All too often, things start out as 'let's be friends first'. overall, this concept is fine, but most all the time after a short while, before too long, few weeks, or maybe months), to bring up the initial topic of being friends first, I always get the response of 'we're too good of friends now to risk it'... well, that usually will end it, not always, but usually.. or they want a guy to take them out and show them a good time, but as soon as I stop paying for the 'dates' they are gone.
How can I find a decent woman and not deal with the above scenarios?
2006-11-17 07:48:38 · 5 answers · asked by bilko_ca 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are attracted to a woman, never become friends with her. Be an acquaintance that teases her and flirts but never become friends. Once in the "friend zone" its usually a life sentence. Why do they think of you as a friend? Because the DON"T think of you as a lover. The reason why they say lets be friends first is because you are trying to be too nice, saying the right things, trying to please her. Make her see you as a man. Disagree with her on purpose, act like you don't care if she gets mad, stand on your own opinions, tease her, etc. Don't give her the opportunity to ever look at you as a friend. ITs better to be a jerk, or someone who gets under her skin. The jerk or teaser has a chance to be her lover, the friend doesn't.
2006-11-17 07:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the girl that you meet what are they looking for in a relationship , if they say the "just friend's line" , it will be just that. To most girls friends do not become lovers at a later point, like guys easily do. That is a no no.
2006-11-17 08:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by reene2g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're going to get fired on the prompt, besides. I have a feeling you're literally not very sneaky... and your boss banned you from this position. i imagine you should attempt extra problematical now to not snicker at fart jokes. i recognize that is hard... yet imagine of your drug habit.
2016-11-29 05:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them early on, after a date for instance, that you had a great time and enjoy her company and that you're hoping to see what this could turn into. Simple and straight forward, no room for interpretation.
2006-11-17 07:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for that answer! Be agressive from the begining.You'll never get laid if you are only the friend,because she gave you that answer because she sees you only as a door stop and a ATM.Tell her you have plenty of friends and to call you when shes ready!!!!!
2006-11-17 08:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by POOTY TANG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋