my boy friend and i broke up 4-5 months ago. him and and i were together for 4 1/2 years and we dont plan to get back with each other. there's this guy that i've known for about 3 1/2 years who' got a crush on me and he's single. i dont really need a boyfriend right now but i've been lonely sexually for the past 5 months and i need a partner, but im scared because i'm not used to sleeping with other people but my ex-boyfriend. should i sleep with the guy who's got the crush on me? and i'm pretty sure that im goin to have fun with him. I DONT WANT TO MAKE MY LIFE TOO COMPLICATED. whats should i do. IM SCARED.....
2006-11-17 07:34:03 · 10 answers · asked by sexxxxyyyy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to then go for it. I would. But that doesn't make you a whore just because you need to have sex with someone as long as you don't go do random people. Sex is like a drug once you start you can't really stop unless you really put your mind to it, but who in their right mind would want to ???????
2006-11-17 07:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by blondy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do understand yr problem but since u r lonely and without sexual relationship for last 5 months and here is a boy who knows u fr 3yrs and also likes u so why dont u give it a try and may be he might turn out as a better person thaan the one u have lost after all life goes on and sex is a normal human desire which cannot be shun
2006-11-17 15:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by shaikhudude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to regret this?
Do you think you are going suffer emotionally if things go wrong with this new significant other?
I say you should have fun, and enjoy life while you can. Do it only if you are not going to regret it in the future. otherwise you will hurt even more.
You may have loved your boyfriend, and maybe you still do. But remember SEX IS JUST SEX. If you put your emotions on the line, then you risk getting hurt.
Have fun, that's what life is for, right?
2006-11-17 15:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by 2pretty4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINATELY DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM RIGHT AWAY!!!! That is the worst position you can put yourself in!!! You are still "on rebound" and that will likely cause you more hurt. If he likes you and you like him, get to know each other, hang out (in GROUPS). The worst possible thing you could do is sleep with him right away because you will look cheap and sleazy or desperate to him.
2006-11-17 15:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by Momma21981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. Try dating him for a while. He probably knows that you're rebounding and wants to take advantage of that. Make him work for it a little. Once you get into one night stands, revenge sex, bored sex, etc life DOES get complicated.
2006-11-17 15:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will definitely make your life more complicated. One of you will get attached to the other and then hard feelings will happen. Sex without love is just for skanks anyway.
2006-11-17 15:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get with him just because you are sexually lonely!!! if you think you like him then go out with him!
2006-11-17 15:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey just take what you got you never know you may grow a crush on him.
2006-11-17 15:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea girl...GO for it.!you might actually fall in love with him...just finding something better on the way.
2006-11-17 15:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bang the hell out of him.
2006-11-17 15:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by itzmedbd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋