Family & Relationships - 17 November 2006

im still a virgen ma question is should i do it? ( i mean have u know what ?)

2006-11-17 04:08:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 04:08:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My ex is about to move in with his girlfriend - only 7 months after we separated. She has been introduced to our son - who is 9 - as a "friend". Two days ago she gave him a b-day present. When he told me about it he looked so guilty about it that I immediately told him it was okay to like this woman. It hurt like hell but I did it for his sake. Last night he asked me why we divorced and begged for us to get back together (he does this at least every 2nd night). I told him as gently as I could that it would not happened. I explained to him that mom and dad decided that we could not live together because we were not getting along and that we were moving on with our lives. I then told him that his Dad's "friend" is actually a girlfriend. I did not tell him about them moving in together. He got angry - he was upset that his Dad lied to him. I told him that his Dad still loved him and would always be a part of his life. Did I do the right thing? I was tired of lying to my son.

2006-11-17 04:08:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm talking about when they only read the questions and skim over the details and don't hear your side of the story. I asked why my bf no longer wants to spend time with just me and always includes her kids. I said I don't mind spending time with all of them but miss a little one on one adult time. I got called all sorts of names and was told to just deal with it. They obviously didn't read all of the details because I said she even took them with to a "R" rated movie when she has plenty of family members who can babysit.

2006-11-17 04:08:19 · 19 answers · asked by SHELTIELUVER 3 in Friends

I have been buying my wife flowers every week for about a month now. I have noticed that she is a diffrent person since I started this. It a very good $10 dollar a week "investment" lol. She say she feels loved more when she gets them. I'm afraid they are becoming "old hat" What else could I buy her with/instead of the flowers?

2006-11-17 04:08:05 · 13 answers · asked by timmy43410 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and i are to be married next yr.been together 4ys.me single never married,he divorced for 6yrs with one child.he has a huge(27k) debt from divorce ex really took him to the cleaners.he has asked me to help(payoff) with his debt.we both make about the same amount of money (65k yr)and spilt all the household bills but he has a huge child support payment and i don't.i know this sounds mean but i just feel since he CHOSE to have a child with a women he said he never really loved then HE should be the one who has to pay for his mistake.i told him no i wanted to save my money for retairment and he said ok but things are not the same between us now.i know he thinks i'm selfish but i just have a hard time paying of such a huge debt that was cuased by his exwife.please be honest with me im beggining to think i was wrong.

2006-11-17 04:07:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and i are to be married next yr.been together 4ys.me single never married,he divorced for 6yrs with one child.he has a huge(27k) debt from divorce ex really took him to the cleaners.he has asked me to help(payoff) with his debt.we both make about the same amount of money (65k yr)and spilt all the household bills but he has a huge child support payment and i don't.i know this sounds mean but i just feel since he CHOSE to have a child with a women he said he never really loved then HE should be the one who has to pay for his mistake.i told him no i wanted to save my money for retairment and he said ok but things are not the same between us now.i know he thinks i'm selfish but i just have a hard time paying of such a huge debt that was cuased by his exwife.please be honest with me im beggining to think i was wrong.

2006-11-17 04:07:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was thinking of waiting until just after Christmas. I was going to buy a gift card at Macy's for her and put only $1.00 on it. I would write $1,000.00 on the gift card envelope.

This will get her all hot and bothered and wild in bed after Christmas morning. Then I'll lower the hammer later before she finds out the card is worthless. This way, I'll have company and action through the holidays. Plus she is cooking a holiday meal for me. I want to get a gift out of her since I took her to dinner a bunch of times.

Should I change the locks in case she won't give the key back and put her stuff in the hall way..?

2006-11-17 04:06:07 · 24 answers · asked by everyyoungwomansdream 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm deeply in love with a girl and she doesnt understand why I allow her to try to make things work out with her former boyfriend, I told her that it was important that this work out or the relationship
between her and I simply wont have a future if any at all. We talked today and because he's coming around more she felt its better that we be friends I agreed, with the realization that I might just lose her. Im a true believer that this is the best for the both of us so she would have a clearer understanding of whom she wants to be with, is this the wrong thing to do ?,or am I right
she truly feels that what I'm willing to do isnt normal, but i just have this feeling inside me that by allowing her to try to iron things out with her former boyfriend is the best way, if I try to make her stay away from him and he's comes around she'll probably would done it behind my back. Need help please anyone that has gone through this please tell me I would really like a womans point of view.

2006-11-17 04:05:06 · 5 answers · asked by Douglas N 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 04:04:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband always defends his mother actions and try to make her right all the time and I was wrong even if it is the opposite!!!!!!!!

2006-11-17 04:04:40 · 18 answers · asked by Yahoo User 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just read a Q, and it really got me pi$$ed. What makes it ok for a girl to say any of the following (assuming they truly mean it, and I am sure there are guys who say this crap, too):

This can't work out, or I don't deserve you, or Why would you even want to be with me???

etc, etc, etc

Why can't we let our bf/gfs make their own decisions about how they feel about us? My gf told me this a couple of times and, while flattering in a macabre way, I thought it was selfish to be honest, that she doesn't want to let me make up my own mind about her.

2006-11-17 04:04:38 · 10 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 04:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by just_sexy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was chilling at this outdoor cafe when I saw a Babe walking, she had a stick with her and I realized she was blind. So I stood up and followed her admiring her assets and looking down at my mirror shoes when near her.

2006-11-17 04:03:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-17 04:02:52 · 12 answers · asked by just_sexy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 04:02:05 · 32 answers · asked by just_sexy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 04:01:13 · 23 answers · asked by just_sexy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 04:00:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well i told this boy i liked him he said sorry but i dont feel the same about you..... so then i was like ok then..... he told me he didnt like this one girl and now he just asked her out ..... what should i do?

2006-11-17 03:59:50 · 10 answers · asked by Taylor A 2 in Friends

Men are easy to get but hard to keep....


Thanks for your views and have a great weekend... (",)

2006-11-17 03:59:36 · 15 answers · asked by DiL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-17 03:59:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my girlfrien of 11 1/2 months moved from chicago to dubuque iowa. which is not that far. and she is hanging out with this 15 y/o ,and she is 18. but she just says she is just friends with him. but he is really the only friend that she has. he gives her rides home from school and he is over her house alot. she even tells me that he thinks its disrespectful for her to talk to me in his presence. so if i call and he's around she wont answer. or if i call her house and i ask if she's busy she will say yeah. and i would call her back and she will tell me that he was over. i always thought that if someone loved you, it wouldnt matter who is around when you say it. shouldn't my phone call matter more than what this little kid thinks, especially if they are just friends and have no relationship like me and her do ? just yesterday, i called her and she said she was gettting ready to leave and i said i love you like 4 times, and she wouldnt say it back. help!

2006-11-17 03:59:06 · 11 answers · asked by lance g 1 in Singles & Dating

as much as women do? ive had a few guys that have said they dont like kissing....

2006-11-17 03:58:17 · 56 answers · asked by Nessa<3 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I split up for about two months but we stay in touch. Everytime we talk he questions me about having a new BF and accuses me of sleeping around, he says he is joking but lately he has been saying it alot. What really bothers me is he cheated on me twice and left me for someone else and gets an attitude with me if he thinks im with someone else. I am trying to be a friend to him but is it worth it?

2006-11-17 03:58:05 · 13 answers · asked by mrclas 1 in Singles & Dating

comes home late from work looking like she just got it and expect me to make her dinner. It not my fault she chose to be a lady of the night but the money is good should I just buck up and make her the food ?

2006-11-17 03:57:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

From your expirences is it normal to over think things when you are attracted to a girl. That you have only just met.

If so how did you stop over thinking things and start talking to the girl.

I know this is really a guy question but girls you can say if it is the same for you when you are attracted to a guy and how you over come it.

2006-11-17 03:57:23 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

im away from him in another state and im only able to spend time with him on the weekends. when i finally do get to see him his sexual appetite isnt up to part as it should be.

2006-11-17 03:56:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he told me i have a rare condition called "camel toe rot" it is eating me alive.....i will not make it....he gave me a few days....so enjoy me while u can cause i will be gone soon....
oh and what do u think ma daddy should do when im gone? should he stuff me and use me as a lawn ornament? or just cook me and have a BIG thanksgiving feast with the rest of the family?????...im leaning more towards the lawn ornament...cause i dont EVEN want to see Aunt Bertha's insides....id rather not know where that awful gas coes from....ick!

2006-11-17 03:54:51 · 18 answers · asked by Trailer Trash Barbie 1 in Singles & Dating

what are guys attracted to...... i need a email friend!
MPike@msad43.org

2006-11-17 03:54:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like one guy. He likes me too. But I think we are really too different. He has to study a lot now. he is preparing fot the university. I am a very busy person too. I study and work. I think I should stay away from him. Because he needs to study, not spending time with me. Same is about me. Plus he is 3 years younger.

2006-11-17 03:54:10 · 6 answers · asked by ALONE_GIRL 2 in Singles & Dating