Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

my boyfriend and i have decided to just be friends and i still like him. i want to tell him but i don't know how. i am fraid of being rejected. is there anything to do to win back his heart?

2006-11-17 07:02:29 · 9 answers · asked by L.E Rae 1 in Singles & Dating

We've had great sex for 2 years (ie anywhere from 3 times a week to 3 times a day) then a year later, we're doin it only once or twice every 2 weeks? Here's the kicker: I've talked to her about for a WHOLE year, and nothing's changed. What would you do? Would you leave? Stay, grit your teeth, and talk some more? Or would you outsource?

2006-11-17 07:02:02 · 28 answers · asked by Steve 2 in Singles & Dating

I would really thank you in person if you answer my question?

2006-11-17 07:01:37 · 14 answers · asked by sadgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

cleaned and rearranged my desk, organized everything... I am so bored!!! Who else cant wait till 4:30?

2006-11-17 07:01:34 · 17 answers · asked by bubbles_n_ar 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to be open minded about things and I dont feel that I'm not people think that I'm mean beacuse I dont speak but I'm really just feeling them out and trying to see if they need to be my friend because friends in the past has hurt me.

2006-11-17 07:01:13 · 4 answers · asked by missy87 1 in Friends

I turned 18 in sept and i havent given much thought as to what my legal right are now that im an adult. my dad still gives me a phone time, a cerfeu, controls who hang out with and for how long, still thinks he can ground me, etc. I dont appreciate all the rules and guidelines that i have to follow when I feel like im mature enough to handle real life issues on my own. I have straight As in school, i faithfully do my chores and keep my room tidy, and ive never been in trouble with the law so i dont see why its a big deal if i dont ask if i can go somewhere. If hed just let me go, id still check in so he wouldnt worry, but this is stupid what hes doing.

let me know what i should do.

thanks.

2006-11-17 07:00:49 · 18 answers · asked by ~Jennifer~ 3 in Family

I just foudn out that my brother was being abused by my grandfather! I walked in and my grandfather hit him six times while I was standing there! I turned around and ran the other direction but I didn't tell anyone. What should I do? I watched the whole sceene, and my brother didn't deserve that!

2006-11-17 07:00:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My dad was contacted, thru a dating service, by a 29 yr. old female that is in Russia. They have been e-mailing for about 6 weeks. She has sent letters and pictures and told him her life story. How she grew up in an orphanage, etc.. He thinks this is legitimate. He is lonely, a widower and can be very vulnerable. He has sent pics. of himself and seems to think she is sincere. She mentioned a birthday coming up soon, and he asked her what she would like. No answer yet, so he believes she is trustworthy. Help, I think this could be a scam. What do you think....How do I convince my dad to discontinue correspondence with "HER"

2006-11-17 06:59:45 · 15 answers · asked by metro6578 2 in Singles & Dating

I purchased his ring already and he haven't made the attempt to get me one. We went to the jewelry store today to get an exchange for his ring size and he didn't even try to get me a ring. I'm thinking about calling the whole thing off.

2006-11-17 06:59:42 · 43 answers · asked by MiniMail 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 06:59:40 · 1 answers · asked by SHYONE 1 in Friends

2006-11-17 06:59:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My b/f and I have been together 6 months, I have 2 daughters from a previous relationship and am busy most the time...same with him he goes to school and works obsessivly.
The other night he asked me questions about what would I say if he asked to live with me, would it bother me because the place was so tiny and he would pay. I evaded answering fully then he told me he was just wondering what I would answer.
Later he asked me about apartments for rent near me and I said oh you would have to deal with children then and he bluntly said "well i wont be living with you"

Very confused on what he meant with the whole convo and what he was getting at?

2006-11-17 06:59:05 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you know your supervisor is having a fling with one of your co-workers and he can get fired for it. The problem in this situation is supervisor is being unfair to the other girls and giving more advantages to this girl he is having a fling with. Its not easy for me to go and talk to my supervisors boss, because my supervisor has painted an angel like image infront of him. Would you wait and collect evidence or would you go straight to the top. My supervisor doesn’t do anything he just passes his work to us. Then the girl who is one of our friends, she wont openly admit they are having a fling, but plays it like he likes her she doesn’t like him….she is thriving on attention.

2006-11-17 06:58:47 · 17 answers · asked by Confused4life 2 in Friends

Me and my boyfriedn have been together for five years. We met in a gothic club and we liked each other stright away. I have now moved on and I'm not a goth alternative girl anymore, but just a normal girl. My boyfriedn hasn't moved on yet...he doesn't have a job as he left his job and now he is trying do launch this alternative magazine about alternative lifetime....he doesn't have much money... I'm working and I'd like to settle down...I'd like him to have a job ,buy an house and starting becoming more mature....but every time I try to ask him about marriage he doesn't want to talk about it...he says he wants to marry me but then he never mention anything about it...I'm desperate and I don't know what to do as I love him...I don't want to leave him but I want a different life...please help me!!!

2006-11-17 06:58:22 · 13 answers · asked by Laura P 1 in Weddings

do you or do you know someone that has a fetish of any sorts that you find strange or different. or just plain never heard of?

2006-11-17 06:57:59 · 12 answers · asked by paul_wilkie2002 2 in Singles & Dating

....relationship isnt working.The son starts crying when the father tries to sit down with him and tells him the marriage(relationship) isnt working out.The son is used to it being him,dad and mom all the time. But it's time the kid understands that his dad isnt happy.The dad is willing to stay in the marriage for the sake of his kid so his kid wont get hurt but honestly, the kid is only 12, he will get over it and realize in the long run why his dad had to do itOf course the father will still see his son often.And it doesnt help that the mother isnt wanting a divorce for fear she cant make it own her own cause she doesnt have a job.She has two other kids that he has supported but isnt his cause the real fathers were sorry.So what is a man 2 do if the mother keeps telling the kid that his father doesnt love him anymore cause he's leaving when in fact he just doesnt love her anymore? I NEED ADVICE!!PLEASE HELP!!The mother wound up pregnant by another man 8 mths ago is why all this is.

2006-11-17 06:57:23 · 5 answers · asked by Peaches 2 in Family

2006-11-17 06:56:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you compare yourself to them? How does it make you feel?

2006-11-17 06:56:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate people who lie for attention .

2006-11-17 06:54:47 · 5 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 in Singles & Dating

i found a letter that my daugther wrote. It says she hates her life and she wishes she was dead, she says that i don't care about her. I only about her brothers. she says she misses her dad and she wants a boyfriend, she says she's the only one of all her friends that doesnt have one she's only 14 yrs old. today i'm going to pick her up from school and take her somewhere just me and her. but i dont know if this might help her. please give me more advice i need all i can get.

2006-11-17 06:54:16 · 14 answers · asked by saturdaygirly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can you love someone and not be intrested in having sex with them my husband and I have a great time togther but I have NO sexual desire and I can never get into it but I rarely wanted sex before we met its never been very important to me and he runs it in the ground we do it everyday and it kinda gets old I just lay their what do I need to do?

2006-11-17 06:53:13 · 30 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i do?!

i can't get any school work done, or anything!

he lives down the hall (i'm in college), and has no idea. we don't know eachother THAT well.. we just me the other day.

2006-11-17 06:52:55 · 7 answers · asked by butwhatdoiknow 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 06:52:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

does anyone use the "obey" part of traditional wedding vows anymore? if so where were you married, and what religion?
just curious

2006-11-17 06:52:32 · 17 answers · asked by SNAP! 4 in Marriage & Divorce

....relationship isnt working.The son starts crying when the father tries to sit down with him and tells him the marriage(relationship) isnt working out.The son is used to it being him,dad and mom all the time. But it's time the kid understands that his dad isnt happy.The dad is willing to stay in the marriage for the sake of his kid so his kid wont get hurt but honestly, the kid is only 12, he will get over it and realize in the long run why his dad had to do itOf course the father will still see his son often.And it doesnt help that the mother isnt wanting a divorce for fear she cant make it own her own cause she doesnt have a job.She has two other kids that he has supported but isnt his cause the real fathers were sorry.So what is a man 2 do if the mother keeps telling the kid that his father doesnt love him anymore cause he's leaving when in fact he just doesnt love her anymore? I NEED ADVICE!!PLEASE HELP!!The mother wound up pregnant by another man 8 mths ago is why all this is

2006-11-17 06:52:26 · 15 answers · asked by Peaches 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is annoying and start talking so much it's like he's out of control i was wandering what is the best way to tell him he can go over board sometimes and he need to slow it down a little bit.

2006-11-17 06:51:26 · 12 answers · asked by serenite91 1 in Friends

just doesn't really do it for ya.? do you just give it more time? or get the good stuff on the side?

2006-11-17 06:51:14 · 30 answers · asked by soxgirl0780 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is turning 14 . should i get him a card, give him a kiss(our frist) or give him a mixed tape

2006-11-17 06:51:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 06:51:09 · 21 answers · asked by sexyass 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-17 06:51:04 · 5 answers · asked by so thick and sweet 1 in Friends