Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

My parents have been married for 19 years this September. My mother is a perfectionist and nothing is ever good enough for her. I'm 16 and I'm the most responsible of all of my friends but she never sees any good in anything.... everything is always wrong. My dad is more passive and just takes the yelling along with everything. They are complete opposites and I'm not sure why they got married in the first place. My mother has decided she's moving out soon as a trial seperation. Is it wrong for me to want them to get a divorce? This whole mess is affecting my younger siblings lives more than mine because I grew up with it. Any advice?

2006-11-17 05:41:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or a woman who can glide back and forth between the two types?

2006-11-17 05:41:49 · 13 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, i've been dating this guys for about a month now. The reason i met him in the first place was because my best friend really liked him and wanted me to talk to him for her. In the end he ended up asking me out and i said no since my friend liked him but she said to go out with him and i also really liked him (i love him to death). She told me that she was over him and that everything was okay, but now she is saying She still really likes him and would date him if we brake up. I also know that he used to like her and might still.I dont want to act like a jealous girlfriend or anything so should i just let this go or sit down and talk to them about it?? Also he has been calling one of my other friends and talking to her, which i dont mind, but i found out that he was flirting w/ her and said he loved her and stuff.He doesnt know that i know about that so should i Tell him i know or just get over it??

2006-11-17 05:41:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lots of post on here about the idea of being in or out of "LOVE" and sex issues. I have been married for 11 years. I think too much gets made of sex issues in marriages. It is important but is it a measuring stick of a good marriage. I also think that sometimes the "feeling in love with someone" get blown up so much no one could live up to it. At all times during our marriage I feel a bond with my wife. Maybe a combination of trust, caring, dependability, familiarity, friendship, sex but I do not always feel that intoxicating feeling of “LOVE” for her. At least for us marriage is not always easy thing but we have been able to make it work so far. So what do you think are the keys to a long marriage?

2006-11-17 05:41:00 · 16 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 05:40:52 · 24 answers · asked by phyllis_gene_levy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and Mickey decided to mess with some girls in school, but they get so mad at us. We were walking around and when we saw one with a skirt on, we would give them a femenine wipe and tell them please use this we can't stand the smell anymore. The would throw it at us and call us names, but me and Mickey just laughed.

2006-11-17 05:39:33 · 11 answers · asked by Pimp of the Day 1 in Friends

Well I'm sick and suck at home alone!! and need some chearing up so can any one help??

Like a story or a message b/c I'm lonely and sick and board!!!

2006-11-17 05:39:03 · 5 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

on her birthday she expected all of her friends to ask her if we wanted to hang out with her.. it was her b-day... should she have made the plans? anyways she got angry at us and she stopped talking to us because we called her on her b-day but failed to make plans with her.. shouldn't you stop making a big deal out of your birthday at age 10?

2006-11-17 05:38:10 · 7 answers · asked by backtothedisaster08 2 in Friends

It's so sad. I've met and seen and read about so many women who think it's perfectly acceptable when their boyfriends smack them and beat them up. I just can't get over it. IT'S NOT OK MEN TO BEAT UP WOMEN, OR VICE VERSA!!

2006-11-17 05:37:04 · 30 answers · asked by anothermelody2 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 05:36:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love this girl in my class but she like 5 years older than me what yur think i should do to let her know that im matured im 19

2006-11-17 05:36:22 · 17 answers · asked by marvellousdiva 1 in Singles & Dating

he played me all week...how can i break-up with him in a very mean way???
im so sick of him!!!

2006-11-17 05:35:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is your personal definition of a player?

Would a 'lady-player' be defined in your book as a 'whore'?

2006-11-17 05:35:49 · 8 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

My parents are getting a divorce, how can I stop it from happening? I don't know if its my brother's and my fault that they are getting a divorce, how can I find out its not our fault without coming out into the open with my questions. I am heart broken, how can I not show my true feelings?

2006-11-17 05:35:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am nearly 17 and i have been with my bf for nearly nine motnhs now and she wont let me stay at his house or him stay at mine? is this normal? how can i persuade her to let us?

2006-11-17 05:34:15 · 33 answers · asked by JoJo40 1 in Singles & Dating

i have noticed that a lot of females do not want to be my friend..i'm nice to them and all and i make conversation but mostly they want nothing to do with me..on the other hand i have a lot of guy friends because guys are willing to be my friend.. but after a while i do want some female companions..some things u just cant do w/ the guys..are guys just nicer in general?? help!!

2006-11-17 05:33:31 · 6 answers · asked by × 7 in Friends

2006-11-17 05:32:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you know how when you are dating you normally have a song that is "your song for eachother" your "couple song" or something... you can listen to and it and you think of them... what are some cute songs that arent country??

thank you!!:)

2006-11-17 05:32:11 · 5 answers · asked by My Immortal Beloved89 2 in Singles & Dating

Is the many people advising it just throwing it out there as a last ditch effort.

2006-11-17 05:31:52 · 7 answers · asked by Honest Injun 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like him and he knows it VERY well ive liked him sice last year. i feel that he doesnt like me,but wont tell me,

2006-11-17 05:31:47 · 17 answers · asked by barbie* 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 05:30:34 · 8 answers · asked by marmolack 1 in Friends

How comfortable are you around you sister???? ( ie changing clothes, using the bathroom, taking a bath)

Would you be just as comfortable if your sister was gay ????

2006-11-17 05:30:12 · 7 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4 in Family

2006-11-17 05:29:18 · 7 answers · asked by simon_johnstone_1 1 in Singles & Dating

How long does it take?

2006-11-17 05:29:09 · 21 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 05:28:54 · 5 answers · asked by Bubblez707 2 in Singles & Dating

this friend of mine wants to get pregnant by december, she thinks that she only can keep a man if she's pregnant with his baby. she's been pushing for me and my bf to have sex (we're waiting til he gets back from kuwait) how wrong is what she's doing? or is it just me?

2006-11-17 05:28:26 · 15 answers · asked by Starry Eyes 5 in Singles & Dating

ways other than cheating...lol i'm not going to do that....I mean i just get sooooooo freaking mad.....sometimes it helps to smoke but I don't want to do that either..........

2006-11-17 05:28:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in a relationship for almost 4 years with the most wonderful man, I am 33. We have a 2 year old together. The problem is we broke up about 3 months ago. I still see him everyday, he is a wonderful dad and comes to see son. We have remained very good friends, but I still love him just as much as ever, and would like us to work it out. I don't feel like that will happen due to the reason we split up. (not abuse or cheating). He has begun talking to other women, but I can't seem to move on. He was the love of my life, and it is so hard not being with him. I do however want to remain friends with him, any suggestions on moving forward with my life?

2006-11-17 05:27:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy but havent got the nerves to ask him out im quite sensitive so would be quite upset if he said no. Do gals always have to do the asking or can i hope maybe it will work itself out and hell make a move. Weve got a couple of work dos soon so maybe then with it being chilled and all. I know a few people who have liked each other but got it together when out on a do.

2006-11-17 05:27:18 · 14 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I had a great sex life till we moved!!!I dont know if its the stress from the wedding planning or the new place? Whenever we start having sex...either i go completely dry or he stops performing....its really weird...I dont know what to do??What happened to out great sex life?????????Please tell me what i can do to make it better?? or doesn anyone getting married have the same problem??

2006-11-17 05:25:59 · 22 answers · asked by Babe 2 in Marriage & Divorce