Okay, i've been dating this guys for about a month now. The reason i met him in the first place was because my best friend really liked him and wanted me to talk to him for her. In the end he ended up asking me out and i said no since my friend liked him but she said to go out with him and i also really liked him (i love him to death). She told me that she was over him and that everything was okay, but now she is saying She still really likes him and would date him if we brake up. I also know that he used to like her and might still.I dont want to act like a jealous girlfriend or anything so should i just let this go or sit down and talk to them about it?? Also he has been calling one of my other friends and talking to her, which i dont mind, but i found out that he was flirting w/ her and said he loved her and stuff.He doesnt know that i know about that so should i Tell him i know or just get over it??
2006-11-17 05:41:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this has really been bothering me and i dont want to lose my boyfriend or my best friend but i just dont know what to do. I amost broke up with him. Should I??
2006-11-17 05:44:37 · update #1
girl you got yourself into a mess.. You need to get out of it and find a different man
2006-11-17 05:44:22 · answer #1 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump him and move on. Sounds like he may be setting up to have a little of everything on the buffet table. Find yourself someone who is going to be into you and you alone. If you friends decide they want a chance at him, then let it be. He will probably go with all of you at one time or another. Be the one to break it off, don't give him the satisfaction.
You may want to talk to him about it first. See what his response is. You don't have to sound like a jealous girlfriend. In any relationship, you should be able to speak to eachother about anything that is bothering you. If he won't let you, then that should say it all.
2006-11-17 13:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont sit down and tell him and talk about what's happening and how you feel, you're going to wind up in some serious stuff girl. Sit down with these people and talk, ask them whats going on, and tell them how you feel about it, then figure out what to do from there.
2006-11-17 13:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by redneckrebelplyr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out! Get out! Get out!
I do not know how you manage to stay sane!
What a mess you've gotten into!
Child, it ain't worth it!
2006-11-17 13:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by SANCHA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your instincts(I personally would dump him).
2006-11-17 13:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋