How do i get over an ex whom i am still in love with????

Answer 1

There's no best way to get over an ex.The healing process takes its own course.i suggest you not to force your heart to move past your ex.coz if you do,you will realise that you dont have ultimate control over your heart and mind.when i broke up with my ex,i wanted to move on instantly,and forced my mind,but this made my situation worse.i went crazy by trying to control and stop thinking about him.But i realised that forgeting and letting go is somethin beyond my control.so i decided to accept all the feelings and thoughts as they are.everytime i accepted feelings,i was deeply hurt,journey of walking past my ex was extremely painful,but this pain was better than avoiding or controlling feelings.Best thing to do is to go where your mind takes,this will cause plenty of pain,until one day that your tears will become sweet than bitter.i didnt take any short cuts to avoid pain as i know its impossible.let your pain flow as tears.bring it all out,dont preserve anything inside,let it flow.learn the art of accepting pain willingly.One day you will find yourself relieved and detached from your ex's strings coz all the feelings are out of your heart and mind,they will no longer exist inside to hurt or threaten you in anyway.try to engage yourself in activities that fascinate you.hobbies or sports somethin that may help you forget about love and dating.I tried what i typed above,which hurt a lot in the beginning of the process,but now that i have nothin left inside to hurt,everything flew as a river in the form of tears,i feel so relieved and peaceful.i am no more attached to my ex.i am free.i am extremely happy.Good luck!.

Answer 2

trust me.you'll get over it eventually.i say it's more easier when you get to know that someone else likes you.any way, it's quite hard at first.i've been through this too.you just have to try to forget about him though it takes alot of time.but it's worth trying.i was really upset when i broke up with my boyfriend, and i still love him a bit.i also know that he's in love with some1 else.if you really love him,you must want to see him happy and you should know that, you won't be happy either when you find him unhappy,sharing a relationship with you.

"It takes a minute to have a crush on someone,
an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone...
but it takes a lifetime to forget someone."

"It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happy
with someone else, but it's more painful to know that
the one you love is unhappy with you. "

if you understand these lines,you'll get over your ex.good luck...

Answer 3

It's hard but you just have to try and stop thinking about it. Try talking to them and finding out why it ended, then if it's a problem with something you did, fix it and be better for the next person.

Answer 4

Try seeing other people. Keep yourself as busy as possible so you dont find yourself thinking about them. Go out with friends, have fun, live your life!!!!!!

Answer 5

cry a river build a bridge and get over it ... find someone else