Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

Married 6 years , have a 2 year old and a 6 month old. Was in a long distance relationship ONLY with my spouse before we got married. I am on parental leave from work until January. Feels like I am a housecleaner , errand boy , babysitter , cook , cleaner , slave etc... but not a husband. I resent her very much and I am tired of living this way... She denies there's any problem and scoots around my idea of marriage counciling. Any suggestions are appreciated.

2006-11-17 04:57:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently found a email dated in August that my husabnd forgot to delete telling his ex-wife how much he loves her and thinks about her everyday, they do not have any children together, their marriage only lasted a little over a year. I confronted him about the email as I was very upset, he said he wants to be be with me and that he knows it would never work with her. We have been married for 5 years, is this some kind of emotional affair?

2006-11-17 04:56:21 · 20 answers · asked by LadyNaomi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey guys, this girl i really like, who likes me back has recently started to get to me, she's always adding my friend (saying hes cuter than me)into the conversation,and im now to a point where im losing it, shes obviously trying to make me jeoulous, why?i dont know, but it hurts. Weve been to many lunches movies,and shes always touchy with me.share laughs all the time. im really annoyed she keeps adding my friend into convo, so i was thinking of giving the girl the silent treatment for a day or so, so 1 day without txt etc....will this make her realise i am hurt from what shes saying?....is it a good idea. I have been really close to her the past 3 weeks now.

2006-11-17 04:56:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my boyfriend of several years and started seeing someone soon after. I broke up with him because we were fighting all of the time. He is a good guy though. Now I find myself thinking about my ex all of the time. I haven't heard from him in something like seven months. I broke his heart when I broke up with him. I am still seeing the new guy but I always think of my ex. Is this normal? Has anyone else been through this? What should I do?

2006-11-17 04:55:33 · 8 answers · asked by forgot my real name 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's so rare they have hot women! Why is this? Alot of them are so fine?

2006-11-17 04:55:13 · 18 answers · asked by pigsrule25 1 in Singles & Dating

She even told me that girls only fantasize about romance not sex. I always thaught girls love it to have sex as we men do. She said she can sleep with any man and never feel to have sex with them. is that even possible?

Are women so different?

2006-11-17 04:54:41 · 22 answers · asked by Fiker_adragi_gobez 1 in Singles & Dating

iv liked this girl 4 sum time and i reacentl asked her out she said yes then she txtd me the following morning says shes not ready for a bf! but she has just recently slpit up with her long term bf how long shud i lieave it b4 i ask again!!!!

2006-11-17 04:54:08 · 10 answers · asked by Brad D 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 20 years now. I can't understand why it is that my husband will not stand up to his parents, brother, or sisters. It seems like it is ok for his wife, daughter and son to be upset, but heaven forbid making any waves with his side of the family. He has hurt his relationship with me, and both his children because of it. I just want reason why he can't stand up to them. He will always say, "I don't want to make any waves" or if his mother were to insult me he'll say, "it's just mom, she is truly ignorant and doesn't know any better, just ignore her" Or he doesn't want to fight with his brother over hurting our son by some of the crap he does. I just don't get it.

2006-11-17 04:53:20 · 16 answers · asked by goldensparkler61 4 in Family

I am twenty years old and my dad is claiming that I am not his. We had a dispute a few months ago. I would like to change my last name. If any one knows anything please response.

2006-11-17 04:51:48 · 7 answers · asked by good drummer bad guitarist 2 in Family

2006-11-17 04:51:36 · 1 answers · asked by royorme 1 in Friends

which is better?

2006-11-17 04:51:01 · 35 answers · asked by Starry Eyes 5 in Weddings

well me and this girl dated for 8 months...and she dumped me cause she said it wasnt working out...but she said she still loves me and i do got another chance just not at the right moment..she is obsessed with this other guy who just wants to get in her pants!! and one night when me and her went to youth group when i was walking away to go home she said wait and she was like i want to give you this she hugged me and kissed me and told me dont worry... we will prolly end up together again...but each day i cant get her out of my mind!! but she wants to get with that other guy but he is moving in december to arizona...and me and her are still going to a dance together wat should i do?? should i move on or wait?? i really want her back so bad! i will never be the same till i get her back!

2006-11-17 04:50:56 · 10 answers · asked by soviet_talion 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm dating a really great guy and he seems to like me and everything and things are going well. But...I have my ex bf's name tattooed on me (I know, I was young and a complete idiot). It's small and he wont be able to see it unless I'm, well, you know. Question is, do I need to tell him about this? There's a chance he might see it before I'm able to get it removed. By the way, my ex has the same name as him, if that makes a difference.

2006-11-17 04:50:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend dumped me 2 months ago. He brought lots of books and dvd's over to my house and never took them home and now i want them out of my house--they remind me of him. Should I return the stuff or give it to charity? If I return it to him, should I just leave it on his doorstep with no note? If I should leave a note what should I put in it? Should I call and ask him to come get it? I want to do the right thing and don't want to look pathetic. Help!

2006-11-17 04:49:54 · 26 answers · asked by colbysmom 1 in Singles & Dating

Mostly broke up with concrete guy, so tree guy coming over tonite to talk-have a few drinks-know tree guy for year or so-no dates cause of concrete guy, but tree guy is sexy as heck too, and prolly going to take care of urge alone after he leaves-so why not just let tree guy do it for me? not like he hasn't tried before-so that won't be a problem.
And for you 15 year olds-thats let him "hit it" preferably hard and often. so hate it when they answer-i don't know what your talking about.

2006-11-17 04:48:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you dump your boyfriend/girlfriend of 2 years if you realized the sex doesn't satisfy you? And when I say "doesn't satisfy you", I mean that is the most boring, least exciting thing you've ever done in your entire life. He does make me ***, but I can do that too (and maybe have more fun at it). Considering the rest of the relationship was perfectly ok.

The thing is it's always the same thing!!! I'm the only one bringing something new once in a while and I'm fed up... he could do everything the same way until he dies!
He has no iniciative (while we are at it) whatsoever and he doesn't even try to improve, bring new things into the bedroom... I mean he's the older one, he's the man, he should AT LEAST know what he's doing!

2006-11-17 04:47:03 · 23 answers · asked by mackenzie 3 in Singles & Dating

If you had one wish that you knew would come true, What would it be?

2006-11-17 04:46:32 · 20 answers · asked by Be wise 2 in Singles & Dating

about two years ago.
i was seeing this lad.He was my mother's boyfriend son
She stoped me seeing hem because of that and i think he does't like me no more because i think she told his dad in a arguement that i caught thrush of him but i don't think i did.
we sometimes talk to each other about things but i really want to say that i like you still but i get scared.Sometimes when he sees me he says hello and sometimes smiles i don't think he does like me anymore and if he does't then theres no point of me telling how i fell i'm 21 and he is 25 ,
please help give me some advise cause i really need it i'm hurting inside
i have posted question about him him
what shall i look for
before i go and tell him so i that make my self look stupid

2006-11-17 04:44:21 · 7 answers · asked by palmtreesareheaven 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex broke up acouple days ago and ended up getting back together two weeks later. Everything was going great and then one day he call me and tells me he is breaking up with me and wont tell me why. well he just called me today and told me that the reason he broke up with me was because when we had our two week break upp he ended up slleping with his ex and getting her pregnant and she said the only way she was going to keep the baby was if he broke up with me and went back out with her. she turned around and got an abortion and now he wants me back what do i do????

2006-11-17 04:44:12 · 26 answers · asked by crystalsbabigirl4eva 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to work with a guy who I became really good friends with. He was single, lived alone. I was married and going through a hard time with my husband. I confided in him with things that I probably shouldn't have, and maybe gave him the wrong impression. I discovered later that he wanted more than a friendship with me, so I slowly stopped talking to him. I cared about him as a friend, but because I was married, the relationship could never go any further than friends. Because I was well aware that he wanted more, I thought that breaking it off all together was the best thing to do.

It's been about 6 months since I last spoke to him. He used to work around the corner from me, and I would see him driving. Lately I haven't seen him, and he no longer lives at the same address. I still have his cell #, but I don't know if I should call him. I'm worried and I need to know if he is ok, but I am afraid of starting another "friendship" with him. Any suggestions?

2006-11-17 04:43:56 · 15 answers · asked by Kailey 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can I tell if a woman –whom I don't know– wants my package?

2006-11-17 04:43:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I haven't been in the same room much less same bedroom with my husband for a year now. I'm trying to save money for a divorce, but it may take another 4-5 months before I get the money. I just want to know if it's wrong to start a relationship with someone else?

2006-11-17 04:43:30 · 24 answers · asked by kelsmo1971 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a boyfriend treat me like crap. He was very mentally controlling and mentally abusive, and after we broke up, he continued to talk to me, knowing how I felt about him, torturing me. When we broke up, he said "if it wasnt you, it would have been someone else" Why do men lie to get what they want? How could he be so cold, yet after the fact, talk to me like nothing ever happened? Why do men play women? I am a very nice, smart, attractive woman and I completed college. He had a degree, but in a dead-end job and he wasnt very attractive. Why did he have someone like me, yet use me just for what he wanted, not caring about me?

2006-11-17 04:43:28 · 25 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

I'd love to wear the perfect dress but I won't spend thousands on something I'll wear once!

2006-11-17 04:43:20 · 9 answers · asked by Jaclyn 1 in Weddings

Mine is blue because I like sky and its blue.I like ocean and its blue.

2006-11-17 04:43:08 · 21 answers · asked by prakashanand 2 in Friends

what step would you take if you wanna have a relationship with him?

2006-11-17 04:42:46 · 1 answers · asked by peterpenny1028 1 in Singles & Dating

this is the continuation of my first query..my loverz thinking that loving frd's sis is a kinda betray.he told me that am a kid..although hez only 6 yrs elder to me.hez not intrested with love it seems...when i was chatting with him once he told me tht he likes me..and my final question is will he love me in this situation

2006-11-17 04:42:40 · 2 answers · asked by rani.... 1 in Friends

WELL TELL ME WHAT U THINK AND ILL TELL U IF ITS TRUE

2006-11-17 04:42:04 · 11 answers · asked by VERONICA L 1 in Friends

Bad idea to talk to bf's ex gf of 6 months. I was with my bf 4 3 years, seperated 4 2 and now we reunited working things out. I was in a relationship for a year and a half n he was wit some1 4 6 months. we both loved eachother in our previous relationship-now im getting jealous n was wondering if i should friend or send message to her on myspace..what should i say? should i just be friendly n say something or just leave it alone! i know he was only wit her 4 6 months n i was wit him 4 3 years but he loved her..i dont want to keep nething from my bf and she is prob gna tell him..i just wanna make friends wit her-y? idk. but i found pics of them on webshots n it made me sad. the reason i want 2 add her as a friend is bc her page is private so i cant c it. am i out of control...i should just b confident that we've been together 4 3 years seperated and reunited...which obviously we're still in love but if she wanted 2 get back wit him..would he take her? ah im so confused!

2006-11-17 04:41:31 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

The man I've been dating for 6 and a half months, I see about 3 or 4 times a week and I feel like I don't have enough me time. I love spending time with him but that's just how I'm starting to feel now which is why I never brought it up to him before. I want to spend less time with time with him so that I don't feel smothered, but I also don't want him to feel like I don't want to be with him. I want to be with him.
So I'm asking how can I bring it up and ask that we spend a little less time together so he doesn't get the wrong idea (that I don't want to be with him and am slowly distancing myself or something negative like that)?
Thanks for answering.

2006-11-17 04:41:07 · 10 answers · asked by hearts99992000 5 in Singles & Dating