My husband lent me his car, i drop him off at work then went to work. I had to pick him up after work in the night, after work i went to get a spa pedicure done since our Anniversary is coming up. I did not tell him, i told hm i would be in the office. till he finish work then i'll pick him up. Where the spa was located the is no reception for cell calls......1/2 way throught the process i check my phone and notice 10 miss call from my husband.......when i do get reception he called again and yell at me.........her got vex and didn't speak to me going home and he said " that's is i feed up" i don't want to tell him i went to a spa....... cause he know i was waiting for him to call and come pick him up.....
2006-11-17 06:30:14 · 15 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be honest and say look I went to the spa becuase our anniversary is coming up and I wanted to surprise and look nice. he will be more mad thinking you were leaving him hanging then knowing the simple truth.
think about if the situation were reversed you would rather just know what happened right?
2006-11-17 06:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by victoriah68 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Truth be told, honey, you were in the wrong here. If you told him that you were going to be at your office waiting for his call, that's where you should have been.
If your husband is making such a big deal out of this, and not speaking to you because of this, methinks there might be other issues coming into play.
Why would you be afraid to tell him that you went to a spa?
Honesty is always the best policy, and if you are afraid to tell him the truth, then there are bigger problems in the relationship.
2006-11-17 14:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe by your anniversary things will have cooled down. Get dressed up in something hot that will make all the men look and then tell him the truth about what happened. He also needs to realize that these cell phones are not 100% working all the time. Make sure he knows you just wanted to look good for him.
2006-11-17 14:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by My two cents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is dumb...tell him you were at the spa. What is the big deal about that. Unless you weren't really at a spa after all. Just tell him, and apologize. If you are married to this man, and can't tell him you went to a spa....to get pretty for your anniversary...then something is serioulsy wrong with your marriage.
2006-11-17 14:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen. After he simmers down a little bit. Grab him by the nutsack and lay into him with a hell of fury and ask him - " listen here boy - would you rather I be out back sucking your brother's coc_ or going to the spa and treating my self right for all the shi_ I put up with you?"
Once he figures out he overreacted - you can let his privates go and go about your business.
If you can't make yourself look good for your man - then what else is there?
2006-11-17 14:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT seems silly not to tell your husband about something mundane like that. You should be asking yourself why you felt the need to lie to him about this. Do you think he would not approve of you spending money on that sort of thing? IF so you probably need to have a discussion about what your priorities are.
2006-11-17 14:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by Louis G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better fess up. He's angry. Period. Ill bet being at the spa is more forgiveable than seeing a guy,which may be what he was suspecting.
2006-11-17 14:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth. He's probably thinking that you were with another man or something because you wouldn't answer your phone.
2006-11-17 14:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm- just tell him. Its kinda hard to understand what you're saying- but if u just tell him he will probably get over it
2006-11-17 14:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was pretty inconsiderate of you. You should apologize and tell him the truth.
2006-11-17 14:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋