and didn't speak to me going home and he said " that's is i feed up" i don't want to tell him i went to a spa....... cause he know i was waiting for him to call and come pick him up.....

2006-11-17 06:30:14 · 15 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 06:30:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 06:29:56 · 29 answers · asked by bittoo khanna 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 06:29:48 · 3 answers · asked by chayo v 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you think a lady should partake in a date. What do you think that a man would always want his woman to wear on a date and why?

2006-11-17 06:29:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OMG! I broke up with my BF about 2 months ago, and i can't get him off my mind. I've called him and texted him, but his mom told mine he dosen't know what to do. We go to different schools so i don't see him anymore. I wrote him a letter and was going to leave it on his doorstep, but i don't want to do that if he hates me! I was horrible to him and called him like once in 2 months, but we went out for 8 MONTHS! I really don't know if i should call him or let him call me when he's ready. HELP PLZ!

2006-11-17 06:29:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cant take rejection cause i've never had a boyfriend. i soo want to be swallowed up into the ground cause one of my guy mates told him, wat if he hates me? im 16, helpxxx

2006-11-17 06:29:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yep it turns me on. He never asks to watch it, in fact says that we don't need it. We do it while watching porn, only every few months...but I imagine it all of the time.

I need to stop this, I don't want to have to think/talk/do this to get off...what do I do? Is this dangerous, might I get him hooked on porn?

2006-11-17 06:29:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like this guy but i can't tell him i 'm 2 scared. i was liking him since the first time i saw him

2006-11-17 06:29:04 · 21 answers · asked by tini_the_queen 1 in Singles & Dating

who else loves newlyweds? i know they are not together now but i still love it

2006-11-17 06:28:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love a girl!...she dont know me but i love her...she's beautiful,kind,good listener, i know all this because i've been watching her with her friends....owh, and she's talkative too, i would really like to hear all her story!...even if it is boring...but she dont even know me......

2006-11-17 06:27:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf has a job and now I'm getting a job. I'm only asking for 20 hrs and for his job, it's more of whenever they need him. This week he worked from Tues. to Fri 3-9. This is a good week. So, what we are afraid of is the fact that we're never going to see each other. I mean with both of us having school in the morning then going to work at night, i just don't know how we are going to manage. i don't want the job but my parents are forcing me to get a job. But what hurts the most is that he's going to get tired of not seeing me and leave. And i love him so much. i have never felt this way for someone before. i can't even go one day with out seeing him but i know that eventaully everything will be alright. What i really want to do is save up for me and him to get an apartment but that's going to take a while and also i got school to pay for. i don't know. I'm just afraid that i'm going to lose the only person i ever loved. Does anyone who's been this have any advice?

2006-11-17 06:27:04 · 5 answers · asked by ronnie 2 in Singles & Dating

same of use have seen her hit her childern to heard. there dad das not know becouse, his not the one who changes there cloth them so he never sees the black marks

2006-11-17 06:27:02 · 10 answers · asked by layeye78 1 in Family