My boyfriend dumped me 2 months ago. He brought lots of books and dvd's over to my house and never took them home and now i want them out of my house--they remind me of him. Should I return the stuff or give it to charity? If I return it to him, should I just leave it on his doorstep with no note? If I should leave a note what should I put in it? Should I call and ask him to come get it? I want to do the right thing and don't want to look pathetic. Help!
2006-11-17 04:49:54 · 26 answers · asked by colbysmom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No.
The jerk will get the wrong idea and think that your attempt to return his stuff is a ploy to get to see him again.
Put all his junk in a cardboard box and store it in your basement.
When you are over the pain of the breakup, then give it all away
to charity.
Good luck!
2006-11-17 04:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Since he left you I would put it all in a box and keep it stored out of site out of mind. That way if he has the nerve to ask for it back you can have him pick it up out side of your front door with out a note of course. I would hold on to it for a few months to see if he wants it back then if you don't want the stuff either give it to a charity.
2006-11-17 04:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's easy to get to his house, leave them there. If it's a problem, tell him has has 5 days to get his things or you'll have a charity pick them up. If he schedules a pick-up day/time, leave the stuff on the your doorstep and don't answer the door.
2006-11-17 04:53:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trully... Sell them in E.Bay
You don't have to see him. 2 months is enough time for him to come back for them.
If he calls and ask for his stuff you just tell him you threw them away.
And with the money you make out if this stuff go and have fun having a new hairstyle or inviting friends to the movies
2006-11-17 04:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by xavier_del_rio 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He did the dumping so you would be justified in tossing it or giving it away. It has been 2 months and he hasn't contacted you to get the stuff back. I'm sure he figures it's gone by now.
2006-11-17 04:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah the best thing to do is just give him back his things back Leave it on his door step and dont leave a note.
2006-11-17 04:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by Riyonna D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He dumped you and made you feel like garbage. I would put his stuff to the curb and call him up and tell him that, that is where it is. If he wants it he will come and get it. Let him argue with the other people that are trying to get away with his stuff. It's not your problem anymore.
Good luck at whatever it is that you do!!
2006-11-17 04:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm an company believer in treating all of us how i might prefer to be taken care of. i might placed the products in a container and return them. the two drop them off at his place of living or mail them.
2016-10-04 01:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call and tell him to come get his stuff. No real need to go out of your way. If he doesn't come by the end of the week, then throw it out/donate it.
Or if it would be too painful to have to see him, then put them somewhere (safe) and tell him to get them there.
2006-11-17 04:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by wtkincaid 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call him up on the phone and give him say a two week time period to pick up the rest of his stuff and then tell him that if he hasn't picked his stuff up by your deadline that you are going to donate his stuff to the salvation army or good will
2006-11-17 05:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋