Bad idea to talk to bf's ex gf of 6 months. I was with my bf 4 3 years, seperated 4 2 and now we reunited working things out. I was in a relationship for a year and a half n he was wit some1 4 6 months. we both loved eachother in our previous relationship-now im getting jealous n was wondering if i should friend or send message to her on myspace..what should i say? should i just be friendly n say something or just leave it alone! i know he was only wit her 4 6 months n i was wit him 4 3 years but he loved her..i dont want to keep nething from my bf and she is prob gna tell him..i just wanna make friends wit her-y? idk. but i found pics of them on webshots n it made me sad. the reason i want 2 add her as a friend is bc her page is private so i cant c it. am i out of control...i should just b confident that we've been together 4 3 years seperated and reunited...which obviously we're still in love but if she wanted 2 get back wit him..would he take her? ah im so confused!
2006-11-17 04:41:31 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did not know this girl when they started going out. I was with him for 3 years then dated some1 else..as well as he did- a girl 4 six months but i know he loved her. should i message her on myspace telling her im reuninting wit him and i just wanted to say hi bc i know he cared about u 2 or is that pathethic..i just wanna know if he would talk about me to her..bc it would mean he really loves me alot. i know we were together 4 3 years serperated for 2 and now reuniting again. do i just sound insecure n just leave the girl alone? i would wanna know if she wanted 2 get back with him if he would leave me n go for her. this is tough. the thing that got to me was when i saw pics of them on webshots..it killed me. i wanna know what this girl has that made him want her. i know he loves me 100% but im still curious if he has feelings for her, if thats the case i no longer want to work things out wit him..how could i find out? message her..hey does brian still tell u he loves u? i dunno!!
2006-11-17 04:53:28 · update #1
This is too complicated for words.
It isn't worth the time and effort to talk to any guy's ex girlfriends.
Dump this loser...
2006-11-17 04:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is not any reason to be jealous because of the fact you have already got boyfriend. Please dont be jealous because of the fact you nevertheless have him. Envy can poison your relationship and would smash it. That doesnt rely in the adventure that your boyfriend nevertheless talks to his ex. That he tests on his ex does no longer recommend he does not love you. warning: in case you proceed being jealous, you will desire to get your boyfriend interested in his ex because of the fact i'm specific he does not prefer to be caught with you. i do no longer care in the adventure that your boyfriend is jealous that his ex has a sparkling boyfriend. that's his problem and he can no longer have his ex back. you will desire to attend to your self. do no longer lose your freedom. Dont be pushy and jealous. Jealous is a foul well being for you. i'm specific which you nevertheless love your ex and you will't stop loving them. i do no longer see why love is inaccurate. you may no longer have ONE individual love you on your existence. only have many human beings love you. What approximately kin? Your perfect acquaintances? think of heavily. Love and jealous are actually not comparable. So do no longer stop him from loving his ex and don't overlook that he nevertheless loves you. have confidence him.
2016-10-15 16:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as u and ur bf are able 2 talk- let him know how you feel. if them remaining friends is a problem to u then let him know why. its not like she any real competition because you 2 have years together and you are back together so she need to take her clue and move on. if she dont then i might try her myspace page and let her know that she out of line otherwise you just gonna worry ur self sick for nothin. good luck to you and your bf
2006-11-17 04:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by just askin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its one thing to go out with your friends bf if it did not work out and they went out for a month or so but if you dated him for 3 years shes not a good friend. especially if she knows that you still have feelings for him.
2006-11-17 04:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go, why drag up something that you cannot change and may make you even more upset! move on with life and let this past few months just die....
2006-11-17 04:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is to do, not to talk
2006-11-17 04:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST LET IT GO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-17 04:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by Homeboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋