Ok...I have been seeing this guy for a little over a month. Nothing official, but he calls me damn near everyday. Either while I am at work or he'll call me on his lunch break. Well, today he stopped at my office, unexpectedly, just to say hi. What do you people think? Sorry, if this is a little childish or what not, but I have been out of the dating loop for a very loooonnnggg time. Thanks for everyone's help!!
2006-11-17 07:28:36 · 13 answers · asked by voodoo_moonbaby43968 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait wait...I'm not complaining!! We only see each other once a week. I really like him, so it's not a problem. He's a really sweet guy.
2006-11-17 07:32:24 · update #1
I never said I didn't want anything serious. I actually do, I just didn't want to push him or anything. But, it seems like he does like me as much as I like him. Like I said, I have been out of the dating loop for a very long time. He is not obsessive, or clingy at all. He works afternoon Mon-Fri and works daylight on Saturday. I work daylight Mon-Fri so, I like talking to him everyday, because I only get to see him once a week.
2006-11-17 07:39:04 · update #2
he really likes u !!!!! my husband called me every day,biked to visit me when there was an ice storm and he couldnt take the car,and sent me flowers at work,and met me for coffee break at work. he is unfailingly romantic,kind and considerate.give this guy a chance if u like him,see how he treats his family,waitstaff at restaurants,his friends and co-workers.thats the best indication of how he'll treat u,should u decide to become closer.good luck,and have fun !
2006-11-17 07:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Lyn K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears as if he's hooked on you. A guy calling every day? Then just dropping by? He's smitten. That or he's a stalker... if you like him back, as I take it you do, then yippee!
Oh, from experience, some men do tend to do this at first then once you've been with them awhile need to be kicked in the shin to call you once a month, let alone once a day. I dont think it necessarily means he's obsessive and should be dumped. I think it means he's infatuated. Unfortunately that passes, but hopefully it goes into something more serious.
2006-11-17 07:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by MaPetiteHippopotame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say this guys likes you a lot. Maybe he's a little smothering and obsessive, but if you think he is, then you need to have a talk with him. It seems like he wants more out of your relationship than you do at this point. Be nice, but tell him the truth about how you feel, good luck!!
2006-11-17 07:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mattness615 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds clingy to me!!!! I don't know how you feel about that, but I know it ANNOYS me!! Maybe you would be better off just telling him that while you like being around him, you do not want a committment, and that you should "hang out" casually. Obviously the last thing you want is someone that obsessed because the jealousy WILL come out.
2006-11-17 07:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Momma21981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bothering you at work might be a bit much. I think he's insecure and needs your reassurance that you like him. He seems a bit clingy, but if you like him tell him visits and phone calls at work are to be kept to a minimum (blame the boss).
2006-11-17 07:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by T_I_GG_E_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about smothering. Break it off before it goes any further. Imagine down the line if you got more and more serious....what kind of jealous traits might come out?? YIKES!
2006-11-17 07:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by boredperv 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the guy is very interested in you. The question is, how do you feel about him?
2006-11-17 07:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's sweet! Go for, it be happy, and enjoy each other!
2006-11-17 07:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Jen-Jen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have other friends sounds like a clig on!
2006-11-17 07:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by trevor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he likes you a lot or hes a first stage stalker..
2006-11-17 07:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by Dr shiznet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋