Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

i'm going to a party tonight and my best friend is going to be there. oh and my best friend, i'm deeply in love with him and he has a gf in college and she hates me. So what should i do tonight? i really wanna kiss him but what about his gf and everything i don't wanna mess anything up. should i try and hold his hand? please help

2006-11-17 07:55:24 · 5 answers · asked by Caitie 2 in Singles & Dating

to rekindle the spark? In the old days, he used to give me drugs, cigarettes, use lots of lubricant before entering me, etc. Now he treats me like a dog. I'm not used to figuring out how to keep a man, before I was incarcerated it was just women. Please help, and please hurry - I only get 30 minutes a day on the computer. Thanks!

2006-11-17 07:54:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so my boy is great. Awsome even....but we go to different schools and its really hard to be with him cuz he wont see each other for weeks at a time sometimes. I really love him and he really loves me but the distance kinda sucks. I cheated on him once and he forgave me...but theres all these guys that i hang out with the make me wonder if i should be with him. I really want to be with him but theres doubts in my mind if its gonna work....n e advice?

2006-11-17 07:54:18 · 7 answers · asked by confused_mexican 2 in Singles & Dating

I know some guys need their space but dose that mean he wants to leave me alone? Or dose he have someone else? HE just tried to talk to friend. He said if didn't have a baby would she go out with him?

2006-11-17 07:53:45 · 5 answers · asked by Lil Darius_1 1 in Singles & Dating

I've sent two texts on different days.I've not had a reply,and they havent called or thought to text me. I've pretty much given up now. Dont want to be too needy!
How many unreplied texts does it take before you would give up?

2006-11-17 07:53:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 07:53:19 · 8 answers · asked by soro 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Punches something infront of you, like they're really frustrated?

2006-11-17 07:52:16 · 8 answers · asked by coz_6 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy for a little over a month. I really really like him, but we haven't made anything official yet. He calls me almost everyday and today he dropped by my office to say Hello. In my last post I sounded like I was complaining, but I am not at all. What I was wanting is outsiders opinions on what they think he feels about me.

I feel silly asking questions like this, but I haven't dated in a very long time. I just got out a pretty long relationship. I have dated a few guys since then, but this guy is the first one I have had any feelings for whatsoever and I am afraid to set myself up to get hurt again.

Thanks again for all your opinions!!

2006-11-17 07:51:55 · 1 answers · asked by voodoo_moonbaby43968 5 in Singles & Dating

How would u feel if u only have one parent, who is old in age and poor in money and health, and who is always tired and u r a teenager? How would u feel if u have few friends who cant help u and no other family just one old, poor, parent who tries to take care of u and provide for u but has difficulties and your needs are not always met and u dont hav many opportunities in life for advantages and everything u want u have to work so hard to get in life? How would u feel if u were deprived of having anything u really wanted,including having heat in the house,a cell phone,ipod,nice cloths,good winter coat, any materialistic thing u could want u kno u cant have and deprived of having anyone to listen or care if u cry?everyperson who sees u thinks u r just find and thinks u hav no problems and everyone understand u wrong?and everyone around u see just cares about themselves and their own family. no one will help u and no one will listen, wut would u do? How would u feel if this person wasu?

2006-11-17 07:51:25 · 9 answers · asked by dreamz 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

It you go out with another women and your married does your wife never forgive you

2006-11-17 07:51:05 · 7 answers · asked by Jeffrey A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

All too often, things start out as 'let's be friends first'. overall, this concept is fine, but most all the time after a short while, before too long, few weeks, or maybe months), to bring up the initial topic of being friends first, I always get the response of 'we're too good of friends now to risk it'... well, that usually will end it, not always, but usually.. or they want a guy to take them out and show them a good time, but as soon as I stop paying for the 'dates' they are gone.

How can I find a decent woman and not deal with the above scenarios?

2006-11-17 07:48:38 · 5 answers · asked by bilko_ca 5 in Singles & Dating

I have 3 kids from previous relationships. i work full time, am a stylish dresser, have long hair and am considered attractive.

2006-11-17 07:48:02 · 8 answers · asked by honestgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok,
Well first and foremost. I have cheated on my husband, and he knows this. He has forgiven me. I slept with his brother when I was 17. (we pin it on me being young and dumb.) I also slept with one of my brothers friends, his cousin, and another guy I barley knew. I haven't got feelings for any of these men, and it's like I just look for sex. I'm some what older now, and havent cheated in quite sometime. But I still i guess "look" for men, to sleep with. I really have to hold myself back. I don't want to cheat anymore. And I just look for the "first time thrill" of it all. I haven't slept with any of them just once, they have all been multipule times...
Are any of you this way... or do I really have a problem?

SERIOUS answers only please.
AND please be nice!!

2006-11-17 07:47:42 · 36 answers · asked by LOST 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Been seeing this guy for a few months now, his birthday is coming up what should i get him? he's in his early thirties?

2006-11-17 07:46:44 · 5 answers · asked by reene2g 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I have a mjor crush on this hot dude with great abs and muscle... it's just he sort of fat. I really like him. ANd he is nice, but woukd it be wrong for me to like go out with him?? I'm like one of those's so called anorexic skeltons, but yeah.. I really like him. and if I can. should I suggest going to a movie, or what??

2006-11-17 07:46:37 · 8 answers · asked by Ellie j 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to a pyschic this week and can not believe what I heard...., My sister was accusing my husband of molestation since she was a little girl I was upset and going through some painful stuff with my boys and family and when I was about to make him get a lie detector test done I asked on Yahoo Questions what I should do and what else I could do to find out if he did it??? and Someone on here told me maybe a psychic could help out what else do you have to lose, So I did just that and she told me lots of stuff that blew my mind that my sister had a affair with him and she went after him so I confronted her and she admitted to it CAN YOU BELIEVE IT!!! holy.. she is saying yes I did have a affair with him but,he still molested me.now here is the question.."Do you think I should still get a lie detector test or do you think she is lying about the molesting part? because how can you have a affair with a man for nearly 2 years that you say molested you and did bad things to you.

2006-11-17 07:46:16 · 7 answers · asked by angel b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well my bestie has a problem her bf is expelled n she dont know what to do. should she keep ddating him or break up? its not gonna be the same.

2006-11-17 07:45:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She was just over, the gf/ex/whatever she says we are but the one who said she needed time for herself then proceeds to text me the next two days about 50 times. Any rate, she said she needed time, I have given it to her. She came over today to pick something up one of her friends had given me to give to her and I was just cool and nonchalant. And it felt absolutely GREAT! Screw this, "I love you but I don't know if this can work but I'll call you 37 times a day anyways" BS! Not really a question, but input is appreciated.

2006-11-17 07:43:38 · 13 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

the guy and I have had a few dates and its been fun but on every date he'll ask me again about swinging with him at some stupid club and have sex in public and have sex with other people with him and I feel very uncomfortable about that, will this guy ever like me? he'll pick me up take me out at any given time and tells me how pretty I look in everyway and tells me his personal stuff, but then later in the evening he starts again with the swinging convo..should I even talk to this guy?

2006-11-17 07:43:20 · 9 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Singles & Dating

i am head over heels in love with this boy. hes so cute and nice but one problem. hes mentally retarded a little. you cant really understand what hes saying. he needs an aid. oh help me!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-17 07:42:21 · 9 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Singles & Dating

You complete the sentence...

2006-11-17 07:42:03 · 13 answers · asked by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 in Singles & Dating

me to marry him a few months ago and a week before the wedding she called it of im still going with him but he keeps hurting me

2006-11-17 07:41:30 · 19 answers · asked by hotmail 1 in Weddings

Everyone is different, and some people just don't have an interest in s e x. My spouse is one such person. But I sure have an interest. What's the best way to find a friendly lover?

Note: I don’t need to hear from the ignorant sanctimonious meddlers. If you’re opposed to my question, just move along to another question, please.

2006-11-17 07:41:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married in 6 months. I want to have a really expensive looking wedding but, not pay out alot of cash. I have already started purchasing some things. But I dont want to keep buying items that I really don't need or that I reaaly don't like.Please help.

2006-11-17 07:40:44 · 13 answers · asked by misskashmere 2 in Weddings

My ex wife has been living with her new boyfriend and they are engaged for almost two years. They have not gotten married nor does it seem like they are going to. My child support was built around her being a single mother of two - on her salary (schoolteacher) - paying all her own expenses. She actually brought me to court almost two years ago to get an increase - which she did.
Now she is living with him (he is a doctor) - still making her salary - has less expenses (no car payment) and my support is till at the higher rate.
Do I have any options??
Note: She moved away from me 3 years ago (out of state) and I had to sell our house and move also so I could be near my kids (big expense for me and higher cost of living adjustment). In addition to my support - I pay for their Health and Dental Ins. AND she still asks me to pay for other items such as back to school clothes, supplies, etc.
Help me please. I cannot put any money away for my Kid's future.

2006-11-17 07:38:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my ex bf has just kissed me on the cheek and on the hand and also tonight he said that he has a BIG surprise for me. I want to know what it is but he wont tell me. WHAT DO I DO?

2006-11-17 07:38:20 · 8 answers · asked by squeakers579 2 in Singles & Dating

Met up with a guy twice. We were def attracted to each other. Spoke on the phone a few times. He cancelled our date last week, but hasn't called since.

Obviously, this isn't a serious thing going on here, but I'd like to get to know him better, at least as a friend. Normally, I if someone cancels, I believe it is up to that person to make the next move. I'm 29, but new to all this. Is this time to get lost? Or would I be a fool to call him because he hasn't already done so?

I think he'd, at least, make an interesting friend!

2006-11-17 07:37:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have had a lot of obstacles in our realtionship, but now that we have broken up, we still have sex and we live with each other. I left him after we broke up, but we still loved each other. I went back home and got pregnant. I dont have my baby anymore, but anyways he got mad and said we were together when we weren't when it happened. He can't get over it, but we still live like boy/girlfriend which is confusing me. He tells me everyday that we're not together. What should I do?

2006-11-17 07:37:30 · 4 answers · asked by songbirdz03 3 in Singles & Dating

My daughter's dad is in prison until 2015. He has been around for her for 6 weeks in the beginning. What he did to get in prison only harmed himself- he didn't cause any problems for us. He never did anything to me and my daughter (besides not be there). I take her to visit him when he asks but I want to know, how many people would bring their child to visit, what they think the outcome of this will be and whether or not it is healthy for me to/to not bring her down there. (ps. my daughter will be aprox. 8 or 9 when he's out) Please, don't bash me, I am not the one in jail!

2006-11-17 07:37:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, there's this guy who follows me EVERYWHERE! I know I can put in a stalker report, but I wish not to. I know he's a good guy and all and I don't want to necesarily hurt him. I sat down and talked to him about it but he just says "Im nerver going to give up on you!" I told my friend I can't take it anymore so she told me just get a hickey. Well, I don't want some guy or girl suckign on my neck just to get some guy away so I was wondering, is there a way to get a fake hickey? I know this sounds a little high school-ish but I figure this si the only way. Plz, no rude comments! I know its ridiculous, but I want to atleast try it and if it gets worse I will call the police. PLEASE HELP!

2006-11-17 07:37:01 · 13 answers · asked by oliana246 1 in Singles & Dating