Everyone is different, and some people just don't have an interest in s e x. My spouse is one such person. But I sure have an interest. What's the best way to find a friendly lover?
Note: I don’t need to hear from the ignorant sanctimonious meddlers. If you’re opposed to my question, just move along to another question, please.
2006-11-17 07:41:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Graig's list is the worst.... I've yet to find one real person in the same situation as I am... too many phonies.
2006-11-17 08:00:15 · update #1
Try sites like Craig's List and some chat rooms. I'm sure there are some other sites you can also go to... I always see ads for one...adult friend finder or something like that.
If your spouse doesn't know about it...good luck! Keep it subtle and don't get attached!!!!
2006-11-17 07:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Lancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some people just go out and pick up a prostitute. But others go on different sites that assist with dating and they let it be known in their profile that they just want some fun and sex. But I know that if i were in your wife's' shoes, I would prefer for you to fins some way to get me to be more interested in sex. I have this same problem, I really don't have the urge. I use to love sex but, lately I've been really stressed and just not in the mood. So, I advise you to do something different and talk to her about how you feel. Use toys or something.
2006-11-17 07:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by misskashmere 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You find one the same way you find any lover. Go out and enjoy a hobby of whatever and if you meet someone flirt and let things happen.
2006-11-17 07:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your spouse ok with you finding another lover??????
If so...then meet them the same way you would if you were single and looking.
2006-11-17 07:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same way you meet any other people. Bars, clubs, gym, craigslist, date.com, etc. Whomever you find though, I hope you are honest that you are looking for only an extramartial affair and nothing more.
2006-11-17 07:45:13 · answer #5 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried a decent chat room? A nice bar/restaurant?
2006-11-17 07:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow-Up Doll
2006-11-17 07:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by jpf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
type in discreet affairs.com you can meet married people who have the same problem. It's hush-hush and nobody is the wiser...
2006-11-17 07:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you two match if he is not into sex and you are?
anyways, find out what interest him otherwise loose the challenge and find someone less challegning. :)
2006-11-17 07:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you could like, mmake out for now and later when ya get used to eachother u can try then.
2006-11-17 07:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋