just doesn't really do it for ya.? do you just give it more time? or get the good stuff on the side?
2006-11-17 06:51:14 · 30 answers · asked by soxgirl0780 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be patient, and don't even think about "on the side" stuff, it may come back to haunt you.
2006-11-17 06:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is really that great of a relationship you should be able to communicate your needs... he probably doesn't know he isn't doing what you want... "get the good stuff on the side" that is s***y...give me a break. Don't mess up a great relationship with cheating!
2006-11-17 14:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by Amy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't turned on by this guy, it sounds like you have a really great FRIENDSHIP not a romantic relationship. Although some people just aren't that sexual in their relationships, you deserve to be with someone who turns you on AND someone whom you have a great relationship with. Maybe you should keep looking for someone who has everything you need. Do NOT cheat though. That's totally unfair to this guy and shows a real lack of character.
2006-11-17 14:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what turns you on, everyone has thier own prefrences when it comes to what turns them on. My turn on is great chemistry by just spending time together, does he turn you on just ny being near him? the way he looks, smells, etc..? There must've been something there..? Why else would you be with him? I'm sorry a great relationship is one thing , but anyone who says the sex doesn't matter is lying! That kicks everything off! I couldn't be with anyone if there wasn't any sexual ...or emotional chemistry! You can't have one or the other, you have to search for BOTH!
2006-11-17 15:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by teeny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him what you like and what turns you on. Cheating is never the answer. If you want to give the relationship a chance, you gotta try new things or just show him how it's done. Take charge and don't give up so easily.
2006-11-17 14:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give it a little more time and tell your partner what turns you on. Getting anything on the "side" is not a healthy situation and can lead to results that you may not be prepared for.
If, after you have talked to your partner and there is still no "chemistry" there, then you should finish it and seek elsewhere.
Cheers!
2006-11-17 14:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by wyatt_bellis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In that case, you teach him! Tell him what you like and show him. Try and give it a bit more time and if he tries and he still can't do it for you... you might consider moving on. You should never cheat on anyone. If you are thinking of cheating, you shouldn't be in a relationship at all.
2006-11-17 14:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by *mxgirl115* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if its a great relationship like you say i would give it time because they are hard to come by nowadays.also maybe you should teach the other person what you like cause no one knows you like you.plus then you get everything you want a great relationship plus turned on in more ways than one!
2006-11-17 15:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by michael f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in a really good relationship, I would sacrafice great sex for it. Sex is NOT everything and Cheating is disrespectful. Id never disprespect someone I had a great relationship with.
2006-11-17 14:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your going to get the good stuff on the side then why stay in the relationship?
2006-11-17 14:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk him through it. Tell him what you like and play with him a bit. He can be taught! Don't throw away a relationship when it can be changed. Good Luck.
2006-11-17 14:54:08 · answer #11 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋