Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

2006-11-17 07:37:00 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 07:36:58 · 5 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and some friends made a huge poster with his name, birth-death, pic, and some other stuff and it was totally awesome
and i made a huge banner that said "YOU WILL FOREVER BE MISSED" and had people sign it. It filled really quickly, but then my principals did the same thing and made two banners and had more people sign them. Then i talked to my prinicpal about an idea i had to like plant a tree or garden in rememberance of him, like dedicate it to him and all. BUUUUT i wanna do something by MYSELF id make a photo album but i dont have pics of him. which suck, should i go around my neighborhood and getr donations?

So I guess what im trying to say is, does anyone have any ideas for things that i can do in rememberance if him and for his family.

if it helps at all. im almost 16 and he was only 14!! it was less than a month till his 15th b-day
here is a site to look at his obituary http://www.hansonrunsvold.com/2006/Justin_Ryba.htm
please consider looking at it, tell me if you do

2006-11-17 07:36:34 · 9 answers · asked by samantha 2 in Friends

i have been thinking something about getting married, but how is marriage? i mean, what is the thing behind marriage? some older people who have been in a marriage can share something with me to make me more conscious about it? thx!!!

2006-11-17 07:35:47 · 9 answers · asked by Pepsi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone gives you a gift and tell you how much he or she spend for it?

2006-11-17 07:35:41 · 13 answers · asked by lolipop 3 in Singles & Dating

I think these lyric are fantastic, do you have lyric to a song that mean something to you or set you alight with passion?

2006-11-17 07:35:23 · 15 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

I can cancel without having to tell him what is going on? I really hate to cancel but I had a emergency today. I am not sure if he would understand, and since we just met, I am not sure if I can tell him what happened. I am very upset about it and it is nothing that I can do. It is a Ugly situation, literally. Please help

2006-11-17 07:35:15 · 8 answers · asked by OMG I thought I saw A Kitty Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex wife has been living with her new boyfriend and they are engaged for almost two years. They have not gotten married nor does it seem like they are going to. My child support was built around her being a single mother of two - on her salary (schoolteacher) - paying all her own expenses. She actually brought me to court almost two years ago to get an increase - which she did.
Now she is living with him (he is a doctor) - still making her salary - has less expenses (no car payment) and my support is till at the higher rate.
Do I have any options??
Note: She moved away from me 3 years ago (out of state) and I had to sell our house and move also so I could be near my kids (big expense for me and higher cost of living adjustment). In addition to my support - I pay for their Health and Dental Ins. AND she still asks me to pay for other items such as back to school clothes, supplies, etc.
Help me please. I cannot put any money away for my Kid's future.

2006-11-17 07:34:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Date eachother

Have time together alone and time for yourself alone.

Don't argue about eachother's families....there is nothing either one of you can do about the in-laws.

Don't let the kids sleep in your bed.

Don't try to fix her problems just listen to them, your arrogance is irritating.

Don't ask him do do the tthings you need him to do, ask him to do the things he thinks you need him to do. Then He'll do the others instead.

Don't call him 50 million times a day...do you want him to make a living to pay for your beautiful house or play patty cake on the phone with you all day? He loves you...get over it.

and for God's sake HAVE SEPERATE BATHROOMS!!!! (he has to clean his own)

2006-11-17 07:34:42 · 20 answers · asked by sasha 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am both at different times. I am very athletic, when I have to be and very girly girl.

2006-11-17 07:34:35 · 12 answers · asked by Just an Actress 2 in Singles & Dating

my boy friend and i broke up 4-5 months ago. him and and i were together for 4 1/2 years and we dont plan to get back with each other. there's this guy that i've known for about 3 1/2 years who' got a crush on me and he's single. i dont really need a boyfriend right now but i've been lonely sexually for the past 5 months and i need a partner, but im scared because i'm not used to sleeping with other people but my ex-boyfriend. should i sleep with the guy who's got the crush on me? and i'm pretty sure that im goin to have fun with him. I DONT WANT TO MAKE MY LIFE TOO COMPLICATED. whats should i do. IM SCARED.....

2006-11-17 07:34:03 · 10 answers · asked by sexxxxyyyy 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with a man in a different country! Should I move there to see if we have a chance at a long term relationship? Or should I just try to move on?

2006-11-17 07:33:50 · 9 answers · asked by Mugsy 2 in Singles & Dating

This summer I fell in love with my cousin Colten and we love each other to death and would do anything for each other in the world. On September 11 of this year we got cought skipping school and are parents fornd out that we had been dating and having sex. So they split us up and wont let us communicate anymore.

2006-11-17 07:31:50 · 17 answers · asked by hailey R 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had the worst bad luck this week! First I had an injury on the job, then my uncle passes away, so what is the third, why do i always seem to have some suffering, what did i do!

2006-11-17 07:31:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a Pakistani American; I have been raised and brought up in the states. I was never born in Pakistan. I am an only daughter w/two brothers. I have had 2 arranged marriages that ended up in a divorce. My first husband was a psychotic, possessive, abusive person. I was married roughly for about 31/2 years, the end result I have a daughter with him (which he has never seen once). He was deported back to Pakistan when I was expecting (I was 22 yrs old). I stayed single for about 3 years after my first marriage fell apart. My parents received another marriage proposal for me, this guy was completely single but needed a green card and manipulated my folks for my hand (so in short he took advantage of my situation), as soon as I figured him out (we totally slept in separate rooms). I cancelled his INS paperwork, shortly after he disappeared on me. Its not the case, that I cant get a guy on my own, I am not awful looking (I always get hits from guys) – it was just that I was a good daughter to my parents and felt obligated to fulfill their wishes. Now, I just turned 28 a couple weeks ago, and feel that I should have the remote control of my life from now on and forever. I am single and dating someone for the past 2 months, which who is Pakistani (born and raised here) he is divorced also w/3 children (he has joint custody). When we both met, we decided not to speak of our past at all (it was his choice to decide this, he wanted to get to know me for who I am, without making any judgments of the past). For the past couple of weeks, he has been opening up about his past marriage, on why it failed. He has been noticing that I have been really quiet for some weeks, he has sensed that something is really bothering me, that I am keeping from him. Just last night, I told him about my 2nd arrange marriage, explained to him that it was more of a contract marriage. He listened, and said that he was hurt, that I didn’t tell him sooner. Not, the fact that I had an 2nd marriage, but, didn’t open this up to him, coz we spoke about everything that has happened in our lives. He said that he loves me, and what am I gonna do – if I have a third marriage….I told him, it will be totally on my decision, no more arrange marriages….he was just hurt, that I kept this from him for this long……what do u think is goin thru his mind?? PLEASE HELP

2006-11-17 07:29:45 · 5 answers · asked by fairytale_chic 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to be dominated and humiliated. Is there a dominatrix out there who is willing to break me in?

If so, please teach me!

2006-11-17 07:29:35 · 6 answers · asked by bob_xc452 1 in Singles & Dating

we`ve been together for 3 years now we have 3 kids together,I plan on asking her fathers permission.Lord knows its been a long time coming.

2006-11-17 07:29:33 · 24 answers · asked by trevor 2 in Weddings

Hi there people...my friend is 17 yrs old and im 15....The thing problem in my friend is that she annoys me, because I asked her if she wanna to go somewhere and she told me she does'nt wanna go swimming with me...Cause she just wanna watch...!!!
and sometimes if she comes to my house and go home... she even doesnt say thank you!!!! how rude is she
Even at school if she hangs out with my friends they don't like her either cause if were having fun she doesnt like to join with us and my friends thinks shes a b*****.......
Please help me!! I want to change her......into a kind person!!!!!!

THanks

2006-11-17 07:28:52 · 11 answers · asked by sw3tchix17 1 in Friends

i like this boy...when were in the same room we usually catch each other staring at each other. One of my friends told him i liked him and he said okay and blushed...do you think he likes me?

2006-11-17 07:28:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok...I have been seeing this guy for a little over a month. Nothing official, but he calls me damn near everyday. Either while I am at work or he'll call me on his lunch break. Well, today he stopped at my office, unexpectedly, just to say hi. What do you people think? Sorry, if this is a little childish or what not, but I have been out of the dating loop for a very loooonnnggg time. Thanks for everyone's help!!

2006-11-17 07:28:36 · 13 answers · asked by voodoo_moonbaby43968 5 in Singles & Dating

I want to bring in my own caterer, is there a website that shows my places like this...I'm thinking LA or Orange County....THANKS

2006-11-17 07:27:35 · 7 answers · asked by graciegirl 5 in Weddings

A couple of years ago, my husband was laid off at his job. He stayted home all day, or rambled around, and was basically lazy a*s. He drew unemployment (which was very little) and I was pregnant, and stressed, and overworked. He wouldn't hardly look for another job, in fact he still took our lil one to the sitters so he could "look for work" and "work around the house" (which he did neither of). When we were together, he just didn't act like he gave a crap about me or the baby. I got fed up, and told him I was leaving. Now, I've gotten my own place, gotten my feet on the ground again, and he wants to try to make it work again. He's improved somewhat, and I like his companionship at times, and he's essentially a good guy and he's a better dad now, but I just don't love him anymore. Should I take him back for the kids sake? I've told him that I don't love him, but he says he loves me and the kids and wants to try again.

2006-11-17 07:27:28 · 39 answers · asked by Kat 3 in Marriage & Divorce

While thinking, here's what I've found:

- The time today when he hit him six times and somehow got him on the floor

- Last week when he "fell" off his skateboard and broke his arm (he's very good at skatebording)

- The other day when he "ran into the wall" and got a black eye

- Two months ago when he was to scared to go back to my grandfather's/grandmother's house for the night and had a big slash on his back

- 1.5 months ago when he had a dogbight on his hand

That's all I can think of... except of course for today... he's 16 and he doesnt talk to anyone like he used to... what should i do?

2006-11-17 07:27:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This is the second man I've had this sort of problem with. The first was in a long term relationship. Neither of them asked me out or anything, but they were very liberal with compliments, very accomodating. They asked questions about my relational status etc, but never mentioned the fact that they were involved. The married one even talked about how he was attracted to me since he first saw me... I think they would have allowed it to go on if I hadn't been direct and asked. The thing that bothers me is the fact that they didn't/don't see anything wrong with the friendship. Isn't that playing with fire? How do I explain it to them?

2006-11-17 07:27:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should i stay or should i go?
I have been married for nine years since then I moved out because I was out of control due to my drinking and being abuses. me and my wife were still seeing each other and she was ,all for this .I’ve done this because I wanted to save our marriage I am now a recovery alcoholic have been for six months . Since then she has meant someone. at first he was just a friend then found out they are involved. They have only been seeing each other about five months that’s what she is telling me, since then he has moved in doesn’t work and collects SSI I feel he is using her, he is 37 and has lived with mom till wife came along I have ask her does she love him, she tells me it’s none of my business We also have a 8 yr old daughter and a two yr old son. Which my daughter misses her father very much and wants him to come home This guy is also an alcoholic by what he has told me. I love my wife very much and there isn’t anything I wouldn’t do 4 her all i hear is the pas

2006-11-17 07:26:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Or is it just my family?

2006-11-17 07:25:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What would you say about a girl who googled me without my knowledge, emails me that she did, (I didn't give her my email) and then when I see her next she basically ignores me?

2006-11-17 07:25:49 · 17 answers · asked by P Golf 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are getting legally married at the County Clerk office in a civil ceremony this weekend, but we want to have a nice traditional wedding ceremony sometime between June-October 2007. Reason for our ceremony being so many months away is because we want to pay for everything and need have enough money saved up. I was just wondering if a church will still marry us even though we're already legally married. Can we just re-use our original marriage license? Please share any advice or stories of experience, I'd really appreciate it.

2006-11-17 07:25:35 · 17 answers · asked by dreamin delux 3 in Weddings

All my friends are forwarding around these text messages where you are supposed to reply and tell them the first song that comes to mind when you think of them. I need one to send to my ex-boyfriend. It is more of a joke than anything...but I need a song that is really mean and would make him feel kinda bad. Then I was gonna tell him I'm just kidding and tell him the song I really think about when I think of him.

2006-11-17 07:24:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

married 25 years. am i suppse to just give up?

2006-11-17 07:24:49 · 23 answers · asked by ardie 1 in Marriage & Divorce