I have a bf. But we always fight. We love eachother though. Its been 4 and a half years, but we always have stupid little fights and I always end up feeling so low about myself.
I know its my fault because i always ask stupid questions to get him mad, but i cant help it.
Does anyone know where im coming from?
What can i do to stop having these negative thoughts and just be happy?
:o(
2006-11-17 06:37:39 · 17 answers · asked by Miss L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shut up connie
2006-11-17 06:43:16 · update #1
i think you are not confident with your relationship and thats making you ask those unneccessary questions. Start trusting him knowing that he truly loves you.
2006-11-17 06:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by stupid questions??? No question is stupid, and if he really loved you, he wouldnt get mad so easily just by you asking him something. Thats pretty ridiculous on his part. Id say he is belittling you and that equals an abusive relationship. Hes always making you feel bad about yourself, then you need to move on and find a TRUE man who can make you happy. I know it seems like 4 yrs is such a long time to throw away, but it will only benefit you in the long run. Good luck
2006-11-17 06:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your position I would dump him. The fact that you think that you can make him mad is insane. A person chooses to be mad. You cannot make someone get mad anymore then you can make someone digest their food.
You need to realize that if you are planning on getting married to this person that things will not change. If you do not feel good around him now that will not change. You need to have in your mind that he will never change and then decide if you want to live like that for the REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!
If I were you I would enjoy being single.
2006-11-17 06:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Today is the Day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by husch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I feel the same way. He probly makes you feel liek it's all you when really it's not. Don't be so hard on yourself!!! I have been with my Fiance' for 4 1/2 years, things happened and he changed. Now he knows when he is doing something to make me angry or upset. Talk to him tell him your tired of fighting over the stupidest stuff and you want things to change. He should respect that.
2006-11-17 06:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by wmilton19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care for him quit f-ing with him to make him mad. Find some fun things to so with him, if you just want to joke around. And you need to do a little growing up. You answered your question stop thinking negativly and just be happy you have someone and have lasted for this long.
2006-11-17 06:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by My two cents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get angry, because you want him to be something he is not. He is his own person and that might not be the best person for you.
The problem is most young women think they can reshape a man, because they buy into all the BS older women tell them. Its all crap. The fact that you always seem to think its your fault, it proof that you know I am right.
2006-11-17 06:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a sign of immaturity when a person can't or won't control what comes out of their mouth. Maybe you're confused about what love means. Maybe you need to end this relationship and spend some time finding out who you are and mature a bit before getting involved again.
2006-11-17 06:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh hun..im going thru the same thing. my bf and i are always fighting but we love eachother and want to make it work but we're staring to give up on eachother. Talk to him...or maybe get counseling.
2006-11-17 06:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by .... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really love him or do pick fights with him so he gets mad and breaks up with you? You know you do it on purpose so what are you really doing?
2006-11-17 06:39:50 · answer #10 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋