Met up with a guy twice. We were def attracted to each other. Spoke on the phone a few times. He cancelled our date last week, but hasn't called since.
Obviously, this isn't a serious thing going on here, but I'd like to get to know him better, at least as a friend. Normally, I if someone cancels, I believe it is up to that person to make the next move. I'm 29, but new to all this. Is this time to get lost? Or would I be a fool to call him because he hasn't already done so?
I think he'd, at least, make an interesting friend!
2006-11-17 07:37:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It can't hurt to call. The worse that can happen is him telling you he's not interested. It's important in life not to have any "what ifs".
2006-11-17 07:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is up to him to make the next move. you can't guarantee there was a mutual attraction in only two dates, or that he still is interested. you like him, so i think you are probably kidding yourself about the friends thing. just let it go. if he likes you or feels bad for cancelling he'll call back. you are certainly justified in not calling him.
2006-11-17 15:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by KJC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I guess you next move would be to let him know, tell him you missed your mind reading classes, so you are forced to rely ob the old fashion way, what I am saying is make light of your request, do not scare Him off with being needy
2006-11-17 15:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it hurts to admit it to yourself, for whatever reason he doesn't feel the same way. It sucks when you like them and it's not returned. Don't call him. Don't come across as "needy". Chalk it up to another life experience. Move on to the next fish in the ocean.
2006-11-17 15:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by T_I_GG_E_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call him. its his duty after cancelling. if its like 2 months later, then call, but just to be friends. Its just kinda ridiculous when poele cancel and the other person clings to them asking for a date, or time to spend together.
2006-11-17 15:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anna.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T CALL. If he cancelled on you he needs to call you ASAP. If he doesn't, which he hasn't, he obviously doesn't think enough of you to bother. If he misses you he'll call. He's probably used to playing irresponsible and sits back and lets girls chase him. Don't be that girl- dating or friendship or whatever...
2006-11-17 15:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him bck..What do you have to lose?Him?Well if you nvr try and he nvr tries seems to me he is already lost.Wmn have a right to go after what they want..this may indicate to him that ur a secure wmn who is not afraid of rejection..Something all men fear..Good luck to ya..He may be playing hard to get and if thats the case, most "players" love this game..Watch urself!
2006-11-17 15:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by allwmn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont call him. If he wants to talk to you he will call you. If he doesnt call then he wasnt worth it.
2006-11-17 15:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by Russ D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋