She was just over, the gf/ex/whatever she says we are but the one who said she needed time for herself then proceeds to text me the next two days about 50 times. Any rate, she said she needed time, I have given it to her. She came over today to pick something up one of her friends had given me to give to her and I was just cool and nonchalant. And it felt absolutely GREAT! Screw this, "I love you but I don't know if this can work but I'll call you 37 times a day anyways" BS! Not really a question, but input is appreciated.
2006-11-17 07:43:38 · 13 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she is playing you for a fool. She wants you...she doesn't want you. If she needs time, give it to her, but tell her to leave you alone, you need time to. Don't return her calls and don't text her back. She'll get the message soon enough and will either decide to stay in the relationship or get out. Right now she has it both ways...her way...what are you getting from it?
2006-11-17 07:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are crazy!! Trust me....I've felt like that before it was like "i love you but I just don't know if this is what I want...right now" kinda sounds like this is what she is saying...I think she is afraid of loosing you that's why she keeps on calling you 100 times a day...You know what worked with me...kinda cruel but a girl just needs to be treated NOt SO NICe every once in a while! So go one with Your life act like that's it YOu've had enough and I bet she will realize whether or not she really wants to be with You and just how much she really loves you!
2006-11-17 07:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Brenda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is not sure of what she wants yet. that is why she is telling you one thing and showing you another thing. the good thing is that she is showing you interest so maybe she just has to work on some personal issues to insure the relationship work out as far as her part ya know.
2006-11-17 07:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,if you love this girl,put up with whatever nonsense she has. If you don't ,give her a piece of your mind and tell her off. Don't even bother to see her for whatever reasons.
2006-11-17 07:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you aren't confused about things and she is and since you were able to hold yourself together it felt great...nothin wrong with that. she sees you are in good spirits staying put together...and she wants what she cant have b/c of what she said she needed....hope that made sense, i was rambling a bit
2006-11-17 07:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age you shouldn't sweat any girl for any reason...you have a long life to live, and why not just move on and find someone new?
2006-11-17 07:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by magerious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah screw that....let her make her own decisions you dont have to suffer because of it but dont go out and do things with other girls if you want to get back together that will just ruin it all together
2006-11-17 07:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it is suppose to feel great. Sound like your over her!
2006-11-17 07:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by Jlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes confused
2006-11-17 07:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it to her. Yes or No. simple!
2006-11-17 07:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋