the guy and I have had a few dates and its been fun but on every date he'll ask me again about swinging with him at some stupid club and have sex in public and have sex with other people with him and I feel very uncomfortable about that, will this guy ever like me? he'll pick me up take me out at any given time and tells me how pretty I look in everyway and tells me his personal stuff, but then later in the evening he starts again with the swinging convo..should I even talk to this guy?
2006-11-17 07:43:20 · 9 answers · asked by Wendy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This idiot is best left alone!! You won't get anything good out of this guy!!! Please, for goodness sake and your happiness, look for someone else who will appreciate you! This jerk will just make your life miserable, period!!
2006-11-17 07:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he just wants to have fun with no strings, or desperate to try the famous male 3some fantasy. If you're not into that, then by all means don't EVER do anything you're not comfortable with!
I highly doubt he's looking for a relationship, and if that's what you know you want, then there are plenty of other great guys out there for you! Good luck :}
2006-11-17 15:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by MedeivelReign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking a very stupid question here, you realize that don't you?
You answered your own question in your comment. Your "gut feeling" is obviously telling you "no".
Is he the kind of guy that is is that important to put yourself in a degrading position and do things that you no are wrong in the first place?
He is obviously not showing any respect for you whatsoever by expecting it of you. And, you will not be respected by him if you continue down the road he wants you to venture down.
Think about it. It is your life. It is totally up to you. Not Yahoo Answers or perfect strangers, just you!
2006-11-17 15:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is why do you like this guy? It seems that all he cares is about himself. If both people are in to it swinging can be a very exciting lifestyle BUT it is only fun if BOTH people are in to it.
It's time to get a new guy.
2006-11-21 15:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you arent into it, then you should let him know right away, that he either needs to actually like you for who you are, or move on because swinging is NOT your thing. Obviously he wont give up on it... So be prepared to be dumped for not swinging. But stick to your personal standards. Dont give in just because this ONE guy wants you to. Good luck
2006-11-17 15:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats some creepy ****. Dump him. Sex in clubs in public? What city do you live in?? No clubs like that in Texas! Thats just crazy and immoral to me.
2006-11-17 15:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Riff Addict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no any man tha is ok with his women having sex with other men is not really a man.. and does not deserved a time fo the day... ok?????????????????
2006-11-17 15:45:17 · answer #7 · answered by James A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question you don't feel comfortable with it .. that feeling is telling you something go with it .
2006-11-17 15:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by rogio24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY STUPID, YOU SHOULD NEVER DO ANYTHING YOU DO NOT WANT TO DO.........EXCEPT PAY TAXES...
2006-11-17 15:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by aubreytaegan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋