Hi there people...my friend is 17 yrs old and im 15....The thing problem in my friend is that she annoys me, because I asked her if she wanna to go somewhere and she told me she does'nt wanna go swimming with me...Cause she just wanna watch...!!!
and sometimes if she comes to my house and go home... she even doesnt say thank you!!!! how rude is she
Even at school if she hangs out with my friends they don't like her either cause if were having fun she doesnt like to join with us and my friends thinks shes a b*****.......
Please help me!! I want to change her......into a kind person!!!!!!
THanks
2006-11-17 07:28:52 · 11 answers · asked by sw3tchix17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can't change someone. Unless you tell her how you feel about her. You want to be her friend but she just isn't polite.
2006-11-17 07:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by Just an Actress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think having annoying friend is something we can all relate to. Friendship is hard, especially at your age. You are at an age where you are trying to find out where you fit in and who fits in with you. Choosing and deciding who is considered your friend is really a question of what you both contribute to eachother. Figure out what you have in common and start there. One important thing you will learn as you get older is that no one person has the power to change another. Change comes naturally to some, it is also a part of growth and maturity. Don't try so hard to change a person. What you can do is talk to her. Be open, let her know that you do enjoy her company but maybe your interests clash. Oh, and about being rude....that just has to do with upbringing, but it can still be taught...just tell her, talk to her, but don't make it seem as though your attacking her. Be calm and more mature than her....if she is not receptive, than she really isn't worth being your friend.
Good luck, sweetie ;)
2006-11-17 15:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by kit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be don't try to change her, but maybe start by just telling her one thing she's doing that's been bothering you. See how she reacts, and if it seems like she understands, then keep it up. If not, then either deal with her the way she is, or find a new friend.
2006-11-17 15:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel. If you mean something to her she'll think about your words and maybe she'll try to do it right next time. Changing her is not an option, she has to decide herself.
2006-11-17 15:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by milena_cub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young and have so much to learn.
You cannot change anyone.
The only person you can change is you.
Either you have to change your attitude about her or you have to stop putting yourself in these situations.
Same thing goes for your friends.
2006-11-17 15:33:44 · answer #5 · answered by soccermomw3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that she thinks that she is too mature for you and your friends, and thinks that she's doing you a favor by being your "friend". i don't think that you can change her beccause she'll probably shrug you off. i dont mean to be mean, but i suggest that u find someone that you can enjoy hanging out with.
2006-11-17 16:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by guess2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to quit acting stuck up, or go hang out with people her age.
2006-11-17 15:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't change a person, unfortunately. I would move on. Friends shouldn't be annoying. We leave that to family.
2006-11-17 15:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just sit her down and tell her how you feel about it and if she dosent seem to get the memo then she isnt much of a friend!!
2006-11-17 15:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Kelsey_blair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her straight up that u dont like the way she acts around you or your friends and that she needs to do somethin' about it.
2006-11-17 15:35:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋