well me and this girl dated for 8 months...and she dumped me cause she said it wasnt working out...but she said she still loves me and i do got another chance just not at the right moment..she is obsessed with this other guy who just wants to get in her pants!! and one night when me and her went to youth group when i was walking away to go home she said wait and she was like i want to give you this she hugged me and kissed me and told me dont worry... we will prolly end up together again...but each day i cant get her out of my mind!! but she wants to get with that other guy but he is moving in december to arizona...and me and her are still going to a dance together wat should i do?? should i move on or wait?? i really want her back so bad! i will never be the same till i get her back!
2006-11-17 04:50:56 · 10 answers · asked by soviet_talion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are being used. Love can be blinding. You need to let her go, she is not the only woman in the world. But if you keep treating her as "Ms. Universe" she will keep treating you the same way. You said she is obsessed with another guy. Let her go because you are obsessed with her. Maybe if the other guy hurts her, then she will rebound to you, but any man with pride would leave hear alone under any circumstances. But if you love her and you can't live without her, tell her and if she decides she wants the other guy, let her go!!!
2006-11-17 04:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good words. When you say "practice" do you mean "strive to improve?" Then, yes, that is my credo. And, keep in mind that many who have changed the world with compassion, before and after, have urged the same thing. It's very simple, really. The separation between you and me is a construct at best and an obstacle to peace to say the least. Once a person realizes that they have the ability to make another's life more like heaven or hell, many begin to strive to add love. Obviously, if we all loved each other we would all have a pretty damn good life. But love is difficult to define and harder to achieve. So we practice.
2016-05-21 22:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just going back to you cause the other guys moving away and she knows your a nice sweet guy who would take her back believe me i KNOW 8 months is a long time and you really got to know her but she's just gonna throw you in the trash when she finds another guy. I know you'll miss her and everything but just try to find a new girl to replace her asap and you'll forget the other girl ever existed
It happened to me but i got through it this way
2006-11-17 04:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want her back that bad, then, just wait. But then she's going to see she can do this to you anytime. You're just going to be her back up boyfriend, when there's noone else, and she's bored. You're getting played. You need to move on and find someone else who wants you and just you.
2006-11-17 04:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight for the things you ******* believe in.
if you want her then go for her.
i don't get this girl, why do she says she loves u, and that u 2 will be together but also says she's interested in another guy. It seems to me this girl likes you, and maybe u should go for it.
2006-11-17 04:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the same way with me and my bf. you should wait for her. if she tells you she doesn't want you, she'll tell you and break ur heart. ur gf can't love two guys at the same time unless it's God, her dad and her bf!! kinda compicated! i know how ya feel!
2006-11-17 04:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her that much then forget about the other guy and try and get her back
2006-11-17 04:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by kelcihrn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say let her go. you will eventually find someone who will like you and only you.
2006-11-17 04:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can only say one thing she s using u as a substitute .i m sure u can get sum 1 better who likes u for wat u r .
2006-11-17 04:58:39 · answer #9 · answered by ash_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch her.
2006-11-17 04:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋